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why the other people make comment about our character

Postby cany_gul » Wed Oct 15, 2003 10:13 am

I am human and I know that I have faults about my life..
I am happy because of it. But why do the others make comments about my personality. Leave me alone with my faults.
I think nobody has right to speak about the others life.
generally in society we are trying to be a different, sophisticated but when will we get rid of speaking about the others life :evil: ,
don't analyze me!
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Re: why the other people make comment about our character

Postby Chet Baker » Tue Mar 22, 2005 6:22 pm

cany_gul wrote:I am human and I know that I have faults about my life..
I am happy because of it. But why do the others make comments about my personality. Leave me alone with my faults.
I think nobody has right to speak about the others life.
generally in society we are trying to be a different, sophisticated but when will we get rid of speaking about the others life :evil: ,
don't analyze me!


You only need to ignore what they say about you. Actually, you can do whatever you want to do provided that it is lawful and doesn't affect others.
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Postby orange » Thu Mar 24, 2005 2:33 am

I wholly agree with what Chet Baker talked to you. Let ignor all of things you don't care. I'll make you feel better.
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Postby shokin » Thu Mar 24, 2005 2:45 am

Yes, you have to ignore them, or more exactly, to ignore their comments. They have a problem, not you.

But these people are not the majority, lucky. They like separating good and evil so simply and associate beautiful-good awful-evil... very closed.

Act, do what you want to do. Otherwise you will become like them. Don't stop to respect them.

Try once to tell them what you think about them or to ask them what you want to know (if you want to know about them). To ensure yourself about the reason why they leave you. Did they tell you why ?

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Postby ayaonoki » Fri Sep 29, 2006 5:10 am

I think that you are great.
Each person thoughts are different,too and.
But I think that I can see what oneself did not notice if I hear an opinion of a person.
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Postby jeffcox » Fri Sep 29, 2006 5:32 am

It depends on who is saying it. Why they are saying it and what they are saying.

Some people gossip, to make themselves more important or to make you look ridiculous.

Others try to give advice because they think that you have some kind of disadvantage.

You have to be courageous. Consider what they are saying and agree with it or forget it. You have to be self-confident and know who you are.
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Postby chrysan » Sat Sep 30, 2006 4:19 pm

I think what jeffcos said is very right. If what others commented is the truth,you should accept or correct it, otherwise you can forget it.
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Postby Danyet » Sat Sep 30, 2006 5:51 pm

When people say things about you that you don't like you should begin to roll up your shirt sleeves and say, "You got a problem with me, Bucko?"

I guarantee that people will stop talking that way about you!
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Postby Admiral » Sat Sep 30, 2006 6:30 pm

:mrgreen: why always so rude :mrgreen:
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Postby Danyet » Sat Sep 30, 2006 11:56 pm

I can’t help it. I have a propensity for being bad!

(You English learners should look that word up, it is a good one for you to use!)
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