its not a good habit for those who are facing this problem... but its a good habit for those who uses this normally !!!
if these people are really doing this to get more and more details about a person, then its fine... but if someone is doing to specially someone, thats annoying...
but due to this habit, we can not suggest that to avoide such type of friends, cuz every person must have at least one bad habit...
so if he has a habit which is annoying for you, he must have other habits that you like as well...
so my suggestion is to be candid to such type of persons, and when ever you feel that you are uncomfortable... just say candidly/smartly NO ANALYSIS !!!
do u think it's a good habit?
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caiqinqian
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tahrer
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if you know that is your friend is good, just try having positive thinking, than you do what is more suitable according your idea, after taking summary of all our idea.caiqinqian wrote:Thanks babycricket,mahboob.I have had a long talk with my friend and told him my ture feeling.there are so many difference between persons and everyone has themselve's thinking way,I hope him don't to easily jugde a person just by himself thinking way.Frankness is need between friends.
let's try than inform us the result...
hope you will be succes.
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Luke CN
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Nice address!tahrer wrote:yea, it depend on the purpose,what is his purpose of observing other people,
if the purpose is to know character, performance, attitude, of the person in order that he can communicate , interact perfecly with him, I think that is ok.
exsample: I will not joking with my friend A,because I know she is serious person, she will get angry if I joke her.
How can I know she doesn't like joking,of course I have done observation, that why I know her character, an her attitude,
but if we observe other people to search what is his mistake, his weakness,and inform him, or anybody, it will make trouble for him.he will feel somebody always observing, evaluating, appraise.of course it will make uncomportable and nervous.
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Would like to learn more from you.