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a girl usually do chat with everyone, when the time comes a boy wants to get more close to her and requested to talk on the phone...
she denyed and said, i dont talk on the phone, cuz its not good...
does it make sense ?

mahboob wrote:a girl usually do chat with everyone, when the time comes a boy wants to get more close to her and requested to talk on the phone...
she denyed and said, i dont talk on the phone, cuz its not good...
does it make sense ?

if that's what she wants, may be you should respect that.

or maybe.. she is fooling around with u.. lol

there is some reason that we have to analyse why she doesn't want to receive telephone,
maybe she still not belive you, or still not like you much yet , if the reason is like that, yea of course we have to respect it.I am sure by the time she will allow u to telephone her as long as you care with your online comunication.
-tahrer-

thanks for the replies from all of you

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mahboob wrote:a girl usually do chat with everyone, when the time comes a boy wants to get more close to her and requested to talk on the phone...
she denyed and said, i dont talk on the phone, cuz its not good...
does it make sense ?

yes it is logical.

may be its too early for her to talk with u over the phone. she hasnt gain the confidence that she could rely on u by giving her phone number.

to be honest with ya...i take time to talk with a person specially guys over the phone, it doesnt matter he is from my real life or the net life.

world is not fair and so do human being (sometime)

it's the nature of girls
:( :P e

mahboob wrote:a girl usually do chat with everyone, when the time comes a boy wants to get more close to her and requested to talk on the phone...
she denyed and said, i dont talk on the phone, cuz its not good...
does it make sense ?

Looks like you're describing me. Recently, an EC friend requested me to talk on the phone and I said no for a simple reason: I just don't like to talk on the phone and I totally dread to talk on the phone IN ENGLISH. I just don't feel confident I've talked to most of my internet pals by phone but not in English. Anyway, boys and girls, I'm slowly changing my mind, call me anytime! ;)

I can´t belive it Dixie, Do you are a little shy? me too.
I only talk by phone with my father, maybe one or two coworkers, one or two friends.
Sometimes I´d like to have lot of friends to talk with, even in English, but I never stay to much time.

take this role. DO NOT BE HURRY WITH GIRLS.

girls are like glass

you have to take care with them

try to keep them on your hand and dont let them to fall because when they fall they break......


you just wite chat her.... by the time as taher said she gonna to like you ...

mahboob wrote:a girl usually do chat with everyone, when the time comes a boy wants to get more close to her and requested to talk on the phone...
she denyed and said, i dont talk on the phone, cuz its not good...
does it make sense ?

I think you dont need to take a great care about it.It's vey normal for girls.
But, you'd think carefully in other sides,why,why she denyed your request?she chats with everyone,apparently, she is familiar with everyone and you.And now,she denyed your request,I think it shows that she didn't take notice of you,maybe!And maybe, your request was sudden for her,her deny was a girl's instinct.
So,her deny doesn't represent your heart was denyed.If you still have your request ,you'd do hardly,first of all, you'd attract her notice of you,much care about you!!And then,close to her by step,you'll succeed at finally.At last,she won't only your phone friend,maybe more!!!!
:D

Got no idea what to say 'bout this topic. Girl related. Out of my depth. :).

it is quite nature.I have the same experience of denying a guy to talk or chat by phone.I found I have no topic to talk with him by phone and it's strange cuz we're good friends in Internet or sms.He called several times and I felt embarrassed I have nothing to say.And we just talk in less than 5 minutes by phone.
so,don't worry!It's nature of girl!