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When you said something wrong

Postby pBaL » Tue Mar 15, 2005 3:23 am

Being ordinary people and noone is perfect so we can’t avoid this problem. When you said something wrong to your parents or your sister or your friends….etc. what would you do than? Saying sorry is not easy after hurting them by your words without intention?
just say "I am sorry", is it enough? :?:
Every body has one’s own way and I would like to hear it.
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Postby shokin » Tue Mar 15, 2005 12:05 pm

It depends... did you say lies ? or were you sincerely wrong ?

the best thing is to accept at once your error, and to tell your embarassment and excuse to the person (or the people).

Just be sincere (one or many words doesn't matter), in words, in face, in acts.

It is heavy no to say any feeling. (culpability, hatred, sadness, for example).

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Postby pBaL » Wed Mar 16, 2005 3:59 am

Personally, I will do something to let them know that I realized my mistakes, I will look deep inside their eyes and give a wink ;) to them.
of course after saying sorry :mrgreen:
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Postby shokin » Wed Mar 16, 2005 9:57 am

The message must be clear and expressed, not only suggested. The person wants to be sure.

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Postby Chet Baker » Thu Mar 17, 2005 6:17 am

I think "sorry" is enough, if you don't mean to hurt. otherwise, what are u suppose to do?

If you say something with intend to hurt the others and want to make it up subsequently, that's is an different question. You may doing something more than "sorry".
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Postby authorityquery » Sat Jun 11, 2005 5:02 pm

When I say something wrong, ofcourse I'll say sorry, and I'll never do my faults again. I have to make evryone believe that I tell the truth, prove that.
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Postby lekimtoan » Sun Jun 12, 2005 4:10 pm

Say sorry .After that,you can't do anythings because they still don't believe in you .Time passes that will prove your change,i think.Making mistakes,that's ok,cause we are sin.but to realize things sin,and change,it's more difficult.
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Sorry is the best policy

Postby Shazzam » Mon Jun 13, 2005 5:49 am

Definately say sorry as long as you mean it most people will accept that we all make mistakes. Sorry is taking responsibility for them.

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Postby lekimtoan » Mon Jun 13, 2005 6:37 am

Sorry is respons not mean that they will forgive you.Forgiving is through time,because they need to see you changed
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Postby blossom » Sun Jun 19, 2005 3:50 am

Hi friend

I think that saying sorry ofcourse is not the solution . BUT the best way to remove your faults is to dont make it again .

if for exmaple your mother upset from you for a certain reason try dont make this again .

Good luck :wink:
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