How to make friend easily?

markfish · Post by **markfish** » Wed May 10, 2006 7:41 am

I like to be friends with people who are considerate. It makes you feel comfortable to be around them. To make friends is easy , but it is hard to become close friends. It is a blessing to have one or two best friends in life. Some people may have alot friends while some may only have one small group of friends. However , it is important that you know you have one friend cares about you. :)

wonderfulmay · Post by **wonderfulmay** » Sat May 13, 2006 4:42 pm

markfish wrote:I like to be friends with people who are considerate. It makes you feel comfortable to be around them. To make friends is easy , but it is hard to become close friends. It is a blessing to have one or two best friends in life. Some people may have alot friends while some may only have one small group of friends. However , it is important that you know you have one friend cares about you. :)

markfish
I agree with you. I have friends so much but I don't have any close friend.

sonyym · Post by **sonyym** » Mon May 15, 2006 12:42 pm

Remember to carry out your promise .
never broke yr promise .
sometimes, only one chance, u could make one friend or lose one.

harvester · Post by **harvester** » Tue May 30, 2006 6:15 pm

You have to understand the value of sympathy and share. They are real gifts for friendship, I think.

StevenMc · Post by **StevenMc** » Sat Jun 03, 2006 7:16 pm

Try to be friendly to everyone. It's the most important thing

wanderer · Post by **wanderer** » Fri Aug 04, 2006 4:13 am

wonderfulmay wrote: markfish
I agree with you. I have friends so much but I don't have any close friend.

Me, too. How i can make a friend to become a close friend?

jakeson · Post by **jakeson** » Sat Aug 05, 2006 5:40 am

Hmmm... To be a close and real friend must undergo a nurturing process. It doesn't happen in just a snap of a finger. It takes a period of time to purify, to mature. It has no conditions. To be a real friend is to be yourself, no pretentions. Sensitivity is one big factor.

I have a lot of friends, but I can count on my fingers those real, close, brotherly like friends. They're the ones who had been at my side even at the deepest moment of my life. They are the ones who help you lighten your burdens, if not fully carry your cross.

Friendship is a grace, a blessing, a gift from Heavens above.

Seafarer · Post by **Seafarer** » Sat Aug 05, 2006 12:30 pm

Well,treating people well and to open your heart for them don't mean that u will get always good things.
You can even lose more than you can gain for the name of friendship. Just put a certain distance between your life and the people whom you think to be friends with. If they are honest enough, your heart will slowly say "yeah"
Indeed, throughout your life you don't have to have lots of close friends around you. Two or three is an enough number for close friends.

vanessa · Post by **vanessa** » Wed Aug 09, 2006 1:55 am

To me, it's enough to have one best friend in my life. But it's not easy.

chiemdu · Post by **chiemdu** » Wed Aug 09, 2006 5:04 pm

i think just one phrase to make friends easily:
" listen to their heart and also yours"