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Too confused to be a friend

Postby Ms.A.Z » Sun Dec 18, 2005 7:52 am

What would you do if you wanted to make a friendship with a person who is too confused to be your friend or to be any ones friend because she/he is afraid to get emotionaly attached or afraid to get hurt. :shock: ..Funny but true...And yet at the same time he/she is soo sweet,caring,understanding soo easy to talk to!
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Postby Admiral » Sun Dec 18, 2005 8:49 am

Invite him/her to an alcohol party.
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Postby mr_Love » Sun Dec 18, 2005 9:39 am

well,,,,

make your self that you are intersted in her/him..

i mean ,show him\her, that yuo both are friends!!!!

take care about him !!!

be happy with his\her happiness....

sorrow with his\her sadness!!!
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Postby chayedan » Tue Dec 20, 2005 2:59 am

Be spontaneous,and you may succeed!
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Postby Rui » Wed Dec 21, 2005 1:58 pm

i guess we are all a little like that person you are talking about :lol:
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Postby MissLT » Wed Dec 21, 2005 8:42 pm

Rui wrote:i guess we are all a little like that person you are talking about :lol:

Bravo for speaking a sentence that is so right! :wink:
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Postby Ms.A.Z » Thu Dec 22, 2005 7:22 am

LennyeTran wrote:
Rui wrote:i guess we are all a little like that person you are talking about :lol:

Bravo for speaking a sentence that is so right! :wink:


Hello guys,

I agree with you. :roll: ...even i don't want to get emotionally attached with any one b'coz later on I get hurt very badly..but when I fall I stand back and move on..it's hard but not impossible...... :wink:
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Postby Rui » Thu Dec 22, 2005 10:30 am

Ms.A.Z wrote:
LennyeTran wrote:
Rui wrote:i guess we are all a little like that person you are talking about :lol:

Bravo for speaking a sentence that is so right! :wink:


Hello guys,

I agree with you. :roll: ...even i don't want to get emotionally attached with any one b'coz later on I get hurt very badly..but when I fall I stand back and move on..it's hard but not impossible...... :wink:


well, welcome to the real world my friend... our live it's not a mathematic problem, remember that you are alive now but you cannot be in a few seconds, there's many things we can't control, and our feelings about other persons is one of them, if you like to be with her/him today… I guess the best choice you can do is to be, forget about the future and enjoy the moment, otherwise you will never have someone.
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Postby Shazzam » Thu Dec 22, 2005 10:22 pm

Sometimes it is all about trust. This person sounds like they have been hurt and so they are scared of making a bad choice again.

Once this person trusts you as a friend everything will change. You just have to be patient and give this person the time that they need to trust. You are getting to know each other whilst this is happening anyway, so it is all good. :wink:
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Postby shokin » Thu Dec 22, 2005 10:24 pm

Never force this person.

Mutual valorizing !

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