tikay wrote:so there are three who dont like the way I do things ...good to know. (cast your vote then, why not?) Maybe you should check all of my posts that no one answers... are they not shunning me?
I am sincere at least in wanting to know if I am wanted in here.
why is that so hard to understand?
BESIDES everyone in here is looking for attention
...what makes me special? nothing...polls are for making...
I just want to know why people dont answer many of my posts and they are so busy answering others.
The Avoidance tactic is cowardly...if you get my drift either say you dont like what I am saying (disagree)or ???? say anything !
but dont leave the most of the posts that I input, all unanswered... it is called [b]stonewalling and it is unkind.... and, it makes me look like a jerk too maybe. (so be it)[/b]
And that is precisely why i did this. Plus I am absolutely open to leaving when i am not getting a good response, more like happy to go if no one wants me in their party (forum)...get it?
peace...i am not mad at anybody...
i want to know what i have asked...do people think i am a big know it all who should get lost...basically?
besides what am I promoting...I am not selling anything.my thoughts are not for sale, thanks.
hmm .. i see , you wanna know why i didnt vote? cause such a poll is seems like a joke to me , in my opinion this is a personal decision and it depends on how much you like to stay or not. you are the only one who really should vote in this poll so dont put this responsibility on other's shoulders.
and for your information not all of us looking for attention here. these are international forums and we are from different countries and cultures. it will take time for every one to know new comers and respond to them. why you are so much in hurry to get every one's attention? dont you think if you are more patient you will see more friendly comments in your topics? personally when i saw your first post i liked it much and was thinking you should be a kind heart gal to think in this way but what did you expect of me to do ? to post my idea about you at that topic and shout out in public that how much you are great and nice?? excuse me but this is kind of lame ..
and i found this whole conspiracy plot about how we are ignoring you on purpose so amusing. Avoidance tactic?? stonewalling?? come on , we all have better things to do with our time than this
and this story about that party which you were saying , well such a thing always is happening , but i say never ask of any one should you stay or leave. if you want stay so stay and fight for what is important for you and if you dont care that much , just turn your back away and leave. as i said this is your personal decision and ball is in your court
and as the last point , i am done with this topic. i have said what i was thinking i should to say so i bid you farewell ladies and gents .. have a nice day