Everybody who cant stand tikay...

[tikay]

I am a big goof I know...now I was thinking why dont I get a better picture in here...of me...then folks will like me? LOL

[Butler]

I have no opinion as I have no idea who you are.....but starting a poll about yourself does seem quite odd.

[Shazzam]

This is the first time I have seen this thread. I must admit I agree with butler. Are you trying to get attention for yourself? It seems a strange thing to do!!

Why not spend the time responding to posts and adding a few instead of promoting yourself this way!

[Anahita]

This is the first time I have seen this thread. I must admit I agree with butler. Are you trying to get attention for yourself? It seems a strange thing to do!!

Why not spend the time responding to posts and adding a few instead of promoting yourself this way!

Indeed , although i like your posts and your way of thinking about nature and other subjects ,but why it should be necessary for you to know our ideas in this way? you can find a better picture about us and our ideas from the answers you will receive in your topics , no need to draw attention like this .. no offence but in my opinion this thread is not a very good idea for introducing yourself , you know ...

[tikay]

so there are three who dont like the way I do things ...good to know. (cast your vote then, why not?) Maybe you should check all of my posts that no one answers... are they not shunning me?
I am sincere at least in wanting to know if I am wanted in here.
why is that so hard to understand?
BESIDES everyone in here is looking for attention
...what makes me special? nothing...polls are for making...

I just want to know why people dont answer many of my posts and they are so busy answering others.

The Avoidance tactic is cowardly...if you get my drift either say you dont like what I am saying (disagree)or ???? say anything !
but dont leave the most of the posts that I input, all unanswered... it is called stonewalling and it is unkind.... and, it makes me look like a jerk too maybe. (so be it)
And that is precisely why i did this. Plus I am absolutely open to leaving when i am not getting a good response, more like happy to go if no one wants me in their party (forum)...get it?
peace...i am not mad at anybody...
i want to know what i have asked...do people think i am a big know it all who should get lost...basically?
besides what am I promoting...I am not selling anything.my thoughts are not for sale, thanks.

[tikay]

You're too pessimistic.

hey Admiral!
I think I am being positive. I am asking to be treated fairly. people were avoiding answering my posts. I asked "why?" and should I leave? just as i did at that party where all the girls were shhhushing me a couple of weeks ago. i was just saying hello and three girls shhhhhh-ed me. this is the question.
Should I stay or go? Without judgment. without passion. just a question.
I am sure I will get more response on both sides.
I should say I will watch for another amount of time and make my decision...but I am optimistic, I think that I will be wanted...
but just look at how it is going, maybe not. i am neither, I think, and just waiting for clues.

[Anahita]

so there are three who dont like the way I do things ...good to know. (cast your vote then, why not?) Maybe you should check all of my posts that no one answers... are they not shunning me?
I am sincere at least in wanting to know if I am wanted in here.
why is that so hard to understand?
BESIDES everyone in here is looking for attention
...what makes me special? nothing...polls are for making...

I just want to know why people dont answer many of my posts and they are so busy answering others.

The Avoidance tactic is cowardly...if you get my drift either say you dont like what I am saying (disagree)or ???? say anything !
but dont leave the most of the posts that I input, all unanswered... it is called [b]stonewalling and it is unkind.... and, it makes me look like a jerk too maybe. (so be it)[/b]
And that is precisely why i did this. Plus I am absolutely open to leaving when i am not getting a good response, more like happy to go if no one wants me in their party (forum)...get it?
peace...i am not mad at anybody...
i want to know what i have asked...do people think i am a big know it all who should get lost...basically?
besides what am I promoting...I am not selling anything.my thoughts are not for sale, thanks.

hmm .. i see , you wanna know why i didnt vote? cause such a poll is seems like a joke to me , in my opinion this is a personal decision and it depends on how much you like to stay or not. you are the only one who really should vote in this poll so dont put this responsibility on other's shoulders.

and for your information not all of us looking for attention here. these are international forums and we are from different countries and cultures. it will take time for every one to know new comers and respond to them. why you are so much in hurry to get every one's attention? dont you think if you are more patient you will see more friendly comments in your topics? personally when i saw your first post i liked it much and was thinking you should be a kind heart gal to think in this way but what did you expect of me to do ? to post my idea about you at that topic and shout out in public that how much you are great and nice?? excuse me but this is kind of lame ..

and i found this whole conspiracy plot about how we are ignoring you on purpose so amusing. Avoidance tactic?? stonewalling?? come on , we all have better things to do with our time than this

and this story about that party which you were saying , well such a thing always is happening , but i say never ask of any one should you stay or leave. if you want stay so stay and fight for what is important for you and if you dont care that much , just turn your back away and leave. as i said this is your personal decision and ball is in your court

and as the last point , i am done with this topic. i have said what i was thinking i should to say so i bid you farewell ladies and gents .. have a nice day

[Butler]

so there are three who dont like the way I do things ...good to know. (cast your vote then, why not?) Maybe you should check all of my posts that no one answers... are they not shunning me?
I am sincere at least in wanting to know if I am wanted in here.
why is that so hard to understand?
BESIDES everyone in here is looking for attention
...what makes me special? nothing...polls are for making...

I just want to know why people dont answer many of my posts and they are so busy answering others.

The Avoidance tactic is cowardly...if you get my drift either say you dont like what I am saying (disagree)or ???? say anything !


but dont leave the most of the posts that I input, all unanswered... it is called stonewalling and it is unkind.... and, it makes me look like a jerk too maybe. (so be it)
And that is precisely why i did this. Plus I am absolutely open to leaving when i am not getting a good response, more like happy to go if no one wants me in their party (forum)...get it?
peace...i am not mad at anybody...
i want to know what i have asked...do people think i am a big know it all who should get lost...basically?
besides what am I promoting...I am not selling anything.my thoughts are not for sale, thanks.

What in heavens name are you going on about? What does it matter if people want you or not?? There are a lot of people here and some are just not liked by others but they still post.
As for "The Avoidance tactic " if someone doesnt answer your post that does not automatically make them a coward...bear in mind the reasons they may not reply...no time..nothing to say or add...not interest in the topic...or for that matter no interest in you!

This thread is fast becoming a huge waste of space !!

[tikay]

tahnks for enlightening me on your thoughts...that was really good information. (both of you) I am not easily offended so my mind has been broadened and i like what you both have told me. you are very confident people. this is good. as far as the thread being ridiculous and having no place in here, I think i disagree. (because you have helped me understand how things work in here) this is the first forum i have become active in you see? i used to look in at e-sangha but never got involved there and ares was nothing but totally rude destructive (to ones ego ) type people who were in constant cut fights but at least Bam Margea talked to me in there. (from the show Wild Boys)
he was nice to me. again thanks for informing me on the way i should be acting...to be a part of the forum.

[Lalee]

Hey!
You don't know me at all and I don't know you either.
Actually, I didn't even know you existed here. LOL
Well, that has to do with me not being active here lately and not checking the new threads.

Anyways, I think you should stay. I've read some of your posts and you seem like a nice chick.
And it doesn't matter what people want here. I mean, who cares if some members don't like you?
PS: I found this thread very amusing.