Rui wrote:well, making a rewind to this thread i just would like to say that those who cry when they are facing something hard for them are probably the strongest persons
Unfortunately I don't agree with you, I cry for everything, and I don't think that shows I'm strong, just on the contrary, I am weak, so weak, I wish I wasn't like that. :(
I agree with any single Dixie's word! It's embarassing and annoying! I see that I can't control my feelings, can't pretend to be strong (I wish I were), like Margaret Tetchier ! In my opinion a lady nowadays have to be as stern as men usually are! In order to succed in career... I may be wrong... in expressing my opinion... don't be cruel!
Oriani wrote:I'm a shy person, but sometimes I have to go out of that shynees world because of the situation. Its' reflected here, by the way. You can notice it that I haven't posted here since Decembere or January.. I've been reading the others instead. Why? Because I feel that I don't know what to say on one of those Topics or conversations!!!! But it's ok!!!
Just say whatever comes to your mind at the moment. You don't have to be shy. No one minds. It is all about your opinions here and no one can do anything about it. You are even shy on the internet?
Oh Hi, Thanks for your advise. It was very kinf of you. I'll do my best so that I can be able to posting frequency. About our friend that is a kind of shy in his life, maybe because "sometimes"(because of the feelings, pain or others) doesn't fell secure about himself. the same hapens to me, but as I said before the most important thing is love yourself and trust the voive within you. If somebody hurts your feelings? Everybody does it. Even we do it, but we do not notice it. We have to be carefull with it...
Rui wrote:well, making a rewind to this thread i just would like to say that those who cry when they are facing something hard for them are probably the strongest persons
Unfortunately I don't agree with you, I cry for everything, and I don't think that shows I'm strong, just on the contrary, I am weak, so weak, I wish I wasn't like that. :(
I agree with any single Dixie's word! It's embarassing and annoying! I see that I can't control my feelings, can't pretend to be strong (I wish I were), like Margaret Tetchier ! In my opinion a lady nowadays have to be as stern as men usually are! In order to succed in career... I may be wrong... in expressing my opinion... don't be cruel!
well ladies.. i see the things exactly from the other side, if you show your feelings to the others its because you are strong enough to show what is inside of you, and if that is not to be strong, tell me what it is...
Rui wrote:
well ladies.. i see the things exactly from the other side, if you show your feelings to the others its because you are strong enough to show what is inside of you, and if that is not to be strong, tell me what it is...
I don't think we are talking about exactly the same thing here
i really have problem with my self..It's embarassin and annoyin actually i can understand and speak english but
i feel very shy when i want to talk to any one plz help me out to improve my english :(
i really have problem with my self..It's embarassin and annoyin actually i can understand and speak english but
i feel very shy when i want to talk to any one plz help me out to improve my english :(
Rui wrote:
well ladies.. i see the things exactly from the other side, if you show your feelings to the others its because you are strong enough to show what is inside of you, and if that is not to be strong, tell me what it is...
I don't think we are talking about exactly the same thing here
That's true... :( I talk about something negative that's better be hidden... Like not to show that you are anxious or annoyed by sombody or something, or you are down inside and cheerful and good-looking "outside". I'm not talking about sharing my feelings and thoughts, I have to have courage to share it as I can be misunderstood sometimes... My mom says when I'm disappointed it's written on my face, though I don't want to show it...
i really have problem with my self..It's embarassin and annoyin actually i can understand and speak english but
i feel very shy when i want to talk to any one plz help me out to improve my english :(
Join us on one of our Skype conversations! ;)
:D thank you dear .....plz dont mind tell me again where i have to join
Dixie wrote:
I cry for everything, and I don't think that shows I'm strong, just on the contrary, I am weak, so weak, I wish I wasn't like that. :(
wow, i didn't know you were..i mean.. reading from your posts..
anyway, like you said.. gosh i cry for everything too..and how i wish i wasn't that weak.. i have shallow tears, my friends know and accept me, but it couldd've been better if i was stronger.
i also don't voice out my opinions that often, even on forums, i admit, it was only here that i would sometimes defend my opinions .. i'm hesitant because i might say something wrong..
Tora wrote:
My mom says when I'm disappointed it's written on my face, though I don't want to show it...
Same happens to me. When I am upset, I can't hide it, as hard as I try to.
yeah me too. and in addition usually when I am angry or upset I just can't focus on anything at all until the emotions are gone and usually it takes me a while to get rid of all the negative feelings... :(
TearHere wrote:
i also don't voice out my opinions that often, even on forums, i admit, it was only here that i would sometimes defend my opinions .. i'm hesitant because i might say something wrong..
me too.
even sometimes i know i am right or my opinion is better than others, i dont wnat express either. that is why i hate group assignemnt. u must say yr opinion and debate others to support yr idea. i hate argue.
i am shy person,too. that is why i like wearing cap. because wearing a cap, u cannot see anybody's eyes, and you dont need to say hello to others. and people also cannot see u.
! In my opinion a lady nowadays have to be as stern as men usually are! In order to succed in career... 
I may be wrong... in expressing my opinion... don't be cruel!
:P