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What my friend must do?

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Postby eman » Tue Apr 11, 2006 5:20 pm

i also agree with mr-love just forget about him,,,,,,,and enjoy your life
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Re: what would you do?

Postby Oriani » Tue Apr 11, 2006 7:24 pm

Ms.A.Z wrote:If you have been in such sitiuation or imagin your self beeing in such sitiuation what will you do???

A friend of my mine told me that she might be falling in love with her male friend-colleague at work- but she is not sure if he feels the same for her beacuse she didn't tell him yet. On the other hand he is engaged to be married to a girl he liked after that girl told him that she loves him but he don't love her-he is very un romantic-but he is quite happy with his destiny.She also knows that even if she told him that she loves him and if she was lucky enough and he told her the same too, they both can't marry becasue her parents won't allow her to do so nor give her their blessing.Now the question is what she must do?

1) Tell him that she loves him and think about the consequences later on.Taking into account that she might put her good relation-Friendship- with him at risk if he know her true feeling toward him.

2) Forget about him,let him marry & live in peace. It won't matter to him as he dosen't know that she has feelings for him.


Wow!! It's exactly what happened to me...
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Re: what would you do?

Postby Ms.A.Z » Thu Apr 13, 2006 6:34 am

[/quote]Wow!! It's exactly what happened to me...[/quote]


What did you do then? Told him or forgot him?
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Re: what would you do?

Postby ivonn » Fri Apr 14, 2006 12:39 pm

[quote="Ms.A.Z"]If you have been in such sitiuation or imagin your self beeing in such sitiuation what will you do???

I think she must tell him the truth about her feelings, and let him deside what he really wants...Besides, what kind of friendship is that if she lose him for being sincere and honest?
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Postby ivonn » Fri Apr 14, 2006 12:41 pm

hung wrote:I wonder if there is any girl here loves me? If there is/are, please say alound, or I would be in marriage with an other girl in a certain day :lol: :twisted:


That's why I think she must tell him the truth now, because one day it can be too late... :roll:
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Postby Ms.A.Z » Sun Apr 30, 2006 5:51 pm

Have some good news and bad news,

The good news is the guy my friend liked (her colleague) got married and day before his marriage she called him to wish him good luck and happines as a good friend.

The bad news is she didn't tell him about her true feelings.She just locked it in her heart forever.Now she wonders will she be able to talk to him like before or run away from him.

The END...
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Postby sonyym » Sat May 06, 2006 3:56 am

mr_Love wrote:he is getting married

she cant marry him because of her family,,,,

Just forget about him,,,,,,,



I agree with MR love

It seem like one time feeling. By the way , I dont think this guy is loveworthy.
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Postby sonyym » Sat May 06, 2006 4:00 am

[quote="Ms.A.Z"]Have some good news and bad news,

The good news is the guy my friend liked (her colleague) got married and day before his marriage she called him to wish him good luck and happines as a good friend.

The bad news is she didn't tell him about her true feelings.She just locked it in her heart forever.Now she wonders will she be able to talk to him like before or run away from him.

The END...[/quot

That is a good ending. Before his marriage, she didnt say nothing, why does she wonder about after he married?
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Postby Ms.A.Z » Wed May 10, 2006 7:18 am

She wonders if she had told him what would be his reaction.... :roll:
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Postby sonyym » Wed May 10, 2006 7:23 am

it's finished,why doesnt she move on?people dont need to think what they cannot do at all. 8)
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