what do u think of getting married through the internet?

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do u think its good to get married through the internet??

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Post by VitaminC »

Internet might be a good way to start a relationship, but it shouldn't be the way people start their lives as husband and wife.

You can meet a person through this way, get to know his/her likes, feelings, experiences, etc. However, having a romantic relationship involves more than just knowing each other and feeling a superficial attraction... It involves affection, actual contact, the company of the other person in diverse situations, physical contact, a good relation with the other's relatives... That's why Internet weddings are kind of ridiculous, and those marriages are so fragile.

Authentic marriages go further than Internet. For real!
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I know a few such couple who met via Internet, and later got married, they are happy.
They began to comunicate with each other every day, later they met in reallity and understood that suits to each other well and finaly got married!
So each person have his/her own destiny and you never know when you will find man/woman of your dream.
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**Elena** wrote:I know a few such couple who met via Internet, and later got married, they are happy.
They began to comunicate with each other every day, later they met in reallity and understood that suits to each other well and finaly got married!
So each person have his/her own destiny and you never know when you will find man/woman of your dream.
In my opinion it crazy idea...
In fact around of us much real guys and girls
which need to be beconed a finger
and they will appear near to you...
try that... why internet... because this vogue?
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Eh! how is this? Will there be an officiating priest also? (What a joke?)
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Post by **Elena** »

krisi wrote:Eh! how is this? Will there be an officiating priest also? (What a joke?)
Its not a joke Krisi!
Maybe its difficult for understanding for these who never tried it!
Thanks to Internet it became possible!
Last Sunday other my friend went abroad, because soon will be her wedding, and she met her future hubby in skype!
So nothing is impossible for a willing heart!
Everyone is an Architect of his/her own fortunes!
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**Elena** wrote:
krisi wrote:Eh! how is this? Will there be an officiating priest also? (What a joke?)
Its not a joke Krisi!
Maybe its difficult for understanding for these who never tried it!
Thanks to Internet it became possible!
Last Sunday other my friend went abroad, because soon will be her wedding, and she met her future hubby in skype!
So nothing is impossible for a willing heart!
Everyone is an Architect of his/her own fortunes!


Oh, I thought everything will be done here. Just like in a play. And probably you(Elena) as the priest and I can volunteer as a bridesmaid... hahahaha... so it's not as how I understood.
So now I know. (still bizarre!)
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krisi wrote:
**Elena** wrote:
krisi wrote:Eh! how is this? Will there be an officiating priest also? (What a joke?)
Its not a joke Krisi!
Maybe its difficult for understanding for these who never tried it!
Thanks to Internet it became possible!
Last Sunday other my friend went abroad, because soon will be her wedding, and she met her future hubby in skype!
So nothing is impossible for a willing heart!
Everyone is an Architect of his/her own fortunes!


Oh, I thought everything will be done here. Just like in a play. And probably you(Elena) as the priest and I can volunteer as a bridesmaid... hahahaha... so it's not as how I understood.
So now I know. (still bizarre!)
Yes, agree, it looks bizarre! But it works!
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Re: what do u think of getting married through the internet?

Post by hornet »

through the internet, we can make friend and chat about anything. however, when it comes to marriage, i don't think it's a good way to find a spouse. if you want to get married , it's better to find a boyfriend or girlfirend in real world and know each other well. people has different ideas, background and lifestyles. all in all, personally, i don't agree with the idea.
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Post by Bambang »

Not a good idea I suppose.
We're all friends, right?
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Not advisable... :)
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Post by Annaa »

Hmm first of all,it`s an intresting theme.You can meet someone in the internet and speak with him(er) and then you can see her(im) live and I don`t know you can meet each-other family and start your relation-ship.One of my friends is going to marry a person who meet in the internet and they are vey happy.But I don`t like to marry a person from the internet.
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Post by sweethuman »

fadi wrote:hi all.,.,.write your opinion about this topic
Getting married thru internet is not possible :lol: :lol: however if you start loving someone thru internet and then you meet him/her and marry it is somehow possible. People can marry thru internet love. Its possible. :-D
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