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Postby Rossana » Sat Jun 30, 2007 7:38 am

Hi!

I just want to hear some of your opinion regarding this..

If someone had hurt you so much in the past,(let´s say,your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend who cheated on you or a father who left you when you were young) and now he/she is trying to ask for your forgiveness, what would you do?



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Postby Dixie » Sat Jun 30, 2007 8:05 am

It's a very complicated question. Of course it depends on a variety of factors but my first answer would be (since I am a very stubborn person) not to forgive. Depending on what happened, that would be the best solution for me. However, and like I said, it depends on many things: what happened, why it happened, and the most important: are you willing to forgive and move on?
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Postby Rossana » Sat Jun 30, 2007 8:45 am

Thanks. :)
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Postby sweets » Sat Jun 30, 2007 9:50 am

for me i will forgive buti'll be careful also :wink:


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Postby Vega » Sat Jun 30, 2007 11:07 am

Rosanna wrote:Hi!

I just want to hear some of your opinion regarding this..

If someone had hurt you so much in the past,(let´s say,your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend who cheated on you or a father who left you when you were young) and now he/she is trying to ask for your forgiveness, what would you do?



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A girlfriend who cheated on me...I never forgive them.
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Postby Dixie » Sat Jun 30, 2007 11:39 am

Xkalibur wrote:A girlfriend who cheated on me...I never forgive them.


Me neither. You know what they say, "Once a cheater, always a cheater" :roll: If you love someone, you don't even think of having something with anybody else.
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Postby Hardi » Sat Jun 30, 2007 11:57 am

Really hard to tell. If I haven't given anyone the first chance, then how could I give the second one. So.. it means I don't. I would make anyone who dares to betray me, to feel so miserable and guilty. That she would never courage to ask second chance. :evil:
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Re: Second chances

Postby Melek » Sat Jun 30, 2007 12:33 pm

Rossana wrote:Hi!

I just want to hear some of your opinion regarding this..

If someone had hurt you so much in the past,(let´s say,your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend who cheated on you or a father who left you when you were young) and now he/she is trying to ask for your forgiveness, what would you do?



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dear,Rosanna..very interesting & very hard question...I think first of all everything depends on the situation..They say that person who can forgive is a great person..But I say that if someone loves his/her lovely he/she will forgive him/her everything..but I dont think that I will forgive him adultry..It means I will give up loving him! so choise is yours!
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Re: Second chances

Postby Vega » Sat Jun 30, 2007 12:54 pm

melek wrote:
dear,Rosanna..very interesting & very hard question...I think first of all everything depends on the situation..They say that person who can forgive is a great person..But I say that if someone loves his/her lovely he/she will forgive him/her everything..but I dont think that I will forgive him adultry..It means I will give up loving him! so choise is yours!
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I say that person who is used to forgive is a stupid donkey...Nice saying, isn't it? May quote my words anytime you want! :P
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Postby Dixie » Sat Jun 30, 2007 1:58 pm

I agree with Xkalibur. Forgiving all the time does not make you a better person! On the contrary, it's a dumb thing to do, people will fool you all the time :roll:
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