Secret diary!

Admiral · Post by **Admiral** » Sun Jan 14, 2007 6:27 pm

find a girlfriend near you my friend...

senphoi · Post by **senphoi** » Tue Jan 16, 2007 2:28 pm

yeah, although i have friends to talk to, and always be surrounded by friends, im lonely. i think there are many people around me, yet nobody can truly be my friends. i dont have a real true friend, so that makes me feel solitude.
i wonder will it really hard to find someone who know me the best?
hey, we are better set up a forum for the lonely. haha...
Sen

MooNboy · Post by **MooNboy** » Tue Jan 16, 2007 2:40 pm

senphoi wrote:yeah, although i have friends to talk to, and always be surrounded by friends, im lonely. i think there are many people around me, yet nobody can truly be my friends. i dont have a real true friend, so that makes me feel solitude.
i wonder will it really hard to find someone who know me the best?
hey, we are better set up a forum for the lonely. haha...
Sen

Hey, sometimes I feel like this, too.Yes, let's set up lonely people forum.
Admiral, thanks for advice.I'll try to have one :)

babara · Post by **babara** » Wed Jan 17, 2007 5:24 am

Do you have brither\sister,Moonboy?
I have brother that makes me not feel alone when I am alone at home.

Hmm..but I guess maybe you have no cause you told you are alone at home and your room?

MooNboy · Post by **MooNboy** » Wed Jan 17, 2007 6:01 pm

I have a brother, but I'm at university and he's away from me.
I really feel lonely, I have people around me, but they can't take me away from feeling lonely.

babara · Post by **babara** » Wed Jan 17, 2007 7:20 pm

MooNboy wrote:I have a brother, but I'm at university and he's away from me.
I really feel lonely, I have people around me, but they can't take me away from feeling lonely.

Hmm...Have you ever asked yourself that what you want or who...what you like or not like...what you can do happily or what you want to fill in your life..these things If you know It can make you away from feeling lonely cause you know things you want already.

That you have many friend around me but you still lonely that means you don't anyone person who you want and you would learn about yourself I think. :)

senphoi · Post by **senphoi** » Thu Jan 18, 2007 3:59 am

hey bab,
do u really think a brother can make things go well? i have a brother too, yet we can hardly talk about serious tough. u know, guys cant understand girls stuff or they cant even go shopping or giving advice on relation stuff.
i know i fell lonely because i cant find someone who i really trust to share my stories with whenever i need ears to listen to me. i always suspect others sincere as u dont really know what they feel or think about u, or whether they are the one for just for you untill you are in trouble. if someone willing to give you a hand at that time, he or she is the one you are looking for.
however, the question is how can we find that person?
Sen

babara · Post by **babara** » Thu Jan 18, 2007 12:27 pm

senphoi wrote:hey bab,
do u really think a brother can make things go well? i have a brother too, yet we can hardly talk about serious tough. u know, guys cant understand girls stuff or they cant even go shopping or giving advice on relation stuff.
i know i fell lonely because i cant find someone who i really trust to share my stories with whenever i need ears to listen to me. i always suspect others sincere as u dont really know what they feel or think about u, or whether they are the one for just for you untill you are in trouble. if someone willing to give you a hand at that time, he or she is the one you are looking for.
however, the question is how can we find that person?
Sen

Well, It's hard to tell that how we can fine that person. It's up to thinking of each person but for me,when I want friends,frist all I will try to learn,ask or talk about themself or any feeling of them for making them trust me. Then we can share stories together when we trust each other I think.

MooNboy · Post by **MooNboy** » Tue Jan 23, 2007 11:49 am

babara wrote:
MooNboy wrote:I have a brother, but I'm at university and he's away from me.
I really feel lonely, I have people around me, but they can't take me away from feeling lonely.
Hmm...Have you ever asked yourself that what you want or who...what you like or not like...what you can do happily or what you want to fill in your life..these things If you know It can make you away from feeling lonely cause you know things you want already.

That you have many friend around me but you still lonely that means you don't anyone person who you want and you would learn about yourself I think. :)

I'll think about that. Maybe you're right. But in my new friends who are in my new city, there's a guy that I can feel good when I'm with him.
Maybe Admiral is right, GET A GIRLFRIEND...

Lac · Post by **Lac** » Tue Jan 23, 2007 1:57 pm

i know i fell lonely because i cant find someone who i really trust to share my stories with whenever i need ears to listen to me. i always suspect others sincere as u dont really know what they feel or think about u, or whether they are the one for just for you untill you are in trouble. if someone willing to give you a hand at that time, he or she is the one you are looking for.
however, the question is how can we find that person?

Hi, if you seek, you'll get for sure.
If you knock the door, the door would be open.
We feel lonely because we are afraid of others' attitude and lifestyle not like ours. And so the gap keeps on lasting and loneliness looks a bit longer.
I was almost similar to you when I was too young. I was afraid of getting in touch with anyone owing to fear to be physically and mentally harmed by all the people I thought untruthful. It became worse and worse for myself.
I suddenly got the point in the book: "Change your lemon water by pouring some sugar,you woud change the mean situation.".I tried to put it into practice. And now, if i feel lonely to become isolated from others,it would not OK for my life. Only opening one's arm and heart, I find the horizon wide open with animately overflowing life. So many people are really good than I have ever thought. However, not without possible suspicions exist when encountering with all kinds of person. But we still have expedient cautiousness and wisdom in our life through the awareness of how to live and conduct ourselves.