Are Asians really rude?

[Hardi]

Don't know if estonians are more or less polite than peoples in moscow.. but in traffic, are estonians surely more rude, unpolite, stupid and whatever than sweedish. only consolation is that italians are probably very likely worser..

And holding a door open to some old lady.. Better I don't do that. Once I was hold a door for a pregnant women with small kids... Something 1000000000 peoples wanted to use my kindness.. can't let door go too, because peoples are clever they hide them selves behind of little kids.. Don't wanna hit a kid with heavy door.

But mostly I dislike those polite seller mans "hello, can I some how help you"..

[Tora]

But mostly I dislike those polite seller mans "hello, can I some how help you"..

Aha! this kills me either! They are so polite that I want to take sweet smile away from their faces! If I need help I'll ask for it! there is no need to be obligatory polite with customers, they simply want to get more and more money offering you a cup of coffee and precious help!

Just well-mannered speech when you're already buying! You should agree (I guess you had the same) in the soviet union time sellers used to be rude to customers and it was their onliest marketing policy!

[MissLT]

This is really different. In the States, if you don't offer for help or being offered for help in a store, it's considered as bad business. I and my coworkers have to go to meetings every six months just to hear them yapping non-stop about this. Even the managers or district managers have to go also (they have different meetings).

They then hire mysterious shoppers comming to stores to grade us. Their main point is on greeting and offering for help. Without those things, we'll get really bad grade. And bad grade means no bonuses for my manager and no raise for us.

[MissLT]

And holding a door open to some old lady.. Better I don't do that. Once I was hold a door for a pregnant women with small kids...

Awwwww.... that was nice of you. You should keep doing it more often . I once refused to go on a second date with a guy because he didn't open the car's door, restaurant's door, and movie theater's door for me. It was a good date in general, but I just don't date guys who can't even have that little politeness. I mean, I can open the door for myself, but we were on a date. Be a gentleman for crying out loud.

Something 1000000000 peoples wanted to use my kindness.. can't let door go too, because peoples are clever they hide them selves behind of little kids.. Don't wanna hit a kid with heavy door.

You know, when I was little and with my friends. We went in a group to go see something, I forgot. I was behind my friend. She opened the door fist, and then she closed it when I was about to get in. I thought she would hold it open a little bit longer before shutting it, so the next one could get in.

I got my hand, foot, and face slammed by the da8n door. She apologized and I told her it was okay, but gosh, I was thinking "stupid girl, you couldn't even turn around to see if anyone was behind you???"

[Masayuki]

Are Asians really rude?

Hmm... It depends on hisself or herself, I think.

I could not say about this.

[MissLT]

Do cashiers in Japan say thank you afer a customer has purchased something in their stores, Masayuki?

[GoldenPearl]

Hi I am a new member from middil east , saudi arabia first there is no need to ask such a selly question it could hert athor feelings I mean the Asian and it is not a polit too . you can't judge on all the Asian because one of them wasn't kind or because a stubed researsh the fingers of the hand are not a like so as the people I cant belive that the whole contenant people are rude that is absluotly wrong WHAT ARE YOU THINKIG ABOUT PEOPLE??? and you are talking about been polit and speak badliy about the Black people these situations that you had is nothing but a little of sensitivity and I can't belive that you still remmimber it and talk about it can't you forgive those people they may have thair own resions I can't say that what they do isn't wronge but you have the right to express your feeling but without been racial toward any set of people there is some thing called forgive and forget about it .

[MissLT]

You haven't lived around any Black people, have you? Just a little information for you, I live in the hood so I know exactly what I'm talking about. Does it fill you in with anything?

[MissLT]

and you are talking about been polit and speak badliy about the Black people these situations that you had is nothing but an exstra sensitivity and I can't belive that you still remmimber it and talk about it

May I ask for your definition of extra sensitivity? Have you ever told someone to "shut up b!tc*" because you lacked an extra sensitivity chip? Think about it. And while you're thinking about it, please also think about that being attitudey and being clueless are quite a bit different.

can't you forgive those people they may have thair own resions

It seems like we haven't met yet. May I introduce myself to you? Hi, I'm Lennye Tran. I judge people. I think this introduction should tell you something about me.

I can't say that what they do is wronge

Yes, you can because what they did were totally wrong. See, how easy it is to say?

but you have the right to express your feeling but without been racial toward any set of people there is some thing called forgive and forget about it .

Yes, I can forgive and forget, but it doesn't say anything about the fact that I can't judge their personalities as a whole. By the way, i thought I admitted that there was some stereotype in my judgement; however, it sounds like you refused to acknowledge it. Hmmmm... whatever!

[GoldenPearl]

hi you look angry of my post if it bother you I apolgize and I ment I can't say that what they do is 'nt wronge yeah maybi I didn't understande your opinion but the topic hert my feeling Are the Asian really rude and if I was angry or hated any one I will never think of talking about him badly behinde his or her back and I don't hate any one nomatter they hate me or hert me and I never talk badly about who I think is bad no matter how bad he or she is . I just wanna express my opinion not to insulted you my english is poor and I maby didn't understande your post well and I say again not all the asian are rude .