For Trinho,
Indeed change is not always good. I experienced that myself. Being out of a job is definitely no good. But how about changing your paradigm? Instead of looking for a job you create a job for yourself. I am sure that you have skills and hobbies that you can turn into a profession. Thus, earning an income. For example, I love to talk and write. When people don't give me jobs anymore (maybe because they think I am too old or because I am expensive) I decided to change and become a trainer and public speaker. True enough, now I work doing something I love to do. The income is even better than when I was working for something.
Trinho, decide to change yourself first - the rest will follow. That kind of change is welcomed change. Trust me. Try it.
It is never easy making the first step but once you begin everything else becomes easier. Good luck my friend.
By the way, I am 57 years old and I was unemployed for almost 10 years. Now I feel younger than you or even Bambang.
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Thankyou so much for your interesting advice, sir !
i agree that you told right , with a man who have educational certificate or university degree like you is easier than people who have not finish highschool. although,such a human being, we have to struggle to exist,and the first step is not easy for me to accept that situation. it take me a long time to forget and to find a new way. and i think in anyway i have to do to earn income , do a new job not involve my career with a cheap salary ,as long as i have a job and have a time to learn new skill and have fun