Posted: Sat Jul 15, 2006 6:40 pm
How about I give you a frigging case scenario to enlighten you first, shall we?
You're in love with a person. You think the love you have for that person is the best thing that has ever happened to you. Your family likes that person as well. Everything is pretty fine for you. Now you're ready to introduce the love of your life to your friends. They get to know your lover, and unfortunately, they don't like your lover. No chemistry found. You're shocked, so you give out examples what that person has done for you to show how great that person is. Some of your friends would say, "good for you!" And they'll walk away. Some of them would say, "You really think so? Well, I think that person is.... blah blah blah" You get angry, "How can you say such things? If you wanna know how great he is, you must to get to know the person from my point of view".
Do you know how annoying it is to tell someone you don't think what they think is as good as they think it is and they get angry or expect you to view it from their perspective? Well, it's pretty da8n annoying, and you have to end up walking away mumbling to yourself, "what a control freak!"
You're in love with a person. You think the love you have for that person is the best thing that has ever happened to you. Your family likes that person as well. Everything is pretty fine for you. Now you're ready to introduce the love of your life to your friends. They get to know your lover, and unfortunately, they don't like your lover. No chemistry found. You're shocked, so you give out examples what that person has done for you to show how great that person is. Some of your friends would say, "good for you!" And they'll walk away. Some of them would say, "You really think so? Well, I think that person is.... blah blah blah" You get angry, "How can you say such things? If you wanna know how great he is, you must to get to know the person from my point of view".
Do you know how annoying it is to tell someone you don't think what they think is as good as they think it is and they get angry or expect you to view it from their perspective? Well, it's pretty da8n annoying, and you have to end up walking away mumbling to yourself, "what a control freak!"