Have you ever..........??

[Elisa]

It is my favourite pastime.

Have you ever made a big snowman?

[Krisi]

just a snowball.

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have you ever seen a ghost?

[Elisa]

Yes.

Have you ever been happy?

[Krisi]

of course.

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have you ever thought what make us unhappy?

[Elisa]

Moments of weakness make us unhappy.

Have you ever thought what make us happy?

[Krisi]

yes. and, even a smile can make us happy.

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Have you ever realized that memories of unhappiness could live on forever? (Why?)

[Elisa]

I think the memories of unhappiness will live forever only if the cause of this unhappiness is due to our behavior.
If the cause of unhappiness is due to another person is much easier to forgive and forget, or at least not suffer anymore.

Forgiving yourself is the act more difficult.


Have you ever thought that staying only with good people could make your life easier?

[Krisi]

I think the memories of unhappiness will live forever only if the cause of this unhappiness is due to our behavior.
If the cause of unhappiness is due to another person is much easier to forgive and forget, or at least not suffer anymore.

Forgiving yourself is the act more difficult.

I respect your opinion but that doesn't mean I agree with it. I just guess your meaning of behaviour in this context is the manner how we understand and take things. I guess you just have to review your reply a bit more Do you know that you can forgive but you cannot and should not forget? Or maybe only for me...

Have you ever thought that staying only with good people could make your life easier?

of course, but what is good to you can't be always good to me and oppositely what is good to me cannot be always good to you, but in my opinion we are all at a common end. Wherever we go we will be seeing and meeting different types of people but we cannot judge them by the way they look and the way they dress or sometimes even the way they talk.

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have you ever realized that there are people who make their life easy by running away from what they have and must do? And that's not the meaning of good people to you I guess or is it? Have you ever realized that they make themselves a burden to others?

[Elisa]

We could philosophize about every single word for age. What’s Behaviour? What’s good? What is bad ….for me ..for you… for them..…and so on.
SEE (not look) people in the eyes and you will understand if he/she is good or not.

I think we have to find our equilibrium and serenity inside of us.
There will always be parasites near us.

I repeat: Forgiving yourself is the act more difficult.

The rest is not important. We are strong, we work hard, we give and demand respect. We are not parasites.
We can’t change the world but we are the author of our life!

We have only to pray to be healthy because without health life becomes much… much more difficult.

[Elisa]

Have you ever thought about destiny?