How do you think about?

[chenyijun]

How do you think about?
I want to know what is lover.

[Elisa]

What do you think about tell the true and be always very clear with person?
For exemple: if I don't want to read or see a person....why don't tell her/him clearly instead of alluding?
Isn't this a symptom of insicurity?

[Krisi]

What do you think about tell the true and be always very clear with person?
For exemple: if I don't want to read or see a person....why don't tell her/him clearly instead of alluding?
Isn't this a symptom of insicurity?

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sometimes, the person just needs to "read between the lines". especially, if the person who doesn't want to face the other has been cheated by him/her many times.

(I did that to somebody already, because I reached that point wherein I realized that what the other person had been telling me were not true... so, to lessen his lies and also so that I won't be convinced again, I might as well not face the person.)

[Elisa]

Sorry, but I don't understand. If a person is not your employer or a dear person why don't be clear?

[Krisi]

Sorry, but I don't understand. If a person is not your employer or a dear person why don't be clear?

In that case, if I have noticed the person is just cheating me, I always end up avoiding the person. That includes not facing him/her. This is because I got hurt. And crying in front of the person who cheated me is a no, no... you know, I can always feel that I have no one to help myself so there are times I also have to face the person. But, in a different approach... it is impossible to be the same again. This is true, if there are people who don't want to believe this well, maybe that's our differences already.