E) Everyone deserves to be treated with a decent measure of respect...this goes double if you want to get a girl into your life...bed, apartment...or marriage! So don't think it is okay to ignore them, be abusive or not be helpful when we need some help...even if it means we need muscle, like even when we are moving across town. (dont be too busy when it counts)
F) For crying out loud make sure you want us when you start the court and spark...make sure you are sure
you are not still floundering in indecision...then tell us you are there for us, and do little things that prove this!
G) Get interested. If you dont like poetry but it is her favorite hobby...best to decide to want to
read it and decide
to try to like it....same with any other thing she is really into...unless it is girls night out and...stop worrying about girls night out if you are doing all the other a's b's and c's...she is not going to be leaving....while you are trying so hard. (We are caring that way)
one more for the road?
H) hello! some relationships are meant to be and some take a lot of effort....energy is higher for her if you keep yourself in fairly good shape and that means mellow on the indulging in things leading to your ill health.... for instance if you are meeting on the beach early Saturday mornings for the volley-ball game maybe you should drink Saturday night instead of Friday...you did want to see her new bikini did you not?
(you say....but I always
drink on Fridays
... oh! stop complaining, most girls don't like whiners!)
love to all...