Dixie wrote: Anahita wrote:
yeah, i think its exactly what he meant. its how most of Muslim men are treating their bride. they take her to a doctor to check her for being virgin before marriage, like a farmer who takes a cattle to vet before buying it, then only after approving her virginity they are going to marry her. I have seen such a thing many times and i found it disgusting and humiliating
. some times I am wondering is there a medical way for knowing is a man is really virgin or not and how men are going to respond if we ask the same treatment about virginity from them, just wondering...
Exactly! It's humiliating, and I don't think those men love their brides AT ALL. I can't understand why women allow their men to treat them like that. Have they no dignity?
You are totally right Dixie, those men who are looking like a piece of meat at their women have no real love for them. And if they care about their wives some times Its some thing like how you care about your car and other posses. they don’t put themselves in trouble for knowing and understanding their women personality or feelings cause they don’t treat them as an equal humans. women are good as long as they can be a good cook and can satisfy your sexual needs in bedroom! This is slavery for god sake not marriage!!
And most of the girls who are from traditional families have been manipulated mentally by their parents to never stand against the traditions and always be what this guy is calling A GOOD MANNER GIRL
, which means in other words BE A STUPID SEX SLAVE AND NEVER ASK FOR EQUALE RIGHTS CAUSE AS LONG AS I AM HERE AS A MAN YOU ARE NOGHTING
If a girl who lives in such a family, tries to stand against such a rules she is risking on losing almost every thing that is important to her. Her family will stop supporting her and the society will punish her as a bad person. Some times the conclusions are so terrible that many girls decide to remain alive at least…its really horrible and sad…fortunately in my country many girls in the big cities are standing against such a rules and claiming their real right by working and educating themselves better than men but the heavy shadow of these old barbaric rules are still floating over our heads… *sighs and nods