Re: Would you like to marry ?
Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2007 1:55 pm
Two people are waiting for a suitable spouse. C'mon, what are you waiting for? :D
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who are the two?????????????????????????????bambang wrote:Two people are waiting for a suitable spouse. C'mon, what are you waiting for? :D
Xkalibur wrote:Yeah, no one can stay alone for long, that is true. But not everybody always find the person they really want...there are some type of persons who even not sure what kind of person they want, me for instance.sweets wrote:if i found my hero why not no one can stay alone for long time iam right or??????
Yes. Weddings are very expensive nowadays!!! There are two important things in the event: The Bride's wedding dress and the party for the guests that include good music, a lot of FOOD and etc, ( ...) at the end of all, the couple is already moneyless, lol... well, at least in Venezuela is like that!!!! Without taking into account that you wear the dress only once :?fabulous wrote:i don't really like marriage. but i love to live my love one. i dislike having wedding dinner. it costs very high up 10,000. however it is a tradition. :P
Oriani wrote:Yes. Weddings are very expensive nowadays!!! There are two important things in the event: The Bride's wedding dress and the party for the guests that include good music, a lot of FOOD and etc, ( ...) at the end of all, the couple is already moneyless, lol... well, at least in Venezuela is like that!!!! Without taking into account that you wear the dress only once :?fabulous wrote:i don't really like marriage. but i love to live my love one. i dislike having wedding dinner. it costs very high up 10,000. however it is a tradition. :P
Absolutely! The dress looks like a queen's one for the crowning... airy underskirts, litres of champagne, and this queer tradition to be celebrating for 2 or 3 days, when the justmarried are already blue-lipped (because of kissing in public to substaniate the reason for the guests to swig off a glass ot two) and black-eyed and tired... I want my wedding to be small and cosy and just for my close onesOriani wrote:Yes. Weddings are very expensive nowadays!!! There are two important things in the event: The Bride's wedding dress and the party for the guests that include good music, a lot of FOOD and etc, ( ...) at the end of all, the couple is already moneyless, lol... well, at least in Venezuela is like that!!!! Without taking into account that you wear the dress only once :?fabulous wrote:i don't really like marriage. but i love to live my love one. i dislike having wedding dinner. it costs very high up 10,000. however it is a tradition. :P
Great, Edu! How long have you been married? I'm asking as you sound like you've spent not less than ten years in marriage!(((Edu))) wrote:Marryment is more than love. Love is wonderful but nobody lives just in love. Before to get marry with someone, think in a person who you really like to talk, to walk together and to do seemed things.
I'm married. It's very important to me have a family and to build a true home. But pay attention, young people "that's tough to keep a relationship".
Good for you.komar wrote:oh...... I'm 24....this topic is just for me!!! bc the marriage is hottest theme for me.... this April I'm going to marry!!!!! time has come :) so many people around me say I'm still young for being married...even my relatives my friends my colleagues...I didn't find any support.... but.... I don't care...
I'm wondering, why do you guys always have to work out a fortune before you lead a girl to the altar. I've always thought that working hard both of the spouses, earning money for hiring a flat, than buying a detached house - all these make you closer, I mean gaining your wealth together, getting experienced. at the end of life you will say that you walked it all through hand in hand, through thick and thinBenM wrote:sure why not :) but where is she >> kidin'
I feel like I gotta get married after I secure job, have enough money , And find the girl of my dreams. I don't know but I feel it's gonna be a while after I graduate and before I get married. Not an easy business in here
this is just exactly what I'm talking about :) the same feeling!!!!!!!!!!!!Tora wrote:I'm wondering, why do you guys always have to work out a fortune before you lead a girl to the altar. I've always thought that working hard both of the spouses, earning money for hiring a flat, than buying a detached house - all these make you closer, I mean gaining your wealth together, getting experienced. at the end of life you will say that you walked it all through hand in hand, through thick and thinBenM wrote:sure why not :) but where is she >> kidin'
I feel like I gotta get married after I secure job, have enough money , And find the girl of my dreams. I don't know but I feel it's gonna be a while after I graduate and before I get married. Not an easy business in here
Snowy* wrote:Right now I am not even think about marriage..
I think it will be a big mistake if I married now …
First, I would like to achieve all my dreams …. Graduate, find good job,travel around the world, maybe I want to be famous and lastly living in peace without any responsibility,,,
After that I might think about marriage!!
Exactly! I think so too. That's why I waited for so long (at last it seems long to me) after getting my degree. I'm not getting married yet, though, just moving in together (for now). We both wanted to have a stable job before doing anything. We realize living on our own is no piece of cake, especially when it comes to economy.illusion wrote:
I so know what you mean. For me marriage is such an advanced state of life that in order to achieve it, you should provide yourself with such stuff like job, house, career and so on. It's important to be know that marriage means a new family, new home and also raising children. I guess without having a successful career it would be hard to buy a home and make a living especially with kids. Now my two friends are getting married. Both are 23(they're studying) and they're sure they're doing the right thing. I'm not saying they're not but if it was me, I just couldn't get married if I knew that I had no job to get money to buy a home with my future husband. I think settling down is good if we have means to do it. Marriages shouldn't be happening in a rush. I think that I still have to achieve some things before I get married, at least that' how I picture it.
Do them fast before you reach your 30's.Dixie wrote:
I, too, have friends who are already married and even with children. I don't see the rush, honestly. We are young, and there are some things I want to achieve in life before I get married.
Why? Will I be too old? :DLennyeTran wrote: Do them fast before you reach your 30's.
Well, here people normally have kids in their early 30s, since they both study and work and it's hard.LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44. There are some exceptions, yet in general, it's better to have kids when you're in your 20's. So why don't you make some for Christ's sake!!!
I was born when my Mama was 35. well I'm a bit crazy after all, but does it really count? I'm still nice and smart, aren't I? 8)LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
Good news, Krisi.Krisi wrote:I will... soon
Congratulations!Krisi wrote:I will... soon
It's not also about the biological fact of being able to give birth or not; it's about seeing your children grow up and go through stages of life themselves. So if I was lucky to live over 80, I wouldn't mind to have kids in my 30's. This way I still get to see my kids and my grandkids. However, with my lifestyle I say I'd be lucky if I live pass 70. That's why I get quite jumpy to see myself pushing into 30's without anything happening yet. And they say the things people advise you to do are either something they can or cannot do; they project their own desires on you. Now you know why I keep asking people to get married and have kids before they reach 30.Tora wrote:I was born when my Mama was 35. well I'm a bit crazy after all, but does it really count? I'm still nice and smart, aren't I? 8)LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
How did you come to think of that? sounds funny really!Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy hgaahgahgahgahg
I like that funny saying nd some times is very real .Krisi wrote:How did you come think of that? sounds funny really!Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy hgaahgahgahgahg
Annaa wrote:I like that funny saying nd some times is very real .Krisi wrote:How did you come to think of that? sounds funny really!Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy hgaahgahgahgahg
My aunt gave birth to her first child at 40. She gave birth to her fourth child at 47 (at that age, most women already have menopause). All of her children are fine and healthy, but she took a great risk. I agree that the best time for a woman to have children is in her twenties. Down Syndrome for instance. As a woman gets older, the risk of her having a child with Down Syndrome increases.LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
Xkalibur wrote:My mother was 21 when I was born.