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Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 2:37 pm
by Tora
Oriani wrote:
fabulous wrote:i don't really like marriage. but i love to live my love one. i dislike having wedding dinner. it costs very high up 10,000. however it is a tradition. :P
Yes. Weddings are very expensive nowadays!!! There are two important things in the event: The Bride's wedding dress and the party for the guests that include good music, a lot of FOOD and etc, ( ...) at the end of all, the couple is already moneyless, lol... well, at least in Venezuela is like that!!!! Without taking into account that you wear the dress only once :?
Absolutely! The dress looks like a queen's one for the crowning... airy underskirts, litres of champagne, and this queer tradition to be celebrating for 2 or 3 days, when the justmarried are already blue-lipped (because of kissing in public to substaniate the reason for the guests to swig off a glass ot two) and black-eyed and tired... I want my wedding to be small and cosy and just for my close ones

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 3:55 pm
by (((Edu)))
Marryment is more than love. Love is wonderful but nobody lives just in love. Before to get marry with someone, think in a person who you really like to talk, to walk together and to do seemed things.

I'm married. It's very important to me have a family and to build a true home. But pay attention, young people "that's tough to keep a relationship".

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 5:30 pm
by Tora
(((Edu))) wrote:Marryment is more than love. Love is wonderful but nobody lives just in love. Before to get marry with someone, think in a person who you really like to talk, to walk together and to do seemed things.

I'm married. It's very important to me have a family and to build a true home. But pay attention, young people "that's tough to keep a relationship".
Great, Edu! How long have you been married? I'm asking as you sound like you've spent not less than ten years in marriage!
Probably you mess up "love" with "passion", as enjoying time together as you say walking and talking is a part of love as I see it.

I'm sure everyone needs to get married sooner or later, just remember about a glass of water from your family on one's deathbed but no one is thirsty though :lol:

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 5:53 am
by komar
oh...... I'm 24....this topic is just for me!!! bc the marriage is hottest theme for me.... this April I'm going to marry!!!!! time has come :) so many people around me say I'm still young for being married...even my relatives my friends my colleagues...I didn't find any support.... but.... I don't care...

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:27 am
by Bambang
komar wrote:oh...... I'm 24....this topic is just for me!!! bc the marriage is hottest theme for me.... this April I'm going to marry!!!!! time has come :) so many people around me say I'm still young for being married...even my relatives my friends my colleagues...I didn't find any support.... but.... I don't care...
Good for you.
Congrats! And welcome to EC!

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 4:39 pm
by BenM
sure why not :) but where is she :cry: :!: >> kidin'
I feel like I gotta get married after I secure job, have enough money , And find the girl of my dreams. I don't know but I feel it's gonna be a while after I graduate and before I get married. Not an easy business in here

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 4:37 am
by southrnpride
I would hope that I could be married and maybe have at least one child by the time I'm in my late twenties, early thirties, but who knows!

I just don't want to rush things. Jumping headlong into a marriage without a thought is foolish.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:17 pm
by ahmedxzxz
from my point of view,marriage is the second half of your life...and everyone should have his other half..either he is a man or a woman....so find your other half and marry soon....

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 7:09 am
by Tora
BenM wrote:sure why not :) but where is she :cry: :!: >> kidin'
I feel like I gotta get married after I secure job, have enough money , And find the girl of my dreams. I don't know but I feel it's gonna be a while after I graduate and before I get married. Not an easy business in here
I'm wondering, why do you guys always have to work out a fortune before you lead a girl to the altar. I've always thought that working hard both of the spouses, earning money for hiring a flat, than buying a detached house - all these make you closer, I mean gaining your wealth together, getting experienced. at the end of life you will say that you walked it all through hand in hand, through thick and thin :wink:

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 8:13 am
by Happysheep
This post is so funny.
Recently i was consdering this problem, although i am just nearly 20 years old .
but i met a boy ,i think i am falling love with him deeply.
But when i saw my own sister preparing for her marrige, i found it is difficult to have an "full house",it needs some important conditions.
The statistics show that the young people in China ,espicially in some developed city, the expense of that is between 30.000 to 70.000 RMB.
hehe ,that is the fact....

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 6:59 am
by komar
Tora wrote:
BenM wrote:sure why not :) but where is she :cry: :!: >> kidin'
I feel like I gotta get married after I secure job, have enough money , And find the girl of my dreams. I don't know but I feel it's gonna be a while after I graduate and before I get married. Not an easy business in here
I'm wondering, why do you guys always have to work out a fortune before you lead a girl to the altar. I've always thought that working hard both of the spouses, earning money for hiring a flat, than buying a detached house - all these make you closer, I mean gaining your wealth together, getting experienced. at the end of life you will say that you walked it all through hand in hand, through thick and thin :wink:
this is just exactly what I'm talking about :) the same feeling!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 4:59 am
by sure
Yes.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 11:25 am
by Snowy*
Right now I am not even think about marriage..

I think it will be a big mistake if I married now …

First, I would like to achieve all my dreams …. Graduate, find good job,travel around the world, maybe I want to be famous and lastly living in peace without any responsibility,,,


After that I might think about marriage!!

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 9:38 pm
by illusion
Snowy* wrote:Right now I am not even think about marriage..

I think it will be a big mistake if I married now …

First, I would like to achieve all my dreams …. Graduate, find good job,travel around the world, maybe I want to be famous and lastly living in peace without any responsibility,,,


After that I might think about marriage!!

I so know what you mean. For me marriage is such an advanced state of life that in order to achieve it, you should provide yourself with such stuff like job, house, career and so on. It's important to be know that marriage means a new family, new home and also raising children. I guess without having a successful career it would be hard to buy a home and make a living especially with kids. Now my two friends are getting married. Both are 23(they're studying) and they're sure they're doing the right thing. I'm not saying they're not but if it was me, I just couldn't get married if I knew that I had no job to get money to buy a home with my future husband. I think settling down is good if we have means to do it. Marriages shouldn't be happening in a rush. I think that I still have to achieve some things before I get married, at least that' how I picture it.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 12:44 pm
by Dixie
illusion wrote:
I so know what you mean. For me marriage is such an advanced state of life that in order to achieve it, you should provide yourself with such stuff like job, house, career and so on. It's important to be know that marriage means a new family, new home and also raising children. I guess without having a successful career it would be hard to buy a home and make a living especially with kids. Now my two friends are getting married. Both are 23(they're studying) and they're sure they're doing the right thing. I'm not saying they're not but if it was me, I just couldn't get married if I knew that I had no job to get money to buy a home with my future husband. I think settling down is good if we have means to do it. Marriages shouldn't be happening in a rush. I think that I still have to achieve some things before I get married, at least that' how I picture it.
Exactly! I think so too. That's why I waited for so long (at last it seems long to me) after getting my degree. I'm not getting married yet, though, just moving in together (for now). We both wanted to have a stable job before doing anything. We realize living on our own is no piece of cake, especially when it comes to economy.

I, too, have friends who are already married and even with children. I don't see the rush, honestly. We are young, and there are some things I want to achieve in life before I get married.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 6:12 am
by Lovelymaiden
I do not think marry is a happy life. I really do not want. What I desire is a comfortable and free life.
After getting married, you will have a lot things to take care, and you will depend on your mate and children.What happen if you realize that your mate is not like you believe, you love, you expect...The would be many thing that make you feel tired, angry and sad.You may become cruel to them(include your mate and th kids). Just one more reason,I think there is extremely rare perfect person but what I want is a perfect one.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 7:10 am
by Vega
I don't want marry...I completely indifferent for relationships.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 3:29 pm
by nancywu
i am in contrdiction about marriage, want marriange but afriend of the responsibilities followed.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 8:59 pm
by MissLT
Dixie wrote:
I, too, have friends who are already married and even with children. I don't see the rush, honestly. We are young, and there are some things I want to achieve in life before I get married.
Do them fast before you reach your 30's.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 11:25 am
by Dixie
LennyeTran wrote: Do them fast before you reach your 30's.
Why? Will I be too old? :D

Anyway I think 32-33 is a good age to have a child. We'll see, though :mrgreen:

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 2:48 am
by MissLT
It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44. There are some exceptions, yet in general, it's better to have kids when you're in your 20's. So why don't you make some for Christ's sake!!! :mrgreen:

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 7:47 am
by Dixie
LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44. There are some exceptions, yet in general, it's better to have kids when you're in your 20's. So why don't you make some for Christ's sake!!! :mrgreen:
Well, here people normally have kids in their early 30s, since they both study and work and it's hard.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:01 am
by louiehu
I am a married guy.Marriage taken merriment and grief. :|

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 1:14 pm
by r1lita
When I'll find the right one, I mean the right girl :mrgreen:

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 2:29 pm
by Tora
LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
I was born when my Mama was 35. well I'm a bit crazy after all, but does it really count? I'm still nice and smart, aren't I? 8)

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Tue May 13, 2008 6:50 pm
by (((Edu)))
I live together. I'm not married in church, for instance. It's a good opportunity to know deeply another person. It's worth of trying.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 5:16 pm
by sofys
HIII!!!
WELL...... OOOOOOH I DON'T KNOW.
HERE IN COSTA RICA NOW A DAYS, ITS VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND SOMEONE TO WANT TO GET MARRIED, BECAUSE WE ARE FINDDING THAT ITS BETTER AND EASY WAY JUST GO AND LIVE WITH THE PERSON YOU LOVE. SO IF YOU DON'T LIKE "THE REAL PERSON" AFTER MONTHS LIVING TOGUETHER YOU CAN LEAVE THE PERSON AND THATS IT. THE MAIN IDEA IS THAT YOU HAVE TO TRY BEFORE AND KNOW IF THAT RELATIONSHIP IS GOING TO WORK FINE.. :-D :-) :roll:
OH MAYBE THATS WHAT I THINK!!! IT IS PROBABLY WHAT I GOING TO DO WHEN THAT DEEP QUESTION COMES TO ME.....HAHA

I'M OPEN-MIND PERSON SO I ACCEPT ANYTHING YOU WANT TO ASK O TALK... :mrgreen:

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 9:56 am
by Krisi
I will... soon :-)

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 4:37 am
by Bambang
Krisi wrote:I will... soon :-)
Good news, Krisi.

Re: How old do you want to marry at?

Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 6:13 am
by HuahYu
Marriage should be wonderful and romance only if you met someone in right time, right place n right person. :-P Before all of this happen, I should study hard n get a great remuneration without depending on someone.

Thanks~

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Wed Jun 04, 2008 6:33 pm
by Vega
Krisi wrote:I will... soon :-)
Congratulations!

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 6:34 am
by MissLT
Tora wrote:
LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
I was born when my Mama was 35. well I'm a bit crazy after all, but does it really count? I'm still nice and smart, aren't I? 8)
It's not also about the biological fact of being able to give birth or not; it's about seeing your children grow up and go through stages of life themselves. So if I was lucky to live over 80, I wouldn't mind to have kids in my 30's. This way I still get to see my kids and my grandkids. However, with my lifestyle I say I'd be lucky if I live pass 70. That's why I get quite jumpy to see myself pushing into 30's without anything happening yet. And they say the things people advise you to do are either something they can or cannot do; they project their own desires on you. Now you know why I keep asking people to get married and have kids before they reach 30. :oops:

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:01 pm
by Annaa
When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 12:53 am
by Krisi
Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:
How did you come to think of that? :lol: :lol: :lol: sounds funny really!

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 7:51 am
by Annaa
Krisi wrote:
Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:
How did you come think of that? :lol: :lol: :lol: sounds funny really!
I like that funny saying nd some times is very real :oops: :-P .

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 1:30 pm
by Krisi
Annaa wrote:
Krisi wrote:
Annaa wrote:When I am going 2 grow up of course :oops: cuz I want 2 have children nd a gr8 life,but I also think that marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy :oops: :lol: hgaahgahgahgahg {-:
How did you come to think of that? :lol: :lol: :lol: sounds funny really!
I like that funny saying nd some times is very real :oops: :-P .
:lol: :lol: :lol:

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 4:06 pm
by Annaa
Do u agree with that saying Kris ?

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 11:52 pm
by Cypress
LennyeTran wrote:It's risky to have kids around that age although my mom had me when she was 30 and 36 when she gave birth to my brother. My aunt had my cousin when she was 44...
My aunt gave birth to her first child at 40. She gave birth to her fourth child at 47 (at that age, most women already have menopause). All of her children are fine and healthy, but she took a great risk. I agree that the best time for a woman to have children is in her twenties. Down Syndrome for instance. As a woman gets older, the risk of her having a child with Down Syndrome increases.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 8:57 am
by Vega
My mother was 21 when I was born.

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 4:48 pm
by Melek
Xkalibur wrote:My mother was 21 when I was born.

on the other hand she is lucky to become a young mother :)

Re: How old do you want to marry at?

Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 9:50 pm
by sofys
HuahYu wrote:Marriage should be wonderful and romance only if you met someone in right time, right place n right person. :-P Before all of this happen, I should study hard n get a great remuneration without depending on someone.

Thanks~

hi HuahYu
What do your comunity thinks about getting married? and When you should do it?
here is common to get married before 30 years old.

byee!

Re: How old do you want to marry at?

Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 5:51 am
by HuahYu
hi HuahYu
What do your comunity thinks about getting married? and When you should do it?
here is common to get married before 30 years old.

byee![/quote]

Hi Sofys,

Most of my friend will get married on 21-25 years old...i think is before 25 years old~ :-P

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 10:59 am
by Annaa
I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 7:11 pm
by Vega
Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.

:-D

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 9:34 am
by Annaa
Xkalibur wrote:
Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.

:-D

Oke,thnx ,but y ? :oops: Nd I don`t want a husband I`m 2 little :lol: :lol: :lol: .

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 12:46 am
by sofys
Xkalibur wrote:
Annaa wrote:I`d like 2 marry when I am going 2 b 24 yrs old .
Nobody will marry you if you continue writing like that. If you want a husband you should write like that: I'd like to marry when I am going to be 24 years old.

:-D

hi xkalibur!!
where are you from??
and when you are goin to get married??
it looks that you want to do it as soon as possible!!!

see you!!
:-D :-D :-D

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 6:50 am
by uzma
Why not? Are you against marriage?

Re:

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 3:33 pm
by Malvina
Xkalibur wrote:I'm not going to marry.
Only God may be alone!

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 2:48 pm
by Romantica
Well,frankly speaking,I haven't seen any successful marriages in my life yet :-( The reasons about it are different,but the fact is people are not happy being married.As for me...I never gonna be married.And I can explain why - too much responsibility,too boring living with one and the same man all your life,too much pain if smth goes wrong.Hope you see my point {-;

Re: Would you like to marry ?

Posted: Sun May 24, 2009 2:48 pm
by Annie
well...i want to marry before 25 years old.