Normally, the style of writing on forums n groups are not so grammer n spelling restricted. I have seen people from every level/class, sharing n expressing their problems n issues. Bec if someone is able to express himself in words which are correctly conveying his message to others thats is all we expect from a chatter on group or forum.
Kindly help me point out the mistakes from following written paragraphs which are recently so much criticized by majority of readers :( Majority of them mis-interpreted my words n taken me wrong n later said that its bec of my poor english writing style that couldn't convey my messages to them.
I have compiled some of my messages from that post together. Kindly have a look n help me out in picking my so mistakes.
***************"Mesg 1(I heard n read the recent research on delivering the baby in different weeks.
Most of the women who opt to go for c-section would plan their delivery right after 36 weeks. But reserches shows that all the babies who delivered in 37 n 38 weeks, they have to suffered the severe lung conditions in early part of life after birth. So the best to avoid all such lung issues, one has to plan delivery in 39 week at min, if there is no other complications.
So m due is on 23rd May, 2014
Even if i will have to go for c-section or to put effort for normal delivery in 39 weeks, but i'll go delivery inshAllah somewhere between 8th May to 14 May 2014 hopefully.
whats ur plans?)
Msg 2(Actually i have ACCA papers in very start of June, so i'll have to keep margin of 10 days atleast for final revision b4 papers. Thats y i have to paln my delivery somewhere between May...Otherwise i never push my baby to go out b4 she not try herself :)
i would love to keep her more safe n protected some more time in my womb but i have other obligations n timelines..thats y all i can do to allow her to stay at max in my womb which is necessary for her health n de velopment. Rest then she will have to allow me to cope up with other targets of life :) )
First of all, no one knows what comes next. But being a human being we all plan our lives, our studies, our babies our targets according to our demands n needs n preferences.
ACCA is stands for Associated Certified Charted Accountant Degree of UK. I"m into it since last few years. Its not sudden plan which i jsut recently started, i got pregnant during study plans, i'm happy for this as well.
If i said that i'm planning to deliver the baby around 39 weeks, was that mean that i 'm being selfish n throwing out baby frrom me forcefully?
COmon...dont be emotional n foolish ladies if u thought so. All i meant to say that, i would love to keep it in me at max if i could, but since i'm committed with final papers dead line in JUNe 2014, which is in early june, tu i planning to give max required time to baby in me which is 38 weeks, after that ur baby can easily survive out. To keep waiting till the very last moment doesn't suits my circumstances.
This is what me as a human planning, but what will happen that Allah Knows how things get settle, how baby condition n postion goes...
But if a mother is planning to allow her baby for max n required stay in herself n at the same time coping up with her qualification requirements with best possible health n less stress then i dont know thats a selfish attitude.
But yeah everyone has her own thinking style n preferences. )
:) More interesting suggestions came up
Paper r not scheduling by me, it is schedule by UK govement twicely in year. One cannot schedule the papers according to his wish nor its possible to give paper before the delivey.
Is that shopping which u pre-planned or postpone? :)
And as i said, we r talking about our rough planning, we can't be so strict n sure about that b4 time, bec time brings its ifs n buts along it. So whenever time comes we'll have to re consider our wishes n our planning in gi ven circumstances. Got that? )
I was talking about my planning which is definately a rough plan in mind according to me, n i asked for plans of other ladies around which is again definately their rough plans, like what they think or plan....)
Mesg 6( I feel like laughing on the poor mental approach most of the ladies showing up by their intelligent suggestions n answers.
Anyways, May Allah help all of us to reach to our goals successfully, n to deliver our babies in best possible health
And open our minds to understands others opinions n suggestions.
I didn't suggest anything to anyone, i read out researched, i convinced with that, i made up my mind according to that. So mind that, it wasn't any suggestion which i was suggesting to all others.)********