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- Lilian
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what should I do?(consultation)(we are here to help you)
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I had the same.Force yuorself,I mean when you are in a bed mood don't show anybody.It's not good advertise to you.The second;If the cause of it somebody,try to find only positive in his/her charicter.Always ask yourself WHY? And very soon you'll get ride of it.Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.
i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...
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lilian, it is normal. everyone has his/her happy time or blue time. the crucial issue is how you would deal with your blue time. I think, if you feel upset sometimes, just recollect what made you happy in the past.Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.
i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...
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RedRose wrote:lilian, it is normal. everyone has his/her happy time or blue time. the crucial issue is how you would deal with your blue time. I think, if you feel upset sometimes, just recollect what made you happy in the past.Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.
i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...
i got what u wanted to tell rose. but the main problem is my mood change automatically. like, i am sitting here talking with u , laughing having fun and all on a sudden i am feeling blue. not enjoying the moment.
how to get rid of it?
seems like i am having some kind of depression.
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no dav, its not about anyone or anything. its just matter of mood.Davidj wrote:I had the same.Force yuorself,I mean when you are in a bed mood don't show anybody.It's not good advertise to you.The second;If the cause of it somebody,try to find only positive in his/her charicter.Always ask yourself WHY? And very soon you'll get ride of it.Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.
i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...
thats why i am calling it mood swing.
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Lilian.I had a depression a few years ago.I didn´t feel sometimes good and sometimes well. I only felt sadness. Deep sadness. I didn´t know why. There was no reason at all. When I last went to the physician she told me that I had a problem with the serotonine or something like that. It was a physic problem. She told me to rest and have some pills and the problem was solved.
If you really feel very bad (really feel very sad) talk about this with the physician. If you think that it is not so serious talk with your friends, family...
If you really feel very bad (really feel very sad) talk about this with the physician. If you think that it is not so serious talk with your friends, family...
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haha...thx guys, ur are so helpful. hmm yah i need some adjustment . coz i am feeling that the people around me and in my life are not very understandable. beside i can sense my own choice, and own point of view. however i am trying to cope with it. trying to ignore all those. but sometime i am just helpless.
alright probably i shouldnt think too much.
alright probably i shouldnt think too much.
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sure khalid. we are just like a family here. feel free to share ur problem.khalid wrote:wow great,,
I don't thinking all of you are consultant, next time if I have problem I will write here,hope you also will response also like to lilian..
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well, i'm moody as well and that is by nature...sometimes i really cannot control it anymore but as long as no one gets affected by that it is fine..because not everyone can put up with that kind of behavior. and if anyone would be affected, just explain it to them afterwards...you understand yourself and you always will but we can never expect others to do the same. and if you'rwe feeling happy or sad, try to find out what factor makes you feel such...if there is nothing in particular since you often feel like that, just get used to it and don't take anything seriously..if you know you are having a bad mood, try to stay away from other people first and be alone..it will allow you to think and relax...Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.
i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...
i hope this could help you...
good luck...
dalagang pilipina - a cool chick that is
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thz pinas...ur very pretty..:)pinas wrote:well, i'm moody as well and that is by nature...sometimes i really cannot control it anymore but as long as no one gets affected by that it is fine..because not everyone can put up with that kind of behavior. and if anyone would be affected, just explain it to them afterwards...you understand yourself and you always will but we can never expect others to do the same. and if you'rwe feeling happy or sad, try to find out what factor makes you feel such...if there is nothing in particular since you often feel like that, just get used to it and don't take anything seriously..if you know you are having a bad mood, try to stay away from other people first and be alone..it will allow you to think and relax...Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.
i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...
i hope this could help you...
good luck...
yah, i will try to do that....
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:) hey thanksLilian wrote:thz pinas...ur very pretty..:)pinas wrote:well, i'm moody as well and that is by nature...sometimes i really cannot control it anymore but as long as no one gets affected by that it is fine..because not everyone can put up with that kind of behavior. and if anyone would be affected, just explain it to them afterwards...you understand yourself and you always will but we can never expect others to do the same. and if you'rwe feeling happy or sad, try to find out what factor makes you feel such...if there is nothing in particular since you often feel like that, just get used to it and don't take anything seriously..if you know you are having a bad mood, try to stay away from other people first and be alone..it will allow you to think and relax...Lilian wrote:ok, i am trying to share my problem.
i am having a terrible mood swing. sometimes i am really happy, sometimes i feel blue. so, need some advice on it...
i hope this could help you...
good luck...
yah, i will try to do that....
dalagang pilipina - a cool chick that is