caiqinqian wrote:Thanks babycricket,mahboob.I have had a long talk with my friend and told him my ture feeling.there are so many difference between persons and everyone has themselve's thinking way,I hope him don't to easily jugde a person just by himself thinking way.Frankness is need between friends.
tahrer wrote:yea, it depend on the purpose,what is his purpose of observing other people,
if the purpose is to know character, performance, attitude, of the person in order that he can communicate , interact perfecly with him, I think that is ok.
exsample: I will not joking with my friend A,because I know she is serious person, she will get angry if I joke her.
How can I know she doesn't like joking,of course I have done observation, that why I know her character, an her attitude,
but if we observe other people to search what is his mistake, his weakness,and inform him, or anybody, it will make trouble for him.he will feel somebody always observing, evaluating, appraise.of course it will make uncomportable and nervous.
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