[quote="LennyeTranProbably so. But why would she stay with him for ten years if he was gay? And what's wrong with a bi guy?
Honey...You cant even have a valid opinion if your boyfriend has never told you he was gay or bi....which has happened to me....the part is he should have let me know before we got together not a year later!
I guess you can have a knowledgeable opinion based on what you think you would be like in my situation but have you ever actually been there?
No 1 he made me feel I was not up to par with women sometimes and do you think I wanted to compete with both sexes for his attentions...this was my biggest thing, but the other was not funny either, that I may be more likely to get ill because of multiple partnerings that might occur within a relationship where the partner cant satisfy all a persons cravings and yearnings. I wanted to have a loyal and trusted relationship and he stripped me of this trust with the acknowledgement that I was not enough as a woman alone.
that hopefully explains most of my fears, at the time.
A person has the right to know the mind of their partner...their likes and dislikes...in order to choose genuine realationship goals...and with trust intact.