by Josef » Thu Oct 16, 2008 9:31 am
Assuming that the sentence really is:
"Well, I'm a single man that's coming with a different approach."
which could also be
"Well, I'm a single man who's coming with a different approach."
or better still
"Well, I'm a single man with a different approach."
he probably means that he has a different attitude, he's not like all the other single men, he has a different agenda; perhaps he has a different way of attracting women.
approach (noun): a way of dealing with something