Elisa wrote:I think the memories of unhappiness will live forever only if the cause of this unhappiness is due to our behavior.
If the cause of unhappiness is due to another person is much easier to forgive and forget, or at least not suffer anymore.
Forgiving yourself is the act more difficult.
I respect your opinion but that doesn't mean I agree with it. I just guess your meaning of behaviour in this context is the manner how we understand and take things. I guess you just have to review your reply a bit more
Do you know that you can forgive but you cannot and should not forget? Or maybe only for me...
Elisa wrote:Have you ever thought that staying only with good people could make your life easier?
of course, but what is good to you can't be always good to me and oppositely what is good to me cannot be always good to you, but in my opinion we are all at a common end. Wherever we go we will be seeing and meeting different types of people but we cannot judge them by the way they look and the way they dress or sometimes
even the way they talk.
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have you ever realized that there are people who make their life easy by running away from what they have and must do? And that's not the meaning of good people to you I guess or is it? Have you ever realized that they make themselves a burden to others?