Dear my beautiful friends Behnam and Elham
I'm not here for a long time but I feel all of us are family, it's sad to see beautiful friends like you both are not going to be friends anymore.
I really don't know what had happened, but I have a story that happened to me maybe it can help.
I had a friend of mine and he was my cousin as well, we were very close friends during 35 years ago, we were two members of four close friends, we used to go out with each other etc…
Eight years ago I had a fight with him, in this fight I was very angry and I said very bad things and I insulted him.
The reason of this fight wasn't because of the ethics or other important things like that.
During those eight years I tried to call him and said to him that I'm really sorry, it's the first time for me to make you angry and we all do mistakes, please forgave me. but till now he refused to accept my apology.
because of him the situation now, we become two separated groups and we won't become one group again.
In my opinion I did a mistake but this mistake is nothing comparing with our situation now because we lose each other and he and I can't find another good friends like us.
What I want to say sense the problem not because of mainly things in the personality it can be fixed, we are human we all do mistakes and we will always do.
Hope I made my idea clear
All the best