nympho-holic wrote:tsk tsk tsk being stuck-up again eh? You're the first one in this forum is stuck-up and I mean so is.....................
Could you explain that, please? You know, if you speak in code, we cannot understand you, since according to you we
Honey, answer me one question first before I go on explaining why I wrote my post to you. Who are WE that you were talking about? When you used we, you meant you and Rosey or everyone else in the forum? If your answer is everyone else in the forum, I can give you my answer "Helloooooooooooooo Miss Liar"
Now I'm explaining my post since you don't seem to get what stuck-up means. It's funny that you've been acting that way but you can't see it. Talking about ignorance. I remember once I've read one quotation that said, "it's easy to see other's faults but not our own." You've taken me back to that quote.
Now we're gonna analyze all the possibilities of the reason why you posted your post right after I made a compliment to Charlotte, ok?
1. Your were jealous because I made a compliment to Charlotte. Why honey? I thought you loved her.
I know it sucked that you were not the center of the attention but did you really need that 24/7? Couldn't you step down your spotlight for once and let others have that?
2. You thought what I said about Charlotte wasn't true. On the other hand, you thought Charlotte was not smart and I was overdone what I did. If this is not true, explain me why you made a post about me when I was making a compliment to Charlotte? I was rude although I said someone in this forum was smart?
3. You wanted everyone in this forum to remember how rude or how mean I am. You take every chance, every minute, every breath you can to tell others that I am rude and everyone needs to keep that in mind. If it's not enough, you can talk to them in private about how rude I am.
As much as I can recall, I treat you the same as I treat everyone else in this forum. In fact, I don't pick a fight with you. I don't go after every post that talks about you and make some comments. In the past, I had a discussion with you about sexism and I didn't know my different points would lead to a point that I was being rude. Why don't you learn to accept other's different views, honey. This world is not only black and white colors. It's a rainbow. All the colors are mixed together and somehow for some people, their colors turn to a nasty mix while others' colors turn to a beautiful color. It's the same for matters in this world; there are so many sides of a subject, including sexism. You think it's not fair for women to be secondary; however, you don't just cry about it for one day and the next day you'd win it. This is still the men's world. You can't win what you want in one day. You can't win it if you sit there and cry about it. If you want things to change, do something. Don't be a baby and whine about what you want. If you did have a real job that was related to business, you'd see businesswomen don't cry about their equality. They'll go to get it in their own way. If you nagged about it in front of the men, do you know what they would say behind your back? Do you know what they would explain to your boss about your behavior? They'd say you were on your menstrual period, you'd gotten dumped by your boyfriend, you'd found your husband in bed with another woman, etc. Many reasons that they would make to make you sound like a crazy bitch. That's how the real business works. Did you know any of it? I was trying to explain it to you and you couldn't take it. You said I was mocking you when I asked you what you did. You've hold that in your heart. Another thing to learn honey, there will be a time that someone doesn't agree with you about something. Learn to accept the fact--not all people will kiss you from head to toe; not everyone will make compliments about you if you haven't done anything to deserve that. Consequently, there will be people who are smart; you're not the only one. I've said Charlotte is the smart one because I've gotten a chance to read her posts and most of them sound unique and interesting. I haven't had a chance to look at everyone else's yet. If I see something interesting, I'll say it is interesting. Funny enough, not many has talked about my post to Charlotte except you and Rosey. You two take what you want to hear and leave out what you don't want to hear. You two only read and remember what you understand and leave out the rest that you don't understand. In addition, you've ADDED your own words to other's post, mine is an example. I said Charlotte was the smart one, but I did not say anything about others. I believe I didn't say Charlotte was the smart one and everyone else was stupid. You read my post and you analyzed it with your own words, your own imagination, and your jealousy has gotten over your head; therefore, you assumped that I said everyone else was stupid. Do I need to compliment Charlotte and everyone else at the same time to make me less rude in your own world? Hence, I should have made a compliment about you but I forgot to mention you, the queen of this forum.
4. I'm not allowed to make any nice comments to anyone. I am the rude one, you've said, and I will have to remain as the rude one. If I made any compliments about others without yours or Rosey's permission, I'd be in trouble.
I am the police one of this forum. All I do is wait to see if anyone stepped over the rule and there I would be punishing you all by deleting your posts. Nevertheless, I can't remember I have deleted anything that was not supposed to be deleted. I also have moved topics to the right place. That's all I've done.
In conclusion, I'm not gonna argue about this topic with you anymore. You can't stand seeing me giving compliments to other members, I won't do it anymore. I'll be remain as a mean one like you've told others to. I either won't post or my posts will be rude if that makes you happy. BE PREPARED.