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Say no love?

Postby pBaL » Tue Mar 15, 2005 1:36 am

My close friend told me that she didn't care abt the love any more just because she met a man who deceived her feeling many times one years ago and she realized there is no true man exists in this world. (last time, she said that she will commit suicide, ohh, it's terrible!!!) :cry:
I hope all of you will help her,
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Postby chemist » Tue Mar 15, 2005 10:38 am

One bad man presence in her life doesn't mean that the world men are really all bad.
it's not a mater of man or woman to be bad or not.
It's the human being ,being good or bad.
In this world there are bad men and also bad women.
So don't let your friend believe that true love is not here anymore ,tell her that love surrounds us everywhere but sometimes when we busy with something we don't see it well.
Tell her to start her new life and forget about that guy.
she may found another good real good guy.

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Re: Say no love?

Postby nhim » Tue Mar 15, 2005 4:03 pm

pBaL wrote:My close friend told me that she didn't care abt the love any more just because she met a man who deceived her feeling many times one years ago and she realized there is no true man exists in this world. (last time, she said that she will commit suicide, ohh, it's terrible!!!) :cry:
I hope all of you will help her,


hi pbal!!
i don`t believe that no true man exists in our world
i know her feeling now. be sure that she `s very disappointed and sad so she `s not enough clam to think carefully!
i see and comprehend that feeling in falling in love ! but why don`t you say to her love is not all ! why dose she intend to commit sucide but the life is still long !in future , she will meet someone better than her ex _boy friend !!
finally , i just say to her : if she fell in love and loved the life , she should believe and hope in future .and let live with my expression : believe,optimistics, the happy life will smile with you ^.^
have a nice day !!
good luck!!!

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Postby Chet Baker » Thu Mar 17, 2005 6:24 am

Hi pBal, Time may heal your friend's scar. Once she realise that something she now believe in is not true, she will change.

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Postby amoolah » Tue Mar 22, 2005 10:05 am

There was and always will be a true love. The only difference is that nowadays it is very tough to find that true love especially when people in our time have many different meanings for the true love. People who found it are really lucky. ;)
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Postby Dixie » Tue Mar 22, 2005 10:28 am

I second Chemist's opinion! Tell your friend to be brave, when the black clouds fade away she will see the sunlight again and face things differently!

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Postby Chet Baker » Tue Mar 22, 2005 2:02 pm

[quote="amoolah"]The only difference is that nowadays it is very tough to find that true love [/quot

True Love is not a thing that you need to find, as it will come to you in the right time and right moment. The only thing you need to do is to grasp that chance without hesitation. ;)

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Postby fatyma1417 » Tue Mar 22, 2005 3:45 pm

Im with Chet Baker your friend should top loking for love tell her to let love come to her

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Postby idalia » Tue Mar 22, 2005 11:26 pm

I totally agree with Chet Baker. We don't have to find the true love.

True love always finds us!!!!!!!!!!. Tell your friend she'll meet someone too much better than the other guy.

And help her to forget that silly idea about all men are equal, and bad. That's nothing but a big lie! :x

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Postby amoolah » Wed Mar 23, 2005 8:00 am

Chet Baker wrote:
amoolah wrote:The only difference is that nowadays it is very tough to find that true love [/quot

True Love is not a thing that you need to find, as it will come to you in the right time and right moment. The only thing you need to do is to grasp that chance without hesitation. ;)

Ya i think you are right ;) thanks

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Postby Butler » Mon Apr 25, 2005 5:49 pm

I have to say I know what she means, when you lose someone you love it's very hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. That feeling of hurt covers everything with a dark mist that clouds our judgement and removes optimism.
The reality is of course that life goes on and you may not find love but remember this : IT WILL FIND YOU !!

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Postby Dixie » Wed Apr 27, 2005 10:39 am

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Postby Stella » Sun May 01, 2005 4:38 pm

maybe i don't have right to make comments on this topic..coz i don't have bf and don't know about feelings between a man and a woman.
But in my mind, girls should be independent! maybe in a good man's arm will become a sweet place for u, when u feel sad, he would make u feel quiet and warm.but remember, he is not represented the all of ur life.
I hope all the girls won't be hurted by bad men and we will live our own wonderful life. Am I right?

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Postby takeshi » Mon May 09, 2005 7:32 am

hey,pBaL!ur friend committing suicide scares me.love from the love is not the whole of our lives.did ur friend concern about her prarents sorrow of losing her? :roll:
precious ur lives!life is once,no second take.maybe during our lives,we will meet another good guy.I believe that God will be fair.He gave u frustration,and he also will give u luck.just be patient and waiting for the next beautiful scene in ur life.would u tell ur friend,pBaL?

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Postby authorityquery » Sat Jun 11, 2005 4:58 pm

You should advise her that suicide is the most stupid work. The ants also want to live, so why human want to die? No way. She wanted to suicide because she 's not brave enough to face up with the truth( the man is too bad).she thinks man 's so bad, why she has to kill herself because of bad man. He is not fit to make her say goodbye with life.
Anyway, I sympathy with her because I know when you really hope and expect about something, but it makes you disappointed, you 'll be sad, sorrow, ... exhaust(sometimes) and you don't know what you have to do now.
Remember everything can be solved because There's not only you in this life, besides you, there are many friends, parents, and so on, all of them can help you if you really need.
One more: Life is good, but it becomes bad because of human, human do everything.
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Postby Crystal » Sun Jun 12, 2005 11:02 am

i am agree with authorityquery.Our life is not for certain one ,we should charge our lives by ourselves.No one else can drop your life .if you have the brave to suicide , why dont you have the courage to live ?
There are many kinds of people living in the world , good or bad ,you just meet one of the bad one , but i dont think it represent all! No one can say that once you tumbled while walking , you will never get up !
so collect your dint , and say goodbye to the past then you will life is much better !

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Re: Say no love?

Postby ichigo » Tue Oct 04, 2005 2:14 am

Hi pBaL :)

I'm Japanese girl.
I think that there are many nice guys in the world so I believe that she will meet her destiny person.
How is she getting along now :?: :?:


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