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When you said something wrong

Postby pBaL » Tue Mar 15, 2005 3:23 am

Being ordinary people and noone is perfect so we can’t avoid this problem. When you said something wrong to your parents or your sister or your friends….etc. what would you do than? Saying sorry is not easy after hurting them by your words without intention?
just say "I am sorry", is it enough? :?:
Every body has one’s own way and I would like to hear it.
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Postby shokin » Tue Mar 15, 2005 12:05 pm

It depends... did you say lies ? or were you sincerely wrong ?

the best thing is to accept at once your error, and to tell your embarassment and excuse to the person (or the people).

Just be sincere (one or many words doesn't matter), in words, in face, in acts.

It is heavy no to say any feeling. (culpability, hatred, sadness, for example).

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Postby pBaL » Wed Mar 16, 2005 3:59 am

Personally, I will do something to let them know that I realized my mistakes, I will look deep inside their eyes and give a wink ;) to them.
of course after saying sorry :mrgreen:
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Postby shokin » Wed Mar 16, 2005 9:57 am

The message must be clear and expressed, not only suggested. The person wants to be sure.

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Postby Chet Baker » Thu Mar 17, 2005 6:17 am

I think "sorry" is enough, if you don't mean to hurt. otherwise, what are u suppose to do?

If you say something with intend to hurt the others and want to make it up subsequently, that's is an different question. You may doing something more than "sorry".

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Postby authorityquery » Sat Jun 11, 2005 5:02 pm

When I say something wrong, ofcourse I'll say sorry, and I'll never do my faults again. I have to make evryone believe that I tell the truth, prove that.
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Postby lekimtoan » Sun Jun 12, 2005 4:10 pm

Say sorry .After that,you can't do anythings because they still don't believe in you .Time passes that will prove your change,i think.Making mistakes,that's ok,cause we are sin.but to realize things sin,and change,it's more difficult.

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Sorry is the best policy

Postby Shazzam » Mon Jun 13, 2005 5:49 am

Definately say sorry as long as you mean it most people will accept that we all make mistakes. Sorry is taking responsibility for them.

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Postby lekimtoan » Mon Jun 13, 2005 6:37 am

Sorry is respons not mean that they will forgive you.Forgiving is through time,because they need to see you changed

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Postby blossom » Sun Jun 19, 2005 3:50 am

Hi friend

I think that saying sorry ofcourse is not the solution . BUT the best way to remove your faults is to dont make it again .

if for exmaple your mother upset from you for a certain reason try dont make this again .

Good luck :wink:

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Postby happysmile » Sun Jun 26, 2005 12:36 pm

according to me, sorry seems to be hard to say, but it's very important.
When you do something wrong to someone, it's your fault, you must be say sorry and don't do it again, he or she always looks forward to your sorry.
If it's a serious fault, sorry is not enough, maybe he or she will not forgive you. Consider it's an experience and try to live better.

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Postby juhainah » Tue Jun 28, 2005 7:53 pm

sorry is a necessary word to say, but you should mean it when to say it and it should come deeply from your heart so that you confess that you are guilty and you promise not to make such mistakes never ever.

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Re: When you said something wrong

Postby Ms.A.Z » Wed Jun 29, 2005 4:44 pm

just say "I am sorry", is it enough? :?:
Every body has one’s own way and I would like to hear it



When you hurt the people you love the most it becomes very hard to say sorry to them BUT knowing that you were wrong and admitting it and say sorry after that is really big thing,a big step some people but not all can take or do.Sorry is a really small word to cover a big problem you might have created once you say it and admit your mistake it really makes things and relationships better. :wink:

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Postby keling » Sat Jul 02, 2005 1:17 pm

:D [/b]say sorry ASAP it is necessary to say heartly sincerely,

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Postby illusion » Fri Aug 19, 2005 11:17 pm

sorry seems to be the hardest word but it's the first step and the most important one. Once you do this, everything will start to work out itself.. you just have to admit yours fault and then try to make it up to the person you hurt...

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Postby hello » Sat Aug 20, 2005 6:32 pm

For us as Muslims...

When we hurt others, saying sorry or asking for forgiveness is considered a very noble behavior.Our religion urges us to do so, whether for our family , friends, or any person from other religions..

and I see that the ward sorry should come from our hearts ( which includes willing not to repeat the wrong behavior again and with an intention to avoid doing things that might hurt the one you hurted before ) .....

I strongly believe that we should keep watching out our behaviors and wards to ensure that we are not hurting the people we love...)

For me, I don't like saying sorry alot because I feel it is very shamful to do silly things that hurt others and eventually affect our relationships with them... That's why I watch out my wards & behaviors....

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Postby illusion » Sat Aug 20, 2005 9:03 pm

[quote="hello"]

For me, I don't like saying sorry alot because I feel it is very shamful to do silly things that hurt others and eventually affect our relationships with others... That's why I watch out my wards & behaviors....
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I think making mistakes is a human thing and we all have right to do it. Even though they hurt other people, we can't avoid it sometimes. That's why we have to apologise and I'm not ashamed to admit I was wrong and say sorry. We're only humans after all...

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Postby hello » Sun Aug 21, 2005 9:41 am

[/quote]
I think making mistakes is a human thing and we all have right to do it. Even though they hurt other people, we can't avoid it sometimes. That's why we have to apologise and I'm not ashamed to admit I was wrong and say sorry. We're only humans after all...[/quote]

I truely gree that we are human beings and we do mistakes...But what I want to say is that we should not get used to make mistakes, once we realize that a certain ward or behavior might hurt others. we should avoid it....

We should say Sorry when we hurt others....We should

apoligize for our bad behaviors and it is very honorable behavior..

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Postby illusion » Sun Aug 21, 2005 12:12 pm

yeah, I think the same

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Postby quicksilver » Mon Aug 29, 2005 3:56 am

The things we said we cant get them back , maybe we said something hurts other .
We said sorry but the things we said hurt him/her too much , we have to show them that we are really honest.
But i think that all we said ( if serious) can stamp forever in their minds.
And the last , we should think twice before saying anything.


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