That's what I always say, too. The more you look for something, the less chance you've got of finding it
For some things, like love, it is true : sleep, love, remember...
For some others things, you have to search for in order to have : work, job, path, key, information, etc.
Nous sommes libres. Wir sind frei. We are free. Somos libres. Siamo liberi.