How would you know if the guy is falling in love with you?

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Postby Anahita » Fri Sep 09, 2005 8:43 pm

illusion wrote :

I wouldn't agree that girls have to be misterious... In fact I think it's a stupid idea... I always tell the guy when I like him even though he may not like me back. I do it for my own state of mind and to feel good with my inner self LoL anyawy I guess some girls are just too shy to speak of their feelings or they just don't want the guy to know... I know some guys who will never tell the girls that they like them because they just don't want it. it's strange but it's true... I think we should speak honestly our mind.


*Nods in agreement* so true .. i always doing the same ..no matter what will happens its better to speak your heart and be honest with yourself and others ..

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Postby Coolfish » Sat Sep 10, 2005 2:55 am

Hi SheAnn,

From his action, by your observation, you could find whether he does care about you. If something happened around you, at that time, what he did would tell you if he stand by you.

Then you would know what postion you are in his heart. But my friend, here is my advice I think it is really important to you. Above all, you should be very clear about his moral.

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Re: How would you know if the guy is falling in love with yo

Postby awrang » Sat Sep 10, 2005 2:12 pm

SheAnn wrote:It's very difficult for me to know if the guy has some feelings for me...Maybe I misunderstood the feelings he showed towards me.
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It's is easy :idea: if you have the heart straight tell her i love you then she will insult you or she will say too... good idea!!! hah :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Postby illusion » Sun Sep 11, 2005 11:14 am

ok I have a question to every single guy in the forum. I wanna know how can you tell that a shy guy likes a girl? I mean can you see it from his behaviour? But remember I mean only a shy guy's behaviour!

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Postby illusion » Sun Sep 11, 2005 11:40 am

but I mean before they get to know each other. I meant stuff like the guy is always staring at her and does everything to be close to her... and so on. Do you get me? What does he act in front of this girl?

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Postby illusion » Sun Sep 11, 2005 12:19 pm

Poloten4ik wrote:i think i see you! can i ask u?
you have this situation, havent it? i think girl should do first step! Becouse he cant do it, he afraid of you, becouse he loves you!

no, it's not about me. I mean just the general idea to know in the future if the guy likes me or not. I mean i just wanna find out how to fnd that out LOL i mean how can you recognise just by the way he acts because sometimes people mislead some signs and it confuses everything. got it?

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Postby awrang » Sun Sep 11, 2005 12:26 pm

illusion wrote:ok I have a question to every single guy in the forum. I wanna know how can you tell that a shy guy likes a girl? I mean can you see it from his behaviour? But remember I mean only a shy guy's behaviour!


Yes i will tell, whenever a shy guy see a girl he just feel as he heat that girl, that is why he don't watch her often just at glance he watch but... but... the guy heart is charming for the girl oh, god................
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Postby illusion » Sun Sep 11, 2005 7:35 pm

anything else?

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Postby Lilian » Wed Sep 14, 2005 7:52 pm

it confused to me too...i have lots of guy friend and they always complain why girls misunderstand them when they show them something good ...so it lead them in different direction. so most of the time when guy tend to flirt with me, i take it easy way coz they wanna see r u capable of understand them or not, then they move on.

so girl beware of that, if u like someone give the person a little bit time to understand ..dont rush into it...
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Postby chemist » Thu Sep 15, 2005 7:54 am

Welcome back dear Lilian where have you been?
It was really long time since you come here.

I agree with Lilian.
Besides that Time is very helpful thing.it will make you understand people or Guys more instead of going away with minds.

I guess the shy guy will always try to hid his feelings sometime you'll feel you he cares about you and sometimes not.
I really don't know:roll:

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Postby TearHere » Mon Sep 19, 2005 1:38 am

i got this in my philo 4 book..
signs that a man is truly in love with the object of his affection:

1. he calls you up for no reason at all...
2. he talks about you with his friends...
3. he is pleasant to your friends..
4. he listens, listens and listens to you..
5. he is punctual on dates..
6. he does not belittle your interests..
7. he refrains from talking about previous girlfriends(if there are)..
8.he does not force you to sleep with him, reasoning out that this is the test of you love for him..
9. he makes and keeps actual dates..
10. he is not afraid to reveal his true feelings to you..

as for me.. i like this one by thomas middleton:

love is all in fire, and yet it is ever freezing;
love is much in winning, yet it is more in loosing;
love is ever sick and yet it never dies;
love is ever true and yet it is never lying;
love does not dote in liking and is mad in loathing;
love indeed is anything, yet indeed is nothing..
:D :D
When all else fails..don't stop.

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Postby Ika » Tue Sep 20, 2005 1:36 pm

First of all, their actions depend on their age :) and I am not speaking just about how old they are, people are growing up differently. The younger they are, the more interesting they show their feelings, or rather, try to hide them.
But one thing never changes, in any age, everything is in their eyes.Eyes never lie.
"To know nothing is bad, to learn nothing is worse."

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Postby illusion » Fri Sep 23, 2005 6:43 pm

Ika wrote:First of all, their actions depend on their age :) and I am not speaking just about how old they are, people are growing up differently. The younger they are, the more interesting they show their feelings, or rather, try to hide them.
But one thing never changes, in any age, everything is in their eyes.Eyes never lie.


yeah, this is a true sentence... eyes never lie.. but sometimes it's hard to read from somebody's eyes, isn't it?


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