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I like a girl. How should I approach her.

Be your self, be honest and tell her how u feel. If she liked you back then u will win her if not then u have to forget her Just don't play with her feelings nor yours. What u say! not hard is it!

Actually my post was not complete...
I gave her a love letter... and she didn't reply...
actually I wrote i that "if you don't like me then forget it"....

now what should I do.. I don't want to forget her...she is so good...

Thanks.

Maybe you should try to know her better, be her friend... and let time decide...

how can I be her friend...
I mean..should I directly tell her that "I want friendship with you" or what....

Thanks.

U should try to understand her, care for her .
First , be a good a trusted friend.
Give her many surprising things.

Cool Boy wrote:how can I be her friend...
I mean..should I directly tell her that "I want friendship with you" or what....

Obviously not. You do not start a friendship that way!

Firstly, what's your relationship with her? Do you know each other at all? Are you classmates? Are you neighbors? Does she know you exist?

Dixie wrote:

Cool Boy wrote:how can I be her friend...
I mean..should I directly tell her that "I want friendship with you" or what....

Obviously not. You do not start a friendship that way!

Firstly, what's your relationship with her? Do you know each other at all? Are you classmates? Are you neighbors? Does she know you exist?

she don't know anything about me and I don't know anything about her...

quicksilver7486 wrote:U should try to understand her, care for her .
First , be a good a trusted friend.
Give her many surprising things.

Should I propose once again with some beautiful gift... last time I just gave her a letter..

Thanks.

Actully she sits at restaurant where I go for food... its her mom's restaurant... I never talked her...because I never get such chance ... she don't know anything about me and I don't know anything about her...

So it is too early to propose.U have need time .

Should I propose once again with some beautiful gift... last time I just gave him a letter..

Some beautiful gifts dont make a sense at all .
Did u make accquainted with her?
U have to let her know u exist.

quicksilver7486 wrote:

Actully she sits at restaurant where I go for food... its her mom's restaurant... I never talked her...because I never get such chance ... she don't know anything about me and I don't know anything about her...

So it is too early to propose.U have need time .

Should I propose once again with some beautiful gift... last time I just gave him a letter..

Some beautiful gifts dont make a sense at all .
Did u make accquainted with her?
U have to let her know u exist.

But how.. should I spend some more time just watching her.. I mean I can't talk her at restaurant...

Thanks.

My suggestion is go for it! If you really like this girl buy one beautiful red rose and go up to her and tell her you think she is beautiful and you would like to get to know her better; would she be happy to accompany you to the movies or dinner or something like that. Dont muck around, my goodness life is to short. You will never know unless you get to know each other.

One date will let you both know if you would like to spend more time together! But a red rose and a nice night out might start it! GO FOR IT!!! 8) 8) 8) 8)

Hello,Cool Boy :D .
I think you can approach and speak a girl, like you speak many boys. So, try talk to a girl. Chin up!!

shazzam1452 wrote:My suggestion is go for it! If you really like this girl buy one beautiful red rose and go up to her and tell her you think she is beautiful and you would like to get to know her better; would she be happy to accompany you to the movies or dinner or something like that. Dont muck around, my goodness life is to short. You will never know unless you get to know each other.

One date will let you both know if you would like to spend more time together! But a red rose and a nice night out might start it! GO FOR IT!!! 8) 8) 8) 8)

Thanks.
But should I do this on her restaurant???

I have same trouble.
I have a favorite person.
I talk as possible every day and send an email.
What kind of thing do you do? :?

being a gril i should know what to tell you but in fact you know we're all so different and complicated that random stuff appeals to random people so I just guess you have to fnd something which appeals directly to her. Everyone has something like that and all you need to do is find out what your girl's weak point is :D GOOD LUCK!

Hello cool boy :D
My suggestion is that you should talk to her if there is a chane to talk Talking can help understand each other :o Then,she will understand you and she will come to like you :D
Learn about her hobby and favorite thing and ....
Then you make use of it and invite her on a date.
Do your best

Cool Boy wrote:I like a girl. How should I approach her.

Talk to her.Be aggressive.Have confidence or you will lose love!
You can talk with somebody ,but it is you that answer it.

HELLO :D
I think you need to be yourself.
First you need to be known about yourself by her before you knou her

hello,i am japanese girl.
i think you should gain confidence.and you talk with her★
surely,you are make friend with her.

I never do something to sweep off girls feet, just try to get their attention. Then, try to get onto suspects and to make them laugh, if it works fine, I carry on and try to get hold of the girl I like.

what are you waiting for... so many ideas of what you should do and until now we don’t know nothing, we are waiting for the news of the first kiss

i think you make friends her.
you should send email or talk with her,and i think you should get her known yourself.

snoopy wrote:You should make a friend with her

yeah, making friends is a good thing to do at the beginning

Rui wrote:what are you waiting for... so many ideas of what you should do and until now we don’t know nothing, we are waiting for the news of the first kiss

Even I am also waiting, not for the news but for the kiss...
I still didn't get chance... but lets see...

lolz....okiz i am in the same page..but i told the person that i like him, and still we are friend. he told me he needed time. and i also think i need time. so we are hanging there. we talk, we share and we have common intererest. but we r not making it a big deal if someone goes by because we think time will show us the right way...

so be cool..cool boy..

go and tell her politely that u like her, and u want to know her. there is no rush to get involve in the relationship..since u guys dont know each other..u better keep it slow...and smooth...

:D

My advice is never to do that what Lilian said

why@admrial.. :o

you must think this way.. girls are like life’s in a computer game, you loose one you have another

P.S.-please please girls… i was joking, it was just to make our friend laugh a little and relax before talk with her

You are ok

Rui wrote:you must think this way.. girls are like life’s in a computer game, you loose one you have another

P.S.-please please girls… i was joking, it was just to make our friend laugh a little and relax before talk with her

nice joke and boys are like toilets...either taken or full of ~ ;p

Beat it!

Hahahahahah Ilussion you are great!!!!


Coolboy, maybe you must to use some sentences in the most pure mexican style:

!Delicious! (delicious is the girl) when we fix the scape of the car??? :P :P :P

Spanish for Dixie Shokin and Latinamerican members:

"Sabroza cuando sopleteamos el mofle"

Elba wrote:Hahahahahah Ilussion you are great!!!!


Coolboy, maybe you must to use some sentences in the most pure mexican style:

!Delicious! (delicious is the girl) when we fix the scape of the car??? :P :P :P

Spanish for Dixie Shokin and Latinamerican members:

"Sabroza cuando sopleteamos el mofle"

thanks Elba :) and what does the sentence in spanish mean?

Illussion, that´s a invitation to make love

Elba wrote:
Spanish for Dixie Shokin and Latinamerican members:

"Sabroza cuando sopleteamos el mofle"

That's Mexican Spanish, I didn't get a word! "sopletear"? "mofle"?

Dear Maja ¡Come on girl!!!!! use your imagination.
sopletear has two meanings the gramatical meaning "put fire to something in order to fix it" it is a derivation of "soplete", instrumen that mecanics use it.
The mexican meaning, "to blow" when a man go to bed with a woman he say "me la sople".
Mofle it is a part of any car, it is a large tube
the mexican meaning: is compared with a part of the woman body Did you understan!!!!! I can´t explain more, please.

Elba wrote:Dear Maja ¡Come on girl!!!!! use your imagination.
sopletear has two meanings the gramatical meaning "put fire to something in order to fix it" it is a derivation of "soplete", instrumen that mecanics use it.
The mexican meaning, "to blow" when a man go to bed with a woman he say "me la sople".
Mofle it is a part of any car, it is a large tube
the mexican meaning: is compared with a part of the woman body Did you understan!!!!! I can´t explain more, please.

I understood the meaning, especially because you said it on your previous post ;) What I meant was that I didn't know those words :D

I did not know these words. What about saying them in Spain ?

Shokin

shokin wrote:I did not know these words. What about saying them in Spain ?

Nodoby would understand :D

Shokin, I´m sorry but I don´t wan to explain to you. Every time I decide explain something to you, you use the expression in a funny, but embarassed way.
In this case you could tell the sentences to me

buen consejo elba..

hey man, sounds like you haven't talked to her and you're already nervous..

there's two good options, either do what alba said, or try to make friends, do the small talk first and you'll know if you have a chance, you can always tell when someone is interested....

the good thing about friends is that everything just happens out of nowhere...

hey is there some hot things going on here? Well I haven't read your posts thoroughly but I have to warn you shokin: There is a very dangerous man called Frengo beside her ...

Try to first know her very well and that she knows you better as well. First of all know all her habits, likes and dislikes etc. Try to make her feel special by caring her listening to her properly and fulfilling her demands offcourse if you want to get her