Everybody who cant stand tikay...

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Fri Jan 06, 2006 9:29 pm

:D LOL!!!!I am not too sure that anyone in here really wants to see me anymore so i decided you may cast your vote and I will happily go to where poeple seem to actually like my way of thinking! No big deal.

:D

:? :o :( 8) :)

:P :x

:D

Admiral · Post by **Admiral** » Sat Jan 07, 2006 9:12 pm

You're too pessimistic.

Rui · Post by **Rui** » Sat Jan 07, 2006 9:18 pm

i haven't seen nothing wrong with your opinions, in fact it's very good to have members like you because you write english as i wish to write someday, i guess never

i have to much to learn with native english people, very happy with your presence here on the board, as i said before i don't know if i would have some patient to write in a forum where people were trying to learn portuguese, it must be weird to see our language be so bad written

i'm an example

ahmads · Post by **ahmads** » Sat Jan 07, 2006 9:28 pm

tikay wrote::D LOL!!!!I am not too sure that anyone in here really wants to see me anymore so i decided you may cast your vote and I will happily go to where poeple seem to actually like my way of thinking! No big deal. :D :? :o :( 8) :) :P :x :D

I can not say anything except your Idea is crazy

Admiral · Post by **Admiral** » Sat Jan 07, 2006 9:31 pm

I doubt whether this thread has a promotional background. But tikay, you are very kind, so stay.

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Sat Jan 07, 2006 10:03 pm

I thought people were avoiding my posts so i just responded as i thought it would be appropriate...promotional? Maybe I was self promoting? that could be but i will probably never know...lol!
Thanks for those who have answered.
I have always been open to change.
One of my friends who is a writer is joining today so...welcome buddy!

Admiral · Post by **Admiral** » Sat Jan 07, 2006 10:09 pm

I ve been thinking: How old are you?

shokin · Post by **shokin** » Sun Jan 08, 2006 9:10 pm

Tikay, you have to stay here, you must.

Shokin

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Mon Jan 09, 2006 2:32 am

How old am I? I am fourrrttttty-thrrrreeeeee...use a tongue roll there. And lovin it, I must say. i am not as cute as Demi moore but I can date (the youthful man if I wanted to) I dont find them attractive as partners, just maybe subjects to paint or photograph...I need someone my own age to play with, someone who has been where I have been...
My ex- boyfriend is my room-mate and he is thirty-eight. We broke up but we cant afford to move into separate places and being civilized we are raising our daughter together for now...looking into land in New mexico soon and I will go there...me thinks. you should really look at my amazon profile and I will stop going on and on. Love ya!

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Mon Jan 09, 2006 2:35 am

Shokin Thank YOU! I will stay I think now....besides I believe I may be addicted to it. 8)

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Mon Jan 09, 2006 2:56 am

I am a big goof I know...now I was thinking why dont I get a better picture in here...of me...then folks will like me? LOL

Butler · Post by **Butler** » Mon Jan 09, 2006 10:08 am

I have no opinion as I have no idea who you are.....but starting a poll about yourself does seem quite odd. :D

Shazzam · Post by **Shazzam** » Mon Jan 09, 2006 12:00 pm

This is the first time I have seen this thread. I must admit I agree with butler. Are you trying to get attention for yourself? It seems a strange thing to do!!

Why not spend the time responding to posts and adding a few instead of promoting yourself this way!

:?

Anahita · Post by **Anahita** » Mon Jan 09, 2006 7:17 pm

Shazzam wrote:This is the first time I have seen this thread. I must admit I agree with butler. Are you trying to get attention for yourself? It seems a strange thing to do!!

Why not spend the time responding to posts and adding a few instead of promoting yourself this way! :?

Indeed , although i like your posts and your way of thinking about nature and other subjects ,but why it should be necessary for you to know our ideas in this way? you can find a better picture about us and our ideas from the answers you will receive in your topics , no need to draw attention like this .. no offence but in my opinion this thread is not a very good idea for introducing yourself , you know ...

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Mon Jan 09, 2006 9:55 pm

so there are three who dont like the way I do things ...good to know. (cast your vote then, why not?) Maybe you should check all of my posts that no one answers... are they not shunning me?
I am sincere at least in wanting to know if I am wanted in here.
why is that so hard to understand?
BESIDES everyone in here is looking for attention
...what makes me special? nothing...polls are for making...

I just want to know why people dont answer many of my posts and they are so busy answering others.

The Avoidance tactic is cowardly...if you get my drift either say you dont like what I am saying (disagree)or ???? say anything !
but dont leave the most of the posts that I input, all unanswered... it is called stonewalling and it is unkind.... and, it makes me look like a jerk too maybe. (so be it)
And that is precisely why i did this. Plus I am absolutely open to leaving when i am not getting a good response, more like happy to go if no one wants me in their party (forum)...get it?
peace...i am not mad at anybody...
i want to know what i have asked...do people think i am a big know it all who should get lost...basically?
besides what am I promoting...I am not selling anything.my thoughts are not for sale, thanks.

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Mon Jan 09, 2006 10:24 pm

Admiral wrote:You're too pessimistic.

hey Admiral!
I think I am being positive. I am asking to be treated fairly. people were avoiding answering my posts. I asked "why?" and should I leave? just as i did at that party where all the girls were shhhushing me a couple of weeks ago. i was just saying hello and three girls shhhhhh-ed me. this is the question.
Should I stay or go? Without judgment. without passion. just a question.
I am sure I will get more response on both sides.
I should say I will watch for another amount of time and make my decision...but I am optimistic, I think that I will be wanted...
but just look at how it is going, maybe not. i am neither, I think, and just waiting for clues.

:?

Anahita · Post by **Anahita** » Tue Jan 10, 2006 3:23 am

tikay wrote:so there are three who dont like the way I do things ...good to know. (cast your vote then, why not?) Maybe you should check all of my posts that no one answers... are they not shunning me?
I am sincere at least in wanting to know if I am wanted in here.
why is that so hard to understand?
BESIDES everyone in here is looking for attention
...what makes me special? nothing...polls are for making...

I just want to know why people dont answer many of my posts and they are so busy answering others.

The Avoidance tactic is cowardly...if you get my drift either say you dont like what I am saying (disagree)or ???? say anything !
but dont leave the most of the posts that I input, all unanswered... it is called stonewalling and it is unkind.... and, it makes me look like a jerk too maybe. (so be it)
And that is precisely why i did this. Plus I am absolutely open to leaving when i am not getting a good response, more like happy to go if no one wants me in their party (forum)...get it?
peace...i am not mad at anybody...
i want to know what i have asked...do people think i am a big know it all who should get lost...basically?
besides what am I promoting...I am not selling anything.my thoughts are not for sale, thanks.

hmm .. i see , you wanna know why i didnt vote? cause such a poll is seems like a joke to me , in my opinion this is a personal decision and it depends on how much you like to stay or not. you are the only one who really should vote in this poll so dont put this responsibility on other's shoulders.

and for your information not all of us looking for attention here. these are international forums and we are from different countries and cultures. it will take time for every one to know new comers and respond to them. why you are so much in hurry to get every one's attention? dont you think if you are more patient you will see more friendly comments in your topics? personally when i saw your first post i liked it much and was thinking you should be a kind heart gal to think in this way but what did you expect of me to do ? to post my idea about you at that topic and shout out in public that how much you are great and nice?? excuse me but this is kind of lame ..

and i found this whole conspiracy plot about how we are ignoring you on purpose so amusing. Avoidance tactic?? stonewalling?? come on , we all have better things to do with our time than this

and this story about that party which you were saying , well such a thing always is happening , but i say never ask of any one should you stay or leave. if you want stay so stay and fight for what is important for you and if you dont care that much , just turn your back away and leave. as i said this is your personal decision and ball is in your court

and as the last point , i am done with this topic. i have said what i was thinking i should to say so i bid you farewell ladies and gents .. have a nice day

Butler · Post by **Butler** » Tue Jan 10, 2006 10:13 am

tikay wrote:so there are three who dont like the way I do things ...good to know. (cast your vote then, why not?) Maybe you should check all of my posts that no one answers... are they not shunning me?
I am sincere at least in wanting to know if I am wanted in here.
why is that so hard to understand?
BESIDES everyone in here is looking for attention
...what makes me special? nothing...polls are for making...

I just want to know why people dont answer many of my posts and they are so busy answering others.

The Avoidance tactic is cowardly...if you get my drift either say you dont like what I am saying (disagree)or ???? say anything !

but dont leave the most of the posts that I input, all unanswered... it is called stonewalling and it is unkind.... and, it makes me look like a jerk too maybe. (so be it)
And that is precisely why i did this. Plus I am absolutely open to leaving when i am not getting a good response, more like happy to go if no one wants me in their party (forum)...get it?
peace...i am not mad at anybody...
i want to know what i have asked...do people think i am a big know it all who should get lost...basically?
besides what am I promoting...I am not selling anything.my thoughts are not for sale, thanks.

What in heavens name are you going on about? What does it matter if people want you or not?? There are a lot of people here and some are just not liked by others but they still post.
As for "The Avoidance tactic " if someone doesnt answer your post that does not automatically make them a coward...bear in mind the reasons they may not reply...no time..nothing to say or add...not interest in the topic...or for that matter no interest in you!

This thread is fast becoming a huge waste of space !!

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Tue Jan 10, 2006 8:01 pm

tahnks for enlightening me on your thoughts...that was really good information. (both of you) I am not easily offended so my mind has been broadened and i like what you both have told me. you are very confident people. this is good. as far as the thread being ridiculous and having no place in here, I think i disagree. (because you have helped me understand how things work in here) this is the first forum i have become active in you see? i used to look in at e-sangha but never got involved there and ares was nothing but totally rude destructive (to ones ego ) type people who were in constant cut fights but at least Bam Margea talked to me in there. (from the show Wild Boys)
he was nice to me. again thanks for informing me on the way i should be acting...to be a part of the forum.

Lalee · Post by **Lalee** » Fri Jan 13, 2006 7:31 am

Hey!
You don't know me at all and I don't know you either.
Actually, I didn't even know you existed here. LOL
Well, that has to do with me not being active here lately and not checking the new threads.

Anyways, I think you should stay. I've read some of your posts and you seem like a nice chick.
And it doesn't matter what people want here. I mean, who cares if some members don't like you?

PS: I found this thread very amusing.

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Fri Jan 13, 2006 9:21 am

Hello Lalee...i have read many of your posts. so i sort of feel that I know you a little. this post has been interesting and thanks for sayin' you thought so too.

I have just read it all the way through for the first time and I think it has been a good thing. I am not experienced in this arena but have much to talk about of the other things I have done and people I have known... it is good.

If one day I write a book this will have been a good start...lots of practice in putting good words one in front of another.LOL

also I wanted to say to you that we must have similar tastes because I love that picture you chose there, to represent you, for me, you have picked the best girl...and I wanted pick her ( she is beautiful ) but I saw that she was yours... so we may be a little alike...who knows? Bye 4 now Lalee. Its late...or at this point early! nigh night.

Lalee · Post by **Lalee** » Fri Jan 13, 2006 9:08 pm

tikay wrote: also I wanted to say to you that we must have similar tastes because I love that picture you chose there, to represent you, for me, you have picked the best girl...and I wanted pick her ( she is beautiful ) but I saw that she was yours... so we may be a little alike...who knows? Bye 4 now Lalee. Its late...or at this point early! nigh night.

Thanks. I like the avatar I chose too. That chick is cool. Too bad I don't look like her. LOL
Hey, did you check the results of your poll? Four people want you to stay and think you're great too. That's a lot, don't you think? See? People like you here.

Admiral · Post by **Admiral** » Fri Jan 13, 2006 10:54 pm

Actually, 100% of the people who voted want tikay to stay.

Golfygirl · Post by **Golfygirl** » Sat Jan 14, 2006 12:55 am

tikay wrote:
Admiral wrote:You're too pessimistic.
hey Admiral!
I think I am being positive. I am asking to be treated fairly. people were avoiding answering my posts. I asked "why?" and should I leave? just as i did at that party where all the girls were shhhushing me a couple of weeks ago. i was just saying hello and three girls shhhhhh-ed me. this is the question.
Should I stay or go? Without judgment. without passion. just a question.
I am sure I will get more response on both sides.
I should say I will watch for another amount of time and make my decision...but I am optimistic, I think that I will be wanted...
but just look at how it is going, maybe not. i am neither, I think, and just waiting for clues. :?

You have to accept being in a league all by yourself. I mean that in a positive way. When you write, you cover all the angles that doesn't leave much room to add anything. You are a very complete writer. You are the type that stands out in a crowd. You are unique and thats great!!! I'm glad your here. :)

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Sat Jan 14, 2006 5:39 am

i am sitting here with little sarah, she says I need James Taylor movie town, I need to hear that song....press right there please....PRESS right there!
she gets very pushy, very fast...
sweet but commanding...maybe she is more like me than her dad, after all!
...........................oh yeah!
(she is...but looks most like him)
I was reading the posts and she was pointing to the lalee avatar, saying "I want to hear the music with that picture"....kids sure are cute. What music would you choose Lalee? I am guessing Garbage? or maybe some Moorcheeba Trigger Hippy? or their Moog Island? thats the feeling I get .

What else....Ad... you are kind...and Golfy girl and Lalee you are kind-hearts two! ...(too)
3 X 3 kind hearts + mine ...broken but healing = life improving daily...equals fine people.

I must try to get sweet-kins to go to bed soon. She is an insomniac. since she was born she won't go to sleep til we all do...which is totally late and I dont think good. we are whittling the hours down and ten thirty is better than mid-night one or two.
all my sons crashed at eight-thirty like a little child oughta!

so see ya later!

MissLT · Post by **MissLT** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 10:49 am

Wow, you would be perfect for my Danyet. You're both in your 40's. You're both single. You both have kids. And importantly, you both are weird. Man, you two should hook it up

Unknownsu · Post by **Unknownsu** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 7:16 pm

I think you should stay.

You shouldn't worry too much about what others think, if this is the reason why you started this thread. This site needs people like you here.

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 7:55 pm

Thanks Unknown dude...this thread should probably be closed as the decision has been made to stay at this point...it is more like "just try to get rid of me"...now!
8)
and, as for you Miss LennyeTran! I am appalled!

OH ! Where is your fight Lennye!!! You must fight for your man! Remember the old tune "Stand by Your Man"...these days we need one that sings "Fight for Your Man"! but that might be objectifying the guy...and we dont want to reverse the trend of objectification so, maybe it shoud be "Fight For That Man!" anyhow....thanks for the offer but I think, he is not available in that he does not live very close to me. I need a man I can touch, not just mind and heart but bodily and often!.... but thank you very much! :D

MissLT · Post by **MissLT** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 10:50 pm

tikay wrote: and, as for you Miss LennyeTran! I am appalled!

OH ! Where is your fight Lennye!!! You must fight for your man! Remember the old tune "Stand by Your Man"...these days we need one that sings "Fight for Your Man"! but that might be objectifying the guy...and we dont want to reverse the trend of objectification so, maybe it shoud be "Fight For That Man!" anyhow....thanks for the offer but I think, he is not available in that he does not live very close to me. I need a man I can touch, not just mind and heart but bodily and often!.... but thank you very much! :D

Nah, since I like him so much, I know who will be the better woman for him. Therefore, I will gladly give him away. Take good care of him. He's really emotional. Be patient with him for a first couple months and you'll see what a sweetheart he is. Also, he needs his naps at 5 P.M, dinners at 7 P.M, laundry done on the weekends, don't interrupt his music time, bunny activity is only on the weekends, etc.

Don't you worry about touching and other stuff. You'll get all that when you have created a deep bonding with him. He's a free man; he'll move just for you. But if you don't want him, it's fine then. I'll just have to keep my eyes open for another perfect woman for my Danyet. She's out there, I know it!

tikay · Post by **tikay** » Tue Mar 14, 2006 6:50 am

ah...

but you ARE the perfect woman, yourself !!! :P
smart, sexy, strong and strait-forward....what more could any guy (or gal) want???

MissLT · Post by **MissLT** » Tue Mar 14, 2006 7:01 am

Thank you so much. That's sweet of ya to say it. I still think you're the perfect woman for my Danyet though.

Oriani · Post by **Oriani** » Tue Mar 14, 2006 7:45 pm

HI EVERYBODY.

I know that this is not the point, but there's something that I want to say now: I REALLY LIKED THIS CONVERSATION, I don't know why, but it was interesting for me reading your post, I mean, your English is such GREAT, so I could learn some words that I didn't know before...!!!

Dear friend stay with us, and do not worry If some friends don't replay your post. They barely replay mine, so what? I enjoy readin' theirs and learn English as well here. Kisses....!!!

TearHere · Post by **TearHere** » Thu Mar 16, 2006 7:15 am

hello tikay..........

stay, okay?

Rui · Post by **Rui** » Thu Mar 16, 2006 10:33 am

so i guess you shouldnt have more doubts about what you must do, of course you have to stay and tell us more about your life experiences, but just to add a point and as i read here from another member i think your english is perfect and every time you say something is so complete and with row of thoughts that i just can get to the end and say.. well.. yeah i think she is right, and i wouldnt put an answer just with that, from the other site i guess you should also understand that even when i dont agree 100% with what you have said its hard for me to express my point of view the way you have done, because i dont have the knowledge of english to do that.. so its not that easy to show different views with the few words i know, but its definitely good to have someone as you here, because if the biggest reason that took us here is to improve the english skills, i guess its with persons like you we gonna learn something

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Everybody who cant stand tikay...

vote on the sometimes obnoxious lady called tikay!

Everybody who cant stand tikay...

Re: Everybody who cant stand tikay...

hey i just call em as i see em

I am a very young hearted older woman...

thanks

Lalee

Re: Lalee

hi