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What girl would you chose?

The one who doesn't speak very much, is plain, shy, careful and loves you.
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The one who is more sociable, looks better, more intelligent (better grades) and loves you.
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another one (please describe in the thread)
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What would you chose?

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If you were a boy, what would you chose?
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I would choose a sociable and intelligent girl, hard-working and who got good grades. So, I voted for the second option.

Same for boys, too. :twisted:
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Post by shokin »

no one !!!!

I would choose the one I love ! what a question !!! :

when you don't love, you don't ask yourself any question, you prefer to be free and "alone".

when you love, you have only one girl in your mind.

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and what if you love more than one?Don't you have to make choice?
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I have no choise!! I like both! :oops:
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Post by fortminor »

first one .
I donnu why ,maybe cause im more like the first one . :roll:
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I don't think I can love two girls equally. :lol:

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Post by Admiral »

I have no choise!! I like both!
That's also my great problem. Maybe the only way to chose is to decide after spending time with both of them. I'm still young... Hahaha, but then the choser will become a playboy, is it good? :roll:

shokin wrote:when you don't love, you don't ask yourself any question, you prefer to be free and "alone".

when you love, you have only one girl in your mind.
shokin, after thinknig about your posting, (see, I care about your opinion very much) I think your sentence is only right when you don't meet another nice girl before marriage or sexual contact etc.

If you reject the nice girl coldly, although you haven't married etc., you are hurting someone loving you. So "when you love, you have only one girl in your mind" is very ignorant, selfish and not good.


See, some guys have thought all his life that the first one fits to them, but then he met a girl of the second type. It's very rude and too cold to dump the second one.

PS: :mrgreen: f...... is like a mix of the two types
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Post by shokin »

I did not say, that it was easy to say NO.

I have not as much experience as you in this domain. :lol:

How can we speculate about questions, whose answers only come with the continue contact (contact = communication = exchange) ?

"I discussed much time with many people, whether this girl loves me or not. But... I didn't discuss with her." :idea:

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I have not as much experience as you in this domain.
My "experience" only comes from philosophical books. :mrgreen: You can read Imageor Image to get my experience.
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Okay... you are, like me, at the start point. :lol:

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Post by jeffcox »

Perhaps #1 has some advantages in that she's not likely to dump you!

I mean, if #2 is so great and beautiful and intelligent... other guys are going to like her, too. And, she may get tempted!

Food for thought :twisted:
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Hey, thank you very much for helping me! I appreciate you very much!
definition: (you = dixie, shokin, Oriani, fortminor, jeffcox until now)

As I am sure they won't notice this site, I tell you now...

#2 has wanted to become friends with me since 4 years until now. At that time she was 15, (with a lot of freckles) which are all away now. And every holiday she goes to her aunt for babysitting. (who is a very close friend of my grandma, so my grandma knows very well about her) Maybe other guys go for her but you see she really loves me.
I tried to get rid from her, but she said that she even likes me more... and by the time, now she really likes me. I can feel.
She won't get tempted. She is such a girl... if she sets store in achieving something, she won't give up trying to achieve it, until there is no chance any more.

#1 would never dump me, it's an objective fact. And I'm also the first one of #1, I know it. We are neighbours and friends.

You see my problem? Whoever I dump now, she will feel very sad and it will also hurt me.

Should I wait and look who gets tempted first? :lol: Of course this is not an option...
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Post by Anahita »

Hmm, tough problem indeed. :mrgreen: My suggestion, marry with both! :P :lol: Or
You can marry with one and keep another one waiting for you!! :lol: Just joking with you man, have fun! :P
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In this situation, I think it's best to go with your heart. One of them will be hurt, but life is like this and we have to accept that at times we'll hurt people without wanting to do so. :(

You have to choose the girl who you like the most. That may not be easy, but it is necessary. That way, you are sure you're not 'playing' with their heart. :?

Or, move country and try to forget both; bury yourself in your studies... whatever you do, I don't envy this situation you're in!

Ah, life isn't easy and it's full of difficult decisions. Make the best decisions you can.
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Post by Anahita »

*nods* well said Jeff. like what i found in this quote...

"Don't marry someone you can live with, marry someone you can't live without!" By Josh McDowell

trust your heart man, It will be Ok. :D 8)
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first one of courseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :) :D :) :o :lol: :twisted: :evil:
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Dixie wrote:I would choose a sociable and intelligent girl, hard-working and who got good grades. So, I voted for the second option.

Same for boys, too. :twisted:
i must tell you that i've really enjoyed the "hard working" skill :wink: im just wondering how hard-working it could be 8)
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to tell you, I would also chose 1 more than 2, if I had to chose.
As I still have time now, I don't dare to chose
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If you're stuck between the two... maybe neither one is the right choice?

I mean, if by 'love' you mean the one person above all others... then I think you haven't met her yet.

Maybe it's better not to hurt either one of them, or yourself.

Another question to 'chew over'!
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Post by Admiral »

If you're stuck between the two... maybe neither one is the right choice?
No, #1 is the right choice, definitely
I'm not stuck, I only think it will still be some time until marriage and many things can still happen
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So, you've made your choice. :lol:

Now, all you have to do is believe in your choice.

It's no good worrying about the future. Worry about today and the future will already be taken care of!

If you don't believe there's a future together... then is it the right choice? :roll:
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Post by r1lita »

If I can merge the first and the second it would be great :lol:
I guess the most important is that you love her and she loves you back. Sometimes you don't chose the one you fall in love to. :roll:
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Post by Vega »

I would choose girl who looks like Uma Thurman.
:D
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yeah it looks like that both are very important and that it would be good to have both
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Post by Butler »

Anahita wrote:*nods* well said Jeff. like what i found in this quote...

"Don't marry someone you can live with, marry someone you can't live without!" By Josh McDowell

trust your heart man, It will be Ok. :D 8)


Very very nice quote. :)
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Post by babara »

the second one! look like perfect!
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Post by Admiral »

I think the most important is that she likes you and you like her...
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Re: What would you chose?

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I voted this : The one who is more sociable, looks better, more intelligent (better grades) and loves you.
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..
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Re: What would you chose?

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Romantic, friendly and intelligent/hardworking
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Re: What would you chose?

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I vote for both. I mean: I want two girls with those characteristics and at the same time.
Some volunteers? :mrgreen:
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