What would you chose?
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That's also my great problem. Maybe the only way to chose is to decide after spending time with both of them. I'm still young... Hahaha, but then the choser will become a playboy, is it good?I have no choise!! I like both!
shokin, after thinknig about your posting, (see, I care about your opinion very much) I think your sentence is only right when you don't meet another nice girl before marriage or sexual contact etc.shokin wrote:when you don't love, you don't ask yourself any question, you prefer to be free and "alone".
when you love, you have only one girl in your mind.
If you reject the nice girl coldly, although you haven't married etc., you are hurting someone loving you. So "when you love, you have only one girl in your mind" is very ignorant, selfish and not good.
See, some guys have thought all his life that the first one fits to them, but then he met a girl of the second type. It's very rude and too cold to dump the second one.
PS: f...... is like a mix of the two types
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I did not say, that it was easy to say NO.
I have not as much experience as you in this domain.
How can we speculate about questions, whose answers only come with the continue contact (contact = communication = exchange) ?
"I discussed much time with many people, whether this girl loves me or not. But... I didn't discuss with her."
Shokin
I have not as much experience as you in this domain.
How can we speculate about questions, whose answers only come with the continue contact (contact = communication = exchange) ?
"I discussed much time with many people, whether this girl loves me or not. But... I didn't discuss with her."
Shokin
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Hey, thank you very much for helping me! I appreciate you very much!
definition: (you = dixie, shokin, Oriani, fortminor, jeffcox until now)
As I am sure they won't notice this site, I tell you now...
#2 has wanted to become friends with me since 4 years until now. At that time she was 15, (with a lot of freckles) which are all away now. And every holiday she goes to her aunt for babysitting. (who is a very close friend of my grandma, so my grandma knows very well about her) Maybe other guys go for her but you see she really loves me.
I tried to get rid from her, but she said that she even likes me more... and by the time, now she really likes me. I can feel.
She won't get tempted. She is such a girl... if she sets store in achieving something, she won't give up trying to achieve it, until there is no chance any more.
#1 would never dump me, it's an objective fact. And I'm also the first one of #1, I know it. We are neighbours and friends.
You see my problem? Whoever I dump now, she will feel very sad and it will also hurt me.
Should I wait and look who gets tempted first? Of course this is not an option...
definition: (you = dixie, shokin, Oriani, fortminor, jeffcox until now)
As I am sure they won't notice this site, I tell you now...
#2 has wanted to become friends with me since 4 years until now. At that time she was 15, (with a lot of freckles) which are all away now. And every holiday she goes to her aunt for babysitting. (who is a very close friend of my grandma, so my grandma knows very well about her) Maybe other guys go for her but you see she really loves me.
I tried to get rid from her, but she said that she even likes me more... and by the time, now she really likes me. I can feel.
She won't get tempted. She is such a girl... if she sets store in achieving something, she won't give up trying to achieve it, until there is no chance any more.
#1 would never dump me, it's an objective fact. And I'm also the first one of #1, I know it. We are neighbours and friends.
You see my problem? Whoever I dump now, she will feel very sad and it will also hurt me.
Should I wait and look who gets tempted first? Of course this is not an option...
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In this situation, I think it's best to go with your heart. One of them will be hurt, but life is like this and we have to accept that at times we'll hurt people without wanting to do so. :(
You have to choose the girl who you like the most. That may not be easy, but it is necessary. That way, you are sure you're not 'playing' with their heart. :?
Or, move country and try to forget both; bury yourself in your studies... whatever you do, I don't envy this situation you're in!
Ah, life isn't easy and it's full of difficult decisions. Make the best decisions you can.
You have to choose the girl who you like the most. That may not be easy, but it is necessary. That way, you are sure you're not 'playing' with their heart. :?
Or, move country and try to forget both; bury yourself in your studies... whatever you do, I don't envy this situation you're in!
Ah, life isn't easy and it's full of difficult decisions. Make the best decisions you can.
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Re: What would you chose?
I voted this : The one who is more sociable, looks better, more intelligent (better grades) and loves you.
If you don`t like me remember it's mind over matter..I don't mind and you don't matter..
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Re: What would you chose?
Romantic, friendly and intelligent/hardworking
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Re: What would you chose?
I vote for both. I mean: I want two girls with those characteristics and at the same time.
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