Hi,
I wanna get married. But I am too young and I have been finishing my college, so I confuse what I have to do? Do u have any suggests for me? Should I fulfill my desire ? or I have to concern first to my college? Honestly I couldn't wait for a long time anymore. wanna give me some solutions? :?
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Hi alfacentaury, i married at 20 :) It`s not
frightful :) I year ago was borned my son - Max
Now i am 23 yo, have a beautiful wife, and son!
When 3 years ago i said to my girlfriend "be my wife", i was scared! But very soon i understood, that i was right. I never regret about my decision.
Now most of my friends envy me
Finally - i think, if you love your partner, you must marry, but not make a childs at least one year after. You need time to be sure, that you really can live with your partner.
by the way - are you male, or female? :P
Be happy :)
frightful :) I year ago was borned my son - Max
Now i am 23 yo, have a beautiful wife, and son!
When 3 years ago i said to my girlfriend "be my wife", i was scared! But very soon i understood, that i was right. I never regret about my decision.
Now most of my friends envy me
Finally - i think, if you love your partner, you must marry, but not make a childs at least one year after. You need time to be sure, that you really can live with your partner.
by the way - are you male, or female? :P
Be happy :)
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well, this is really strange... get married with only 14 years old and with an old manLucia wrote:Yeah, it would help to know if you are M or F, and your age too, but basically any time after the age of puberty is okay. That's what Nature made puberty for.
I married first time when I was 14 and it was great but my husband died a few years later because he was quite old but I don't regret it. I have two sons from my first marriage to remember him.
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Wow!! It looks like a story!!!!Lucia wrote:Yeah, it would help to know if you are M or F, and your age too, but basically any time after the age of puberty is okay. That's what Nature made puberty for.
I married first time when I was 14 and it was great but my husband died a few years later because he was quite old but I don't regret it. I have two sons from my first marriage to remember him.
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Re: early marriage
First of all, why are you confused? If you have decided to get married, you shouldn't be confused. If it comes from your heart just do it. You don't have to leave college because of that. You can do both.alfacentaury wrote:Hi,
I wanna get married. But I am too young and I have been finishing my college, so I confuse what I have to do? Do u have any suggests for me? Should I fulfill my desire ? or I have to concern first to my college? Honestly I couldn't wait for a long time anymore. wanna give me some solutions? :?
Best wishes for you in your marriage!
Good luck. :P
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Hi Carlson :D ,
I was so wonder with u because u can take a great decision in a young age. it's really different with me. someone who easy to get hesitate, it's me.actuallly my parents hope me to finish my study first,and I think I've decided to fulfill their wants first in order to glad.is it wrong decision?
oya, I am a female. Thank's a lot for sharing your experience Be always happy with your family :)
GOD LUCK FOR U!
I was so wonder with u because u can take a great decision in a young age. it's really different with me. someone who easy to get hesitate, it's me.actuallly my parents hope me to finish my study first,and I think I've decided to fulfill their wants first in order to glad.is it wrong decision?
oya, I am a female. Thank's a lot for sharing your experience Be always happy with your family :)
GOD LUCK FOR U!
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I don't have an idea about understandings of other cultures related to getting married but i don't approve to be getting married at a young age. People should experience their childhood and youth. I am 21 and don't think to get married. 24-26 more appropriate ages to get married according to me.. And finding the other half of your heart..
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It doesn't matter how old are u ( i expel ages under 18 :) ), what is important is to be sure that the man next to u is the one u love and respect, the one who makes u happy, the one u can rely on in any time, the one who will protect u and give u all his love. the one who will always stand next to u.
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. He loves me very much. But there were times when i didn't appreciate his love, to the question of marriage I reacted " no I don't know if his the one" and so on, but I continued to be with him( I don't know something inside couldn't let me to leave him ). Then I lost him. I lost him for real. It was uaful , then I realise the sayings: " Peaple don't see the important things that are just next to them" and " when u loose something u realise how important it is for u". Well I realised. Thank GOD he came back to me :). Now I know what I want :D. So good luck to u :) hope u will take the right decision :).
With love Nadia :)
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. He loves me very much. But there were times when i didn't appreciate his love, to the question of marriage I reacted " no I don't know if his the one" and so on, but I continued to be with him( I don't know something inside couldn't let me to leave him ). Then I lost him. I lost him for real. It was uaful , then I realise the sayings: " Peaple don't see the important things that are just next to them" and " when u loose something u realise how important it is for u". Well I realised. Thank GOD he came back to me :). Now I know what I want :D. So good luck to u :) hope u will take the right decision :).
With love Nadia :)