How many chance u give to others to change?

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How many chance u give to others to change?

Postby olfa » Sun Jan 13, 2008 6:48 am

How many chances do you give someone to change?
How many times do you give someone a chance before giving up on them?
Should you ever give up on someone?
If so, then at what point do you just say enough is enough and stop dealing with people?
Can people change?
If so, can all people change?
And how do you know when someone can't change?
If you can never know if someone can change then should you never stop trying?

I already know my own answers to these questions, I am just curious what other people thihk

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Re: How many chance u give to others to change?

Postby Bambang » Sun Jan 13, 2008 2:17 pm

Don't ever give up hope.
We're all friends, right?

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Re: How many chance u give to others to change?

Postby Melek » Mon Jan 14, 2008 11:25 am

well..it's said that dont give a person any chance.if he made a mistake once then he will do it again.it's not my opinion))

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Re: How many chance u give to others to change?

Postby Vega » Tue Jan 15, 2008 7:21 am

olfa wrote: How many chances do you give someone to change?
How many times do you give someone a chance before giving up on them?
Should you ever give up on someone?
If so, then at what point do you just say enough is enough and stop dealing with people?
Can people change?
If so, can all people change?
And how do you know when someone can't change?
If you can never know if someone can change then should you never stop trying?

I already know my own answers to these questions, I am just curious what other people thihk


If a person can't change himself, it is his problem.

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Re: How many chance u give to others to change?

Postby Krisi » Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:06 am

olfa wrote: How many chances do you give someone to change?
How many times do you give someone a chance before giving up on them?
Should you ever give up on someone?
If so, then at what point do you just say enough is enough and stop dealing with people?
Can people change?
If so, can all people change?
And how do you know when someone can't change?
If you can never know if someone can change then should you never stop trying?

I already know my own answers to these questions, I am just curious what other people thihk


There's always a point of realization. How the person realizes will depend on the person alone.
I don't think you have to change the person, this is selfish...and if you're a true friend why do you give up?


I love your avatar, olfa.
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Re: How many chance u give to others to change?

Postby Miss. Ladybird » Wed Jan 16, 2008 9:43 pm

NONE :|

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Re: How many chance u give to others to change?

Postby Krisi » Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:16 am

krisi wrote:
olfa wrote: How many chances do you give someone to change?
How many times do you give someone a chance before giving up on them?
Should you ever give up on someone?
If so, then at what point do you just say enough is enough and stop dealing with people?
Can people change?
If so, can all people change?
And how do you know when someone can't change?
If you can never know if someone can change then should you never stop trying?

I already know my own answers to these questions, I am just curious what other people thihk


There's always a point of realization. How the person realizes will depend on the person alone.

I love your avatar, olfa.


After the realization period, the decision to change (for the better or worst) will always depend on him/her alone.

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Re: How many chance u give to others to change?

Postby sweethuman » Thu May 26, 2011 10:15 am

Two or three and then when i fedup so i take action


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