hi monaji,yes i am a woman,and i can understand those who prefer wealth than family!
i think that there r some men who put the whole responsibility on the back of the mother,saying that the fathers duty is just to bring money!!!!!!!!!!
in such case,the situation gets very difficult espicially to the mother who has to take care of her home and children without any help from the husband.so that she might prefer to give up!
being a father or a mother is a holly issue,from my view.
it needs from both to work hand by hand to achieve the best results.
leaving all home work to the maid is something i donnot agree with,i know some women in my country who r regarded as successful workers and great mothers , in the same time.
happy to have such discussion with u,