¿Heart or Mind?

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¿Heart or Mind?

Postby Lara » Tue Sep 27, 2011 1:43 am

¿Why love is not guided by mind but by heart?

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby ArnauEstanyol » Wed Sep 28, 2011 2:58 pm

Good question.

Don't remove the mind in love matters. It's true that emotions are the main protagonist in love but the mind it's an important part. Who, when falls in love, is not thinking all the time in his/her beloved?. :-D

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Postby Lara » Wed Sep 28, 2011 4:30 pm

:-D Yeah You are right, but often we take wrong decisions, and this is a consequence of love, because we dont think, we are guided by emotion, and this is a dangerous weapon if dont use it well. what do u think?

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby sweets » Thu Sep 29, 2011 5:53 am

for me LOVE is a harmony between mind and heart.......

i don't believe that love is blind how you can like someone without any mental equale between you and him ???????????????????????

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby Lara » Thu Sep 29, 2011 7:16 pm

Yeah, u r right, but for example; what about if the other part is not being sincere, and ur mind dont wanna understand that, and u still wanna be there, there i cant see harmony. Or when u fall in love with the wrong guy; i think that's obsession, here u dont use mind... :-D

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby sweets » Fri Sep 30, 2011 5:55 pm

to be honest with you
the stupid girl is the girl who trust completly with a guy in my opinion mind should always works heart without mind can lose easily the way

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby Lara » Sat Oct 01, 2011 3:55 am

hmm yes...there's no blind love, that's not love. Thanks Sweets :)

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Postby sweets » Sat Oct 01, 2011 6:07 am

ur welcome sis. :)

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby ArnauEstanyol » Wed Oct 05, 2011 3:38 pm

Heart and mind are both important in love matters, but the most important is sex. Do you agree?

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby Lara » Thu Oct 06, 2011 2:13 am

ArnauEstanyol wrote:Heart and mind are both important in love matters, but the most important is sex. Do you agree?


hahahaah ArnauEstanyol u made me laugh....sorry but i dont agree with u....in a relationship, i mean when there is real love, sex is not the most important, it just completes it, but it's not the main thing...
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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby ArnauEstanyol » Thu Oct 06, 2011 9:33 am

Wow. :shock: Love is all. Why not sex?. Sex is the powerful energy of the earth. If no sex, there is no life, nor love, there is nothing. We, the humans, have many defects, but thank to sex we can create other persons. The creation of a human being needs love, but without sex it's impossible.

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby Lara » Thu Oct 06, 2011 5:44 pm

Love is all...but sex is not all...i will show u an example: what would u do if ur girlfriend or wife has an accident and she cant have sex...would u leave her because of that??? c u friend :-D

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby ArnauEstanyol » Fri Oct 07, 2011 8:31 am

:lol: Ok. Perhaps you win... But here I go with my last intent:
I'm not referring exclusively to the sexual act itself. I'm referring to the sexual power. The sexual power permeates all Nature.
If there were no sexes, that is: if there were no men and women, would love exist?. Maybe yes, but all would be different, including love.
When a couple of persons of both sexes meet in the street, the first sensation they feel is a sexual attraction or a sexual rejection. This is made in a unconscious way. If there is no sexual compatibility between both sexes cannot grow love. The true love. It may have other material interests. But interests and love are not the same.

What do you think what I say?
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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby Lara » Fri Oct 07, 2011 9:09 pm

ArnauEstanyol wrote:If there were no sexes, that is: if there were no men and women, would love exist?. Maybe yes, but all would be different, including love.

Hey i realized u hate losing too as me {-: well in this case u r right,..u won :D well i think if there were not sexes love would exist...it's nice to talk to you too friend :-D

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby ArnauEstanyol » Sat Oct 08, 2011 3:32 pm

Well. I understand we are talking about love between a man and a woman. Because there are several kind of love. It's not the same the love that feels a mother for her children than the love someone feel for its pet, for example.
Yes, I agree with you: if there were not two sexes, there were love.
Why?
Because would exist only one sex. :lol: :lol: :lol:
Well... with only one sex, we have come into the angels' kingdom. :lol: :lol:

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby Lara » Sat Oct 08, 2011 8:34 pm

ArnauEstanyol wrote:Well... with only one sex, we have come into the angels' kingdom. :lol: :lol:

hahahah yeah u r right friend :-D have a nice day c u

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby AcademicEssay » Mon Oct 10, 2011 10:22 am

I think it is all about heart feelings,so mind can't guide in love. You just fall in love without thinking and brain is not used for this purpose.

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby Lara » Tue Oct 11, 2011 3:35 am

AcademicEssay wrote:You just fall in love without thinking and brain is not used for this purpose.


wow nice answer AcademicEssay! i liked it, thanks for sharing it :-D

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Re: ¿Heart or Mind?

Postby ArnauEstanyol » Tue Oct 11, 2011 10:44 am

AcademicEssayYou:
just fall in love without thinking and brain is not used for this purpose.


Yes, Agree. Almost. What happens when you are far from your beloved? You cannot stop of thinking on him/her. In this case, mind is a mechanism of love, don't you?

Sorry. I arguing to hold a conversation. :-D

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