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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby Elham » Thu Oct 25, 2012 2:26 pm

Hi dear Amal,

Happy Eid to you and your family* :-)

It's not soon for the rain fall honey. It's the second month of the autumn and lots of rain falls are expected. I hope so.

About your questions...! I have this habit to express my sadness when some one hurts me. I don't keep silent , I believe this is his right to know it. I let the person know what he has done. Maybe that person doesn't know and hasn't understood that he's made mistake. If the person understands me and my pain, he's done me the biggest favor he could, and I feel calm and relaxed ;I am sooooooo grateful of him! :-D
If not, he hurts me for the second time and leaves a scar on my heart and soul! It should be mentioned that it matters how important the person and the matter is to me! In this case I just wait and hope as time passes, he would think about it, understand it and feel regret! That's enough for me! Instead of hearing " please forgive me" I do prefer to make sure that there is no misunderstanding anymore and the person is aware of his mistakes!

anyway,I try to forgive. I can't claim I forget easily, no , I can't. Somewhere in my mind it remains , if it wasimportant,but I never think of revange! Never!

You know Amal, this bothers me more when I myself has hurt or annoyed some one! I can forgive others easily but when it comes to my own mistakes I punish myself and never forgive Elham! Knowing someone is sad with me is much more painful that being sad and hurt from others!

Thanks for reading!

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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby behnam » Thu Oct 25, 2012 4:55 pm

Happy Eid ul-Adha* to all my Muslims friends. Congratulations! Al-Mabruk! I wish you success, health and happiness.


All the best,
Behnam, 25 October, 2012

*A religious festival that Muslims celebrate at the end of the haj in order to remember that the Prophet Ibrahim was willing to kill his son for Allah.



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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby Elham » Thu Oct 25, 2012 7:08 pm

Kindness is very good.
It's good to be kind.
We all need to be treated kindly.
There are times in life that we need kindness more.

Kindness is good.
We get used to other's kindness with us.
Kindness is sweet!
We miss other's kindness wityh us.
I love to be kind too.
But there are many people who are kinder than me.
I need to be kind with myself!

Kindness is good. We have to be kind.
We all need to be treated kindly.
Kindness is the best thing in the world.
Kindness is good; we get used to other's kindess with us.

I need some kindness....
We all need kindness...

There are people who can be kind with us!
Kindness is sweet when this is not aimed to be kindness, but when it comes from a kind nature!

I need your kindness, but when you don't understand that it's kindness! You just start to say or do sth and you don't know that it's kindness and that means you care for me! It's just me that feel it. And that's nautural kindness. This comes from your kind nature not your decesion to be kind and I adore that kindness....
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And you, the kindest of kinds! I feel calm when I think of your natural kindness! I love your kindness with me! I need it, I need it a lot! Please be kind with me! Oh no, no nooo.... you shouldn't decide to be kind with me... you should be kind by your nature and YOU ARE! I have faith in your kindness , THE KINDEST OF KINDS! It's calming to know at least you exist! Thankssssssssssssssssss my dear God , thankssssssssssssssssssss my lovliest! I love you and your kindness. :-)

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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby setayesh » Thu Oct 25, 2012 7:28 pm

Hi Behnam,

Many thanks for your kind reply.And thanks a lot for all those good words.yes, I've been accepted in Allame university and got a job in bank.to be honest,my job is a full time job not a part-time. But my boss gives me some hours off to go to university.As a persian saying goes it's very difficult to lift two watermelon with one hand(=managing 2 difficult activities at the same time), I'm just trying to see what would the result be in the end. I hope I don't make myself disappointed. {-;

Sara is fine,we are still classmates,we both have been accepted at a same University {-; .she's also working.she's got a part time job in a firm. she's gave regards to you too.

I can hear that it's raining outside, it's gradually getting cold. take care of yourself,babies and their mother in such a changeable weather.

Best regards,

Setayesh

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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby setayesh » Thu Oct 25, 2012 7:32 pm

Happy Eid ul-Adha too all.

Setayesh

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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby Elham » Sat Oct 27, 2012 4:48 pm

Dear Behnam,

How are you? How are babies and their mother? I hope everything is ok with them. :-)

I wanted to thank you for your post to Amal. For me it was a a post full of important points to learn. Like always I loved it and learned from it. I'm sure I never lose my interest for hearing and reading your strong Behnamish opinions! {-; :-)

Elham is the big fan of Behnam's words and always enjoy knowing about them.

Wish you the best,
Elham

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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby nanachen » Mon Oct 29, 2012 2:07 pm

Dear Amal,

Before answering your question,I want to tell you a story.A woman was dump by her husband because he loved a young and beautiful girl when she was in 40 years old.She had bring up her daughter and pay for the mortgage all by herself.At resent she found she got the renal failure and had to maintain her life in hemodialysis every two days.The worse thing is the company she worked for was close down.Do you think she is an unlucky woman?That is the woman I visit last weekend.She said to me,she regrets she havn't taken care of herself and she tell me the most important thing is your healthy, and nothing can compare with it.She would find a job at home and wants to live her life happily every day in future with her daughter.
Come back your question"if someone hurt you, what would you do?",my answer is my most important thing is live my life and other things are piece of cake.You can just laugh off and forget that people who hurt you.They are nonentities for you.

Best wish

Nana

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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby nanachen » Mon Oct 29, 2012 2:24 pm

[color=#008000]Dear Behanm,

I hope your babies and wife are health and happy.

For you,as a new father,everyday is rich and pleasure.I shouldn't bother you.However one question is confused me and I need your answer.As you see the post I wrote to Amal,I visited a friend last weekend.She divorced, got the renal failure,lost her job.Every unlucky thing takes place on her.But she is a nice and good person.She havn't done a bad thing or hurt other people.Even if her husband treats her so badly,she wouldn't hate him.Why she meet so many unlucky things. It's said "Give cake and ale to perfect soul".God should bless that people who is doing good thing?Can you give me a answer?

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Nana
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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby behnam » Wed Oct 31, 2012 12:34 pm

Hi friends,

There is a poll on this site; asking for good chatters in October. Fortunately, I am one of the candidates. I'd be happy if you could visit the following link and see the results and vote for people who deserve to win.

Here is the link:
http://my.englishclub.com/profiles/blog ... tober-2012


All the best,
Behnam, 31 October, 2012




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Postby behnam » Wed Oct 31, 2012 12:39 pm

Hi Nana,

Thank you very much for your kind message. Your question is one of the most difficult questions in the world. I've got some unorganized materials in my mind, but it takes me some time to organize them. I won't answer to your question, since nobody can answer such a difficult question, but I promise to write something about it.

All the best,
Behnam, 31 October, 2012



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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby behnam » Wed Oct 31, 2012 12:44 pm

Hi Mohsen and Oriani,

This is just to let you know that I've missed you terribly. You are always in my thoughts. You have been absent for a long time. I hope you will be back with happy news and souvenirs.

All the best,
Behnam, 31 October, 2012



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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby Mohsen » Wed Oct 31, 2012 1:28 pm

Dear Behnam,

I miss you and other friends too, I am a little busy ,because of one week resting, travelling to Mashhad.
It is said that traveling broadens the mind or, in other words, broadens an individual’s life experiences. My experience from traveling is that Mashhad was the land of wealth and money.
Every year millions of people from different cities of Iran and other countries come to visit the shrine and there are thousands of hotel in Mashad to locate the people. Location ,foods , transportation and the gifts bought by traveller are charges spent by travellers in Mashhad and make the Mashhad people richer and richer.

Mashad is one the important and big cities of Iran . It is famous , because the mausoleum of a holy man ( Imam Reza AS). Imam Reza AS is the eighth Imam of twelve Imams. Imam Reza AS was murdered by Al-Ma'mun in 818. The Shrine of Imam Reza is the largest complex in the world by dimension. The biggest courtyards in one the Imam Reza 's complex is 12000 S/M. Also contained within the complex include: the Goharshad Mosque, a museum, a library, four seminaries, a cemetery, the Razavi University of Islamic Sciences, a dining hall for pilgrims, vast prayer halls, and many other buildings.

My brother and his wife ,my wife and I were 4 people who went to Mashhad by my brother's car. Two days on the way, one night resting in Tehran and 4 days in Mashhad was the itinerary for the trip .

Finally I am very happy and satisfy with this trip , but when I come back to Isfahan I had to face with my boss and fallen behind many work that I don't incline to do that.

B.W
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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby Elham » Wed Oct 31, 2012 2:49 pm

Dear Nana,

How are you honey?

What you have asked from Behnam is actually everyone's question! There are two things in my mind when I think of your question!

First: I remember this Farsi saying: ( Harke dar in bazm mogharrab tar ast, jame bala bishtarash midehand) ! It means : The more you are good and dear to god, the more you would be tested by him and the more you come across difficulties!!!!

Second: I ask myself: Why should we expect good and nice people to have a good and easy life??? Should we believe that just bad people should be punished and face difficulties? Yes, our logic says there is no reason to feel pain when you have done nothing bad and wrong and it bothers us to see good people in trouble! One of my aunts is experiancing a very difficult time with his husband! I always ask, " She has been a very good and helpful and decent girl, why should she experiance such problems? Why couldn't she marry with a good man?!!!

But dear Behnam always says: The way we look at things and judge as human beings is way different with God's look and calculations! Sometimes when I really can't digest things, I remember this and get calm.
Oh dear Nana, have you ever deeply felt how good it is that there is somebody who knows everything and understands everything? Someone who can judge things perfectly and have the power to change everything??? Oh my god, thaks that you exist! :-D

Dear Nana, today I finished reading a nice book named " Desert flower". It's autobiography of Waris Dirie. I recommend you to find the book and read it. There is even a movie made on her lifestory. The main idea of this book is fighting against female genital mutilation (FGM), which she herself has been one of its victims. But my purpose is not writing about that matter.
Reading this book and knowing about difficulties women should deal with all over the world, I learnt how strong a woman can be! How stronger than men a woman can be! How strong a wonam should be!

You know, I love myself being a woman! I know that I have a magical power inside, I know that being a woman, I can expriance so many wonderful things, I can be so effective and I can enjoy myself alot. I know that being a woman is not easy at all but I want to experiance it by all my heart and soul! :-)

Thanks for reading,
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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby Elham » Thu Nov 01, 2012 1:36 pm

Dear Amal,

*HAPPY BIRTHDAY HONEY*

May your birthday be filled with sunshine and smiles, laughter, love, and cheer. :-D


May the best of your past be the worst of your future. :-)

I hope all your birthday dreams and wishes come true. :-D :-D :-D

lOVE YOU,
Elham

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II AAAMMMAAALLL II
II II.WISH.YOU.THE II
II BEST..FOR..EVER II
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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby behnam » Thu Nov 01, 2012 6:33 pm

Dear Amal,

Congratulations!


Happy Birthday to You!

I wish you lasting happiness and success. You are a great person, and a kind friend. I feel proud of you!

All the best,
Behnam, 1 November, 2011



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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby Elham » Fri Nov 02, 2012 4:03 pm


It was soooooooo sad when I heard a young woman said this sentence with tears in her eyes:
" I don't want to have child from my husband!" !!!!!!!!!!!! :-( :-( :-( :cry: :cry: :cry:

It made me very upset since I believe we women love our husbands to have child from HIM and just HIM! We marry someone when we feel we love him to be the father of our children, isn't it? She said: " I'm afraid I'm pragnant, I don't want any child from him"! Ohhh, what a disaster! :-( :-( :-( ......

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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby Mohsen » Fri Nov 02, 2012 7:48 pm

Hi Amal,

Happy birthday to you. I wish I was in Damascus and give you a birthday gift.

Wish you health and long life

B.W
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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby Mohsen » Fri Nov 02, 2012 7:52 pm

Hi Behnam,

Happy Eid Ul Ghadir to you, Tonight many places in Isfahan have been decorated with multicolored lights and flags ,because tomorrow is one of the Islamic feast for Iranian. At the same day in the history Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) in his last travel back from Mecca ,gathered many people in a place called Khumm and took the hand of Imam Ali and said: "Whoever has me as his Master (Wali), Ali is his Master (Wali)”

I hope you have a good time beside your family , and have an enjoyable party.

I am invited in several parties from tonight until tomorrow . Tonight I have been invited for supper , tomorrow morning for I have been invited for breakfast and tomorrow noon for lunch . After tomorrow lunch I will go to a party from 3 to 8 PM. You see the I am completely engage in many parties ,and I have a happy times .

I guess you have party tomorrow at your home , :!!:

B.W
Mohsen

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Re: Let's learn together!

Postby setayesh » Sat Nov 03, 2012 6:44 am

Happy birthday to you Amal

I wish all your dreams come true.

Kisses,
Setayesh


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