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Re: Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Postby FireLotus » Mon Jul 21, 2008 7:16 am

I always thought that we are not happy unless we see our happiness. For me,living is happiness,having friends,family,healthy body,etc. is happiness too. Maybe trying to find our happiness can bring it to us,too,BUT that depends on what we are looking for and HOW we do it. That is all.
Sometimes happiness is easier to reach than to imagine,because we are happy,but we don't know,how.
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Re: Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Postby bruna » Sat Aug 23, 2008 7:31 pm

:-P :-P just people who feel sad and unhappy try to look for happines the others never understand those who make the effort to find it out. :-P :-P

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Re: Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Postby lovsmalgir » Fri Sep 12, 2008 7:19 am

yes, nobody can be happy by only trying to find happiness without doing. if we think that we want to make our lives happy, it is a good step. then we must do some other steps. for example, we try to earn moneys by works, for more friends, act with people arround us politely, make some charity... then we will feel happy. Having a good idea, then make it true.
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Re: Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Postby lovsmalgir » Fri Sep 12, 2008 7:23 am

yes, nobody can be happy by only trying to find happiness without doing. if we think that we want to make our lives happy, it is a good step. then we must do some other steps. for example, we try to earn moneys by works, for more friends, act with people arround us politely, make some charity... then we will feel happy. Having a good idea, then make it true.
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Re: Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Postby studentss » Sun Oct 26, 2008 1:02 pm

I think if somebody is trying to find hapiness never will find. Be your best friend and try to do good things.

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Re: Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Postby alkhader » Sat Dec 13, 2008 11:48 am

Most people can be happy by trying to find happiness :?:
Well .. What you have to do is [

The Law of Happiness
Understanding of this law can help you achieve a lot of happiness :-D [IF YOU WANT TO STAY HAPPY THEN YOU HAVE TO KEEP OTHERS HAPPY ] :-D

Explanation :

Every individual is surrounded by other individuals/people. All these individuals/people are categorized into 5 circles.

The first or the innermost circle : consists of people who you are coming in contact with the most i.e on a daily basis or very frequently. Examples are your wife/husband, co workers etc.

The second circle : which surrounds the first circle are the people who you meet let us say once or twice a week and are not as frequently in contact with you as the people in the first circle. Examples are some friends you see or visit or people in a class that you are taking once a week etc.

The third circle : surrounds the second circle and consists of individuals who you meet once or twice a year or even once in 5 or any number of years. You know all these people. Examples are distant relatives, old friends etc.

The fourth circle : consists of people you don't know but can meet at any time. Examples are attendant at a grocery store, someone you talk to in an elevator etc.

The fifth circle : Comprises of people you don't know or meet but these people know you. Examples are of fans of rock stars or famous people etc.

Your happiness depends directly, on how happy the individuals are with you, in all these 5 circles.

Sours : http://www.lawofhappiness.blogspot.com/

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Alkhader Ali

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Re: Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Postby amor » Sat Jan 03, 2009 2:35 am

Learn to accept, respect and not to expect too much... then you'll find happiness.

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Re: Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Postby herione » Thu Apr 09, 2009 8:55 pm



is so hard to find happyness when she is lost


in same time we should look for happyness and never be bored :-|

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Re: Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Postby Krisi » Thu Nov 19, 2015 10:30 am

whenever we are sad it is best to change our mood by thinking of all the happy events in our lives or by doing something that would make us happy. (This is possible.) We cannot find happiness by putting other people down or placing other people in danger.
I think true happiness could only be realized when we least expect it.

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Re: Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Postby anazafra » Fri Nov 20, 2015 2:45 pm

I totally agree. From my point of view happiness comes when you aren´t aware of it. What I want to say, is that sometimes, we are so obstinate in reaching happiness that we ignore it´s nearer than we think. People are 27-7 thinking in theirselves and it isn´t the way. Change that attitude and you will see improvements. Are you willing to take this advice? {-;

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Re: Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Postby Keough » Thu Dec 10, 2015 3:20 am

TalkingPoint wrote:Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

Is it possible to find happiness if you look for it? Is it an impossible dream? Is it selfishness that will end in failure? Or is it the right of every human being?


In my humble opinion, there is no problem in finding happiness. However, the main questions are how you define your happiness and methods to achieve that.

You can find your own happiness. It is your right to do so. But do not do wrong things to get right results.


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