Nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness.

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Postby awalee » Sun May 14, 2006 12:45 pm

I think we become happy when we want to be happy.

But some times we find some kind of happiness whwen we becom sad ( if we not feel sadness :cry: we can not feel happiness :D )

Are you agree with me ? :roll:

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Postby xiangjing » Tue Jun 06, 2006 7:47 am

i think so!happy life is very natural!

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Re: My Happiness ....

Postby zahish » Mon Jul 03, 2006 3:29 pm

ı completely agree with you.happiness is a kind of toll and we must know how to play with it.

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Postby hanguyen » Thu Aug 03, 2006 4:04 pm

What is happiness? Everybody has his own happiness. With someone, happiness is very simple. Example, with the poor, happiness is to have delicious meals, beautiful clothes and have enough money to pay school fees for their children. But with the rich, happiness is far different. They have much money, so maybe their happiness is power and fluence,... I am not sure. Now, my happiness is to find a good job, earn much money to learn everything I love, such as learn to play piano, learn to draw picture,... Can I find my happiness. I think the answer is yes. What is your happiness? And what will you do to have your happiness?

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Postby jakeson » Sat Aug 05, 2006 8:55 am

Pardon me if I disagree. We can find happiness. What is the essense of happiness if nobody can find it? That's the logic behind why happiness exists. It depends, however, how one defines happiness. What is happiness for me may not be happiness for others. Remember the relativity of things. But to be happy is not to the detriment of others.

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Re: happiness is struggling

Postby srmlove » Mon Oct 02, 2006 4:44 pm

i liked the lines you wrote.
it's true, if someone walks away in search of getting Happiness s/she won't get it, but if a person let it go....stop thinking and stressing...it's possible to be HAPPY then...
Im impressed with your lines sounds like an inteligent and experiences person there...

Will be glad to see you here srm_786@hotmail.com

Ally.

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Postby hoanggia » Wed Oct 04, 2006 3:35 pm

ONE EXPERT SAID IN HIS SPEECH;
"TRUE HAPPINESS IS WHAT DEPEND ON OURSELVES ,OUR THOUGHT,IT'S THE FEELING COMING FROM INSIDE" DEEP DOWN , EACH OF US KNOW WHAT'S TRUE HAPPINESS TO US.
BE PLEASED WITH THE PRESENCE AND LOOKING FORWARD IS ALSO A KIND OF HAPPINESS.

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Postby CityYoung » Wed Oct 04, 2006 5:50 pm

Of course you can try to find the happiness .first , you should try to find friend who you feel well with them and you can do everything with them without they be sad of you .second , you have to try to find a good wife to feel happiness with her , third you try to find good neighbors to live with them in happiness .

So you should to try for happiness :wink:

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Postby ilargia » Sat Oct 28, 2006 5:19 pm

I think that happiness consists in having a good health and a bad memory. I´m not a happy person but I have a lot of happy moments so I don´t try to find happiness because I´m afraid of feeling frustrated if I don´t get it.
If you want to be happy I recommend you a tabloid whose name is WILL. A person without will is a disaster.
There are three positive feelings: pleasure, gladness and happiness. Don Quijote de la Mancha said that "happiness there isn´t in the inn, only in the middle of the way". It´s a way of life. But to get it you must be in a good balance and have a project of life.
In front of the sea there is a sailing ship. The life. A pessimist person blames the wind, the optimist waits a change and the realist adjusts the sails.

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nobody can be happy by trying to find happiness

Postby etan » Sun Oct 29, 2006 4:26 pm

Happiness is a way to be...it does not exist if we are pessimistic and a selfish person ! as Jean-Claude VanDamme said : "be aware !!!" that's the real way of life... :lol:

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Postby nessma » Sun Jan 21, 2007 5:20 am

i thinke that happiness not imposiple thing becuse evryone much search for it in this life & not to wait it to come lonelly :)
but i want to ask what dose happiness mean ?

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Happiness ?

Postby Lac » Sun Jan 21, 2007 2:07 pm

Looking for happiness means your mind has no happiness. Don't seek it ! The more you seek happiness, the more it evades you. If we have happiness, we dont need to go out for searching it.
Happiness lies nowhere but inside yourself. Yes, when you smile to someone, they would do the same in return. That also means if you close your heart, everythings would be out of your reach.
No one brings you a real happiness unless you bring what you think cheerfulness to them. That's the practical experience in our life.

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Postby nessma » Mon Jan 22, 2007 6:09 am

i thinke happiness not mean the outer expressions as big smiles or laughing but this thing come from inside our self & this give us the feeling of comfortable & safe so how we try to disappear these things it will note through our behavior & eyes glances so we should have strong resolution .

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Postby geminibuon » Mon Jan 22, 2007 10:50 am

I don't think trying to find happiness is bad. We thirst for happiness, we try to find it in stead of sit down and wait for it. Finding happiness is just give your love to everyone, then you can receive it, and happiness will come easily. If everyone on the whole world do that the world will be beautiful, and full of happiness.

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Postby Lac » Tue Jan 23, 2007 1:29 pm

I don't think trying to find happiness is bad. We thirst for happiness, we try to find it in stead of sit down and wait for it. Finding happiness is just give your love to everyone, then you can receive it, and happiness will come easily. If everyone on the whole world do that the world will be beautiful, and full of happiness.


Absolutely. That means you must have your love first. The love is inside your mind and heart. We dont need to find love anywhere else. With love available within yourself, you would find it easy giving others what they really need : assistance, talk, even a lovely smile.etc..

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Postby keeper » Thu Jan 25, 2007 2:36 am

you feel happy,you are happy.the ture sence.

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Postby letsjam » Thu Jan 25, 2007 3:04 pm

There is no key to happiness - the door is always opened.

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Postby Lac » Fri Jan 26, 2007 10:17 am

There is no key to happiness - the door is always opened.

Right!. It's as simple as the spreading horizon. Open one's heart, happiness would go in,otherwise,it would flee away.

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Postby crystalfrogw » Fri Apr 13, 2007 7:04 am

happyiness is just a kind of feeling ....it depends on the view you hold to life.

If you believe a grim, rainy day beautiful, it is beautiful because you enjoy it..............If you think a sunny spring morning is ugly it is ugly....

Attitute decides everything.

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I think,

Postby Kathfap » Wed Apr 25, 2007 2:32 am

The happiness exists in our minds. Each one create your our happiness because is not the same for all. There are people that don’t need much to be happy. I think that the happiness is subjective and changeable. Nowadays you can be happy with something or someone and tomorrow not more. In some times I feel nostalgia about this topic because I wish I could to find the real happiness in myself and the rest. :?:

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Postby Valery » Sun Apr 29, 2007 7:46 am

In fact,Happiness is a journey.U couldn't find it out.but you can feel it.


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