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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 2:12 pm
by Etore
In my opinion it´s important to treat babies very well cause the behavior´s babies will reflect according the treatment.

Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 3:06 pm
by shokin
We have to treat everyone very well.

Are we becoming nasty ? we all are friends.

Shokin

Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 3:59 pm
by RedRose
Sorry, IMHO, this topic is very laughable and meaningless.
Are you sure that none can remember hisher 1-2 first years ?
Very true, we all can't remember our 1-2 first years, so are our babies. but remember! NO parents would NOT treat their babies kindly and with all their lives and love!

It isn't about whether-we-should-do-so, but about we-naturally-do-so!

When my daughter was about 1-2 years old, she was a true trouble-maker! she peed on my clean clothes, and sometimes when I was so tired and fell asleep, she wakened me with her nails scratching on my cheeks; I couldn't get a full-night sleep during her first 1-2 years. and yes, it didn't matter whether I treated her well, because she wouldn't remember anything if I treated her in a terrible way. however, It would be IMPOSSIBLE for me NOT to treat her well! that is what we call parents! absolute love for kids, no reason! just nature!

Posted: Sun Jul 03, 2005 4:56 pm
by MissLT
shazzam1452 wrote:My goodness what a terrible heading "Does it matter how we treat babies". I'm not going to take this the wrong way; but it would be easy to.

Even lions look after their young!
That's a saying to expect a woman to be a good mother, but you know for sure there are mothers out there who are worst than monsters. They either emotionally or physically abuse their kids since the day they were born because those kids were not wanted at all. It's so sad.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Fri Jul 15, 2005 5:29 pm
by H
TP wrote:Considering that we can't remember anything from the first one or two years of our lives (at least), does it really matter how we treat babies and toddlers?

What do you think?
Of course, It really matters. When child is born, he is unaware of the sorroundings. The mother's lap is like a school for him where he can learn the ABC of life. He needs guidence from everyone. He/she can go about anything merely by holding your finger. In a cosequence, he can remember what he is taught. We had better treat the child with love and kindness and in this way he can grow up with required environement.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2005 8:27 am
by bolina1984
TP wrote:Considering that we can't remember anything from the first one or two years of our lives (at least), does it really matter how we treat babies and toddlers?

What do you think?

We should respect everyone 'coz we are equal. How can ignore the natural right of babies and toddlers?
Another point is that babies have curiosity of everything. And that's a good time for young parents to establish a good relationship with their children.

Posted: Sat Jul 23, 2005 5:06 pm
by authorityquery
I think treatments with babes is important, because babes can learn everything fastly, and may be your treatment will influent on them. babes don't know how wrong is or true, so they just learn and imitate everything people treat them.
Be careful! I'm not sure, but that's my idea.
Thanks.

Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 1:24 am
by hanamichi
I think that's important how we treat a baby and what we did in front of him/her. When a baby is older, it can't remember what happened when it was a baby. But, the first impression we made for it surely affect to its conception. Example, when we always let a baby see the money we have, when he's old, and he know about the value of money, he'll always think: my parents always have much money, and he'll depend on his parents

Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 6:37 am
by samento
I think that all parents and babysisters should treat babies and toddlers the best they can do.
All babies need these; food, warm, and love. And I think almost people know about psychology. Our subconciousness has developed from this period, first 1-2 year of life.
Even though we can't remember what really happened during that time, but this doesn't mean we can ignore our children. It's not related!
Who is the first babies run to when they cry? Who is the first babies hug when they fear? Who is the first babies smile when they see? And Who is the first can stop they crying?
This is why we need to treat them well.
In fact, I don't have my own baby yet. But I know that a family is a basic element. And this element is very important. If we don't have families, we can't survive until today. We may die as soon as we born. And we might not be like this, if we didn't be treated well when we were young.
Thank you.

Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 12:01 pm
by Dixie
I once heard a story about an orphanage where something very weird was going on in the babies' room. It was a room filled with cribs, one next to another. For months, the orphanage staff observed that the babies that slept in the last crib of the row grew up healthier and happier. Why did that happen? What was wrong with that crib?

Well the answer was simple: every night, after the maid had finished her task, she would rest by the last crib, and talk and caress the baby in it.

Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 4:55 pm
by Thoughts
I think it is very significant subjet & it must be taken in our consideration, due to its greatest importance. There is no doubt , babies are our future , through them we hope to accomplish our dreams, ambitions & aims, that we had no opportunity to achieve them. Babies are our delightful God's gift,& the successful end of our life. They will complete our life messge to maintain our traditions, beliefs, & moralities from one generation to another,which enable them to do the best for their families & their homelands.They are our young future & we proudly see our glorious future through them.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 4:53 am
by Chet Baker
TalkingPoint wrote:Considering that we can't remember anything from the first one or two years of our lives (at least), does it really matter how we treat babies and toddlers?

What do YOU think?
Baby child is so vulnerable, we must treat them very carefully, even though, they might not remember what happened to him in his 1 - 2 years old.

Let´s put it the easy way.

Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 5:26 am
by javzm
Of course it matters the way we treat and teach our sons. Let me just ask you something. Would you like to be treatted nice and with love or would you like to be mistreatted or would you like to be abuse by someone. Babies, eventhough they can not express themsleve they have feelings and they undestand what happend at their enviroment.

So of course it matter and we should all take care of our babies and of the childs.

Posted: Wed Jun 27, 2007 5:08 am
by mita
i think they don't sense what's good or bad for them but they can feel what make them comfortable or uncomfortable

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 9:31 am
by KeQing
I am a mother of a six month years old baby now. You don't know that how clever they are. They use their clear eyes to watch what is going on around them. They smile to you if you treat them in a kind way, them cry if you do any bad things to them. Maybe they really can not remember thing at their early age, but it not means we can treat them as we like, right? How come if you have pet dog or cat? They can not speak also, but you can treat them bad? No!!!right, you will love them.

Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 1:50 pm
by skorpion
sandra wrote:I have no baby, so not an expert :lol: But I regard it as a common sense we should treat every human beings in this world with mercy.
Having a baby does not make you an expert. Were that true, we wouldn't have so many broken families in the world.

I remember seeing and listening to many experts on the matter saying that the most important years in a person's life are the first 5 years, because during these years the person builds up his/her personality, which is very very important to suceed in any society.

Also, I remember this news I saw about a year ago, where this hospital where twins were born very early, and they noticed a baby was not doing so well. The nurse decided to put both babies in the same machine... she was thinking that perhaps the company of the little bother could help the sick one.

I was very surprising to see how the little baby improved his health. And it was amazing to see the little brother's support: he usually "hugged" his brother by putting his arms just above his brother's chest... sort of like cheering him up.

Ain't it touching?

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 3:57 pm
by Lithium
TalkingPoint wrote:Considering that we can't remember anything from the first one or two years of our lives (at least), does it really matter how we treat babies and toddlers?

What do YOU think?
First : We think that we can't remember anything from the first one or two years of our lives , but in reality we remember that by doing something which is related to our mind ...( my teacher said that xD ) so , it really matters how we treat babies and toddlers .

ps: sorry my english is poor

sure

Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 8:53 pm
by norhan
sure it's really matter how we treat babies
and toddlers?
I think we all teart babies and toddlers with a different way
these differences have an impact on how good the experience of childhood is
so if u want a good person u have to prepare this person from the beginning u have to treat him very well u have to respect him from the beginnig.

Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 2:16 pm
by shokin
Do you do it for the babies or for your reputation ? :lol:

Hey, baby ! wash the dishes, clean the kitchen, bring me my beer. :lol: (mouarf)

You do it to be happy, not for your social image.



Shokin

Posted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 12:28 am
by hedwig14
yes, we should. This is the stage of one's life where he/she adapts well to the environment. We may not know, but don't we realize why a baby or toddler understands the language fast? I think this is the time where we are most brilliant. So whatever was instilled to the baby's mind will retain in him..

Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 4:27 am
by ahmedshaima
it really does!!

you know, if you treat your babies in a way that is not acceptable from a genuine mother to do.... cuz you know, your babies might grow up to obtain an over rude behavior, and that certainly based on the way you treated them.. but if you did the exact opposit, you won't be a bit sorry for, cuz they will present their comunity in the future, for sure as you taught them... besides, they will be decent once that you could be proud of, and, too, they will be proud of having such coool mother such as you...

there are a lot to say about this issue.. but you know i don't like to enlarge the topic cuz your question is specified... actually i did :lol:

thanx 4 ur ask

Yours Ahmed

Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 12:35 pm
by nightwish
of course it's important, in the minute the baby born we have to treat him/her a good treatment, becaue he/she understands us and aware of what's going on around him/her, besides, from that moment he/she starts to perceive and absorb what he sees and hears. each day he/she learns aomething new and us who teach him/her.

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 9:16 am
by YayuRahayu
I don't have a baby yet :) but I always taking care of my cousin's babies when she can't handled them in sametime..I think its great experience so I know how to take care baby someday, watching them grow up.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 12:08 pm
by Stanley
It is of great impotance. I may not remember but I can imagine my birth have been born in the living room of our home infront of a warm coal fire. I do remember sitting in my pram in the front garden and being admired by passers by. I was often asked the time and it was always ten to two. I also remember being persuaded to throw my dummy on the fire, but I might have been about 10 by then. He he!.
The ones who cared for me most in those early years and those friendly people who passed by have remained friends and favoured relatives.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 4:37 pm
by wllsp
If parents love their children they treat them accordingly no matter if children are one yaer old or three years old. Of course adequate parents change the way they treat their boys and girls when the latter become teenagers.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2011 11:39 am
by sweethuman
Yes offcourse, The babies always learn from every step we take whether that is in happiness or anger they learn from us. So what ever we react directly affects them and they also try to implement those points in their lives

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2012 6:20 am
by vijai
yes,it really matters.I agree with hedwig14.it is most important and precious movement where they learn quickly than other stages of life.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 8:24 pm
by Eliwa
yes, our way of treating babies play role on building their personality.

Re: treat our babies fairly and evenly

Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2012 7:02 pm
by Ilove
sandra wrote:As far as I am concerned, babies and toddlers may not rememeber things vividly.But they do have the ability to sense things around them.They could tell the affection and caring. Any sweet whispers, gentle strokes and tiptoed movements.If they grew up in a loving family, they became secure and confident.These things will have vital impact on their furture life.
Hello Sandra,
You have a good point of them. Indeed, I did not grow up in a loving family, so your message is especially important to me. =)

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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2012 7:11 pm
by Ilove
sandra wrote:I have no baby, so not an expert :lol: But I regard it as a common sense we should treat every human beings in this world with mercy.
Hi Sandra,
I disagree with you because some people do not know what mercy and love are all about. What is a common sense or not; it depends on the individual because I regard everyone has a variety of knowledge and opinions. =)
But we are fortunate because we do know them, so our future children will be living in merciful and loving families. =)

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2014 12:50 pm
by rokwysocka
In my mind it is important how we treat babies beacuse even we can not remember this time we assimilate different behaviours which depend on it. People derive models to follow from the youngest years of their lives.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 4:52 pm
by dariakur
In my opinion children dont remember exacly how their parents treated them in the childhood, but every child subconsciously know if the family loves them or not. It is really important to treat children the best as it is possible, because children have feeling too, and we have to remember that they are defenceless.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 6:02 pm
by kassliw
In my point od view it is importance to treat babies very well. Maybe babies can't remember first two years, but they develop emotion and safety and sense od love are necessary.
Also i think every children look like his/her parents in the future.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Thu May 15, 2014 5:30 pm
by wojcieszek
According to me the way we treat the children what they are causing in the future. For example, if from the birth we will give child sweets in the future will be thick. Or when a child is too often bite it later will be afraid of people. I when I was child that I could leave the table just like everything I ate. It came to me for good because now I eat almost anything.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Sun May 18, 2014 10:30 am
by mcIlob
I suppose that nobody remember exactly what took place in our the first years of live, but I would think that even than something stay in our memory and it can affect how we treat babies and toddlers.
So, in my opinion we should treat every person (particulary children and babies, but not just them) very well, because nobody want to be badly treated.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2014 7:14 pm
by Klaudyna
In my point of view it is really matter how we treat babies and toddlers because they are humans like we. What is more although the fact that babies can't remember anything from the first one or two years of their lives everyone should treat them with respect and taking care of them any time. Furthermore if we treat them in a bad and irresponsible way we should really reflect on our behavior and think how we could feel if we were them.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2014 8:44 am
by RogelikIID
I think that how we treats baby is of great importance. Through the prism of our actions and words baby shapes its own personality and perception of the world which affects the life and development at a later stage. Scientists have conducted many studies on the effect of the treating babies. One of them had sho the effect of raising babies without love. As a result of this experiment, the most of babies died. This shows that how we treats babies is very important.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2014 2:21 pm
by lesoli
In my opinion it does metter how we treat babies. They have feelings like adults. It is true that they will forget about it, but children feel that we love them or not. Bad treatment affect on their behavior.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2014 8:37 pm
by Milllkaaaa
Yes, it is. It is very important to treat babies as well as it is possible. Children are sensitive. They learn from us everythink. our behaviours is connected with futhure character of our child.

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2014 12:57 pm
by tweetycuty
Yes , how we treat babies is really very important. We should take care of them with love and affection and it will have major impact on their behavior .

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Thu Nov 13, 2014 11:08 am
by jamsmith
yes of course it matters. Our Children learn what we want them to learn, they are just raw material we can mould them anyway we want. When they grow up and become adult then their activities and thoughts are the reflection of our lesson which we had given them at the time when they were growing

Re: Does it really matter how we treat babies?

Posted: Wed Nov 19, 2014 4:37 am
by SebaAdasme
Yes, it matters totally! Even the most recently researches about babies show us that earlier treatment is very important because affect in different ways along their lives. On the one hand, there exist psychological effects in order to improve the affectional development; meanwhile, on the other hand, there exist neurological effects too in the stimulation that they receive. So, in sum, how you treat babies is very important to general development, even although they couldn't remember specific actions, but it affects in other ways.