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Postby julka » Mon Mar 27, 2006 8:18 am

hi everybody.
marriages between pipl of the same sex is smth rather new in the world. And there will always be thousands of different opinions: some1 saying oh ~, how is it possible, why does our government allows these marriages; some1 says ok it's up to them, why not; and the religious point of view will always be NO. There will be falways pro and con. If you wanna know my opinion, I'am not against, and I'm not 100% for these mattiages. I'll explain why: to me it seem very uncommon. but from the other hand I can understand those pipl (same sex couples) - they do not like people of the opposite sex. In some cases it is because of nature, in others smth else. So what of that? WE HAVE NO RIGHT TO JUDGE THEM. ONLY GOD IS THEIR GUDGE. if they are happy with each other, why not. Though frankly speaking when i saw Elton Jonh and his fiance wedding, i was touched. That was so lovely, and the same time a bit funny. Two guys, and they are husband and WHO?????
Life is a strange thing, you know.

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Postby MissLT » Mon Mar 27, 2006 8:23 am

julka wrote: Though frankly speaking when i saw Elton Jonh and his fiance wedding, i was touched. That was so lovely, and the same time a bit funny. Two guys, and they are husband and WHO?????
Life is a strange thing, you know.

I believe one is less feminine than the other. Or you can put it as less gay :lol: :lol: . That one is the bride. Heh heh heh heh...

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Postby julka » Mon Mar 27, 2006 8:27 am

you know some weeks ago, there was kind of a discussion in our country. I'll explain. Gays and lesbians wanted to make a gay parade (like those in other european countries). BUT: our government and church forbided them to engage in this kind of things. I guess that is right cuz our pipl didn't get used to such kind of feasts.Though there're lot of gays in our show business, in our government, schools and wherever :wink:

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Postby julka » Mon Mar 27, 2006 8:30 am

[quote="LennyeTran"][quote="julka"] That one is the bride. Heh heh heh heh...
Sounds funny. HE IS A BRIDE. Isn't it? :) where our world goes??? what will be next??? :?

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Postby MissLT » Mon Mar 27, 2006 8:38 am

julka wrote:you know some weeks ago, there was kind of a discussion in our country. I'll explain. Gays and lesbians wanted to make a gay parade (like those in other european countries). BUT: our government and church forbided them to engage in this kind of things. I guess that is right cuz our pipl didn't get used to such kind of feasts.Though there're lot of gays in our show business, in our government, schools and wherever :wink:

Awwww... what a pity! If you had been to any gay parade, then you would have known how fun it would be. My aunt and uncle from Vietnam came to the States to visit us last year were so amazed with the San Francisco gay parade.

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Postby MissLT » Mon Mar 27, 2006 8:41 am

julka wrote:Sounds funny. HE IS A BRIDE. Isn't it? :) where our world goes??? what will be next??? :?

I don't know which one is the bride, but we had our discussion in Current News and I remember saying the thin man was the bride. "Gotta watch my girly figure, my dear" :lol: :lol:

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Postby julka » Mon Mar 27, 2006 8:55 am

Yeah, i have not been to gay parades, but have seen different gay shows in clubs. That was really fascinating, i must say, and really beautiful. I like gays cuz they are different from other guys (i mean their gestures, habits, manners) and i really think they are sweet and lovely :wink:

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Postby MissLT » Mon Mar 27, 2006 8:59 am

julka wrote:Yeah, i have not been to gay parades, but have seen different gay shows in clubs. That was really fascinating, i must say, and really beautiful. I like gays cuz they are different from other guys (i mean their gestures, habits, manners) and i really think they are sweet and lovely :wink:

The only thing that pisses me off is when gay guys are hot and good-looking. I mean, can they at least be bi and not completely gay?

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Postby julka » Mon Mar 27, 2006 9:17 am

Good question. But i think if he is gay, then he is every inch a gay. that's life buddy. If I'm natural, tham I'm natural to the marrow of my bones.

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Postby julka » Mon Mar 27, 2006 9:22 am

bis and gays are different. a complete gay will not be interested in ladies, like a usuaul guy can't be interested in a man, cuz he feels disgust even at the thought.

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Postby MissLT » Tue Mar 28, 2006 12:31 am

julka wrote:Good question. But i think if he is gay, then he is every inch a gay. that's life buddy. If I'm natural, tham I'm natural to the marrow of my bones.

Uh huh.

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Postby MissLT » Tue Mar 28, 2006 12:32 am

julka wrote:bis and gays are different. a complete gay will not be interested in ladies, like a usuaul guy can't be interested in a man, cuz he feels disgust even at the thought.

I knew that. That's why I said I hoped he was at least bi and not completely gay, for he would date women if he was a bi.

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Postby mseko » Wed Mar 29, 2006 2:18 am

Do we really want to regulate love? Why do we want to try to stop people from making loving committments to one another?

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Postby Boris » Fri Mar 31, 2006 1:26 pm

For my opinion the most dangerous thing in this field is that they want to foster baby. I think that it’s impossible to grown up to absolutely normal human is such medium.

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Postby MissLT » Fri Mar 31, 2006 6:13 pm

Boris wrote:For my opinion the most dangerous thing in this field is that they want to foster baby. I think that it’s impossible to grown up to absolutely normal human is such medium.

Is this your theory or you indeed have proofs?

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Postby Boris » Fri Mar 31, 2006 7:45 pm

It’s my opinion and making an experiment in this area is equal to breaking someone life.

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Postby MissLT » Fri Mar 31, 2006 8:06 pm

Boris wrote:It’s my opinion and making an experiment in this area is equal to breaking someone life.

Whose life? You mean the life of a little child who could finally have a home coming from a homosexual couple or what?

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Postby Boris » Fri Mar 31, 2006 8:12 pm

Yes I think about child.

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Postby MissLT » Fri Mar 31, 2006 8:22 pm

Boris wrote:Yes I think about child.

If you did think about the child, then you would know what every child needed was a home. A home! Not just a home of straight people or gay people. Just a home! And if any adult could give an orphan a home, we should embrace that idea. You or social psychologists have no proofs that a child would turn gay if he/she lives with homosexual parents. Just because you have your hypothetical ideas of this you would throw away a thought that a child would finally have a home?!?!?!??! If this is just, I would rather be gay to not belong in the same group.

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Postby Boris » Fri Mar 31, 2006 8:50 pm

First of all I know that parents are most important examples for every child. You right I haven’t any proofs but you haven’t it too. And sometime it’s better to live without any home then have many serious problems during all life. Do you ready to take this responsibility?

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Postby Tora » Fri Mar 31, 2006 9:25 pm

Boris wrote:First of all I know that parents are most important examples for every child. You right I haven’t any proofs but you haven’t it too. And sometime it’s better to live without any home then have many serious problems during all life. Do you ready to take this responsibility?

may i join your passionate conversation?

Boris, you can't judge as far as you were an orphan and were involved in all this kind of struggle. otherwise it's impossible to speak about! Every child needs a home, and this is something i share with Lennye! Sure, for my own child i would like her or him (or them :roll: ) to be straight, otherwise i'll take it for granted, i mean their being different... The family means too much for a child and it does't matter wether parents are gay, lesbian or orthodox christians... the only thing that is obligatory is their loving care to the child! :!:


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