You are talking about the consequences of that horrible situation but what about the causes?.
Do the others have responbilities for this crime ?
LadyMacbeth wrote:Last week 14 years old girl committed suicide after being sexually abused during a lesson (the teacher was momentary absent).
Buys dragged her clothes and underwear off and made some photos of her then.
She ran away from school at once and committed suicide cause she couldn't cope with humiliation she had experienced.
LadyMacbeth wrote:Today these boys have been sentenced for 3 months of arrest. In my country no real punishment for adolesents:(.
.Certainly, those boys did a nasty thing. But one thing bothers me here. I feel that she overreacted. She didn't call her mother or her farther or anybody else before committing suicide, did she? Why not?
If she had called her parents they must have helped her to get though it. When I try to look upon this incident from her parents standpoint I understand
that I simply want one thing. I would want to have chance to help her to relieve her pain. That's it. Did she give them that chance?
And one more point. It seems that she was from very conservative family and they hadn't talked a lot about sex. It might have helped a little. The motive of those boys may have been not humiliation but rather sexual desire. Was it proved that they had wanted to get her down by doing this? I mean that boys typically try to humilite other boys not girls in order to gain a certain status. In contrast towards girls they often do sexual things and not humiliative ones
LadyMacbeth wrote:Another thing is why the girl was silent? Because she was humiliated. She was terribly humiliated. I think humiliation is something much deeper than you can judge at the first sight. I mean - sometimes someone can humilate you very much without taking off your underwear and simulating sexual activity etc. And from my point of view it was something like that. She was simply very humiliated thus she committed suicide. It is very difficult to explain it to me but I think I am right at this point.
LadyMacbeth wrote:Then I would put the responsibility for all people who were in this class and were watching these deeds.
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