Do you think there is pure friendship between men and women?

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Postby sweets » Sat Jul 21, 2007 8:24 am

in my countery the relationship between men and women is forbbiden at all i do not know why they say cuz. of traditions i really wish to broke this law :cry: but in my opionion it will take years in my homeland to have a pure freindship between men and women cuz. all relations now are interesting on body and sex.


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No sex before marriage !

Postby Bambang » Sat Jul 21, 2007 9:00 am

Don't have sex before marriage, dear.

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Postby sweets » Sat Jul 21, 2007 10:32 am

DONOT WORRY ABOUT THAT UNCLE :wink:

i decide not maarige till i find who desrive me and i find :oops: but we face many problems we do not know how to solve :cry: :cry:



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Postby Vega » Sat Jul 21, 2007 11:45 am

[quote"sweets"]in my countery the relationship between men and women is forbbiden at all i do not know why they say cuz. of traditions i really wish to broke this law.[/quote]

Are you from Iran or China ?

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Postby Bambang » Sat Jul 21, 2007 1:30 pm

Dear Xkalibur.

This uncle is from Indonesia.

It doesn't matter where my child, Sweets, is from.

Is Sweets from Iran, or China, or Africa, or nowhere?

That's not the point.

The point is : do not you dare to make fun of Sweets, or fool or mock Sweets or even hurt my child's heart.

Bear in mind !!!


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Postby sweets » Sat Jul 21, 2007 5:08 pm

well iam form arabian country thank u uncle for this speech :)


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Postby tinsch » Thu Sep 20, 2007 7:42 pm

I think a relationship betweet men and women can work when both, the man and the woman, make an effort . sometimes you have to work really hard on it - but in which relationship you don't have to do that?

In my opinion men should waste less thoughts on sex and everything will work :lol: - no, just kidding.

And do we always have to fall in love with our mates? I don't think so, cause there can also be a bond without 'really deep feelings' and sex . definitely .

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Postby Ayan » Tue Oct 09, 2007 3:12 am

It's nice to know you! :wink:
I think probable result! :D
It is easy to talk for me.
Because it is a friend of the other sex :!:
I think not to have friendship to do with sex.

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Re: Do you think there is pure friendship between men and women?

Postby denriza » Fri Feb 05, 2010 8:44 am

Yes, that a pure frienship should be everlasting during we can keep this friendship, without distinguish between men and women, because God created men as partner for women.

Go..... friendship between us.

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Postby SuMoNe » Sat Feb 06, 2010 11:06 am

well to me i find it possible to have this kind of friendship coz i already have, but i guess in my own country it's hard for some ppl to believe in that or at least keep it for along time, that's y the relationship usually shifts to deal with other issues such as love, sex..etc ending to the break up in some cases.

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Postby Najlooolah » Fri Feb 12, 2010 4:12 pm

SuMoNe wrote:well to me i find it possible to have this kind of friendship coz i already have, but i guess in my own country it's hard for some ppl to believe in that or at least keep it for along time, that's y the relationship usually shifts to deal with other issues such as love, sex..etc ending to the break up in some cases.




yeah true ,

when friendship takes another way " love , sex etc '

we can't say it's pure ,aren't we ?

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Re: Do you think there is pure friendship between men and women?

Postby SuMoNe » Fri Feb 12, 2010 5:24 pm

Najlooolah wrote:
SuMoNe wrote:well to me i find it possible to have this kind of friendship coz i already have, but i guess in my own country it's hard for some ppl to believe in that or at least keep it for along time, that's y the relationship usually shifts to deal with other issues such as love, sex..etc ending to the break up in some cases.




yeah true ,

when friendship takes another way " love , sex etc '

we can't say it's pure ,aren't we ?


Nope, not anymore :-( ..& it's gonna b hard 2 fix it up

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Re: Do you think there is pure friendship between men and women?

Postby lyphan » Tue Mar 30, 2010 2:14 pm

I'm a woman. Most of my close friends are men. And I really find no difficulty to get on well with them.
A pure friendship between a man and a woman is quite common, i think there are no problem if we identify and do our best to maintain it.

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Re: Do you think there is pure friendship between men and women?

Postby olgav » Tue Apr 13, 2010 9:17 pm

yes, I truly think that a real friendship might exist between a man and a woman. Why not?
sometimes it's easier to trust a person of the opposite sex and you can find a different approach to deal with subjects.
In my opinion true friendship doesn't distinguish sexes but feelings.

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Postby sweethuman » Thu Jul 07, 2011 11:03 am

I dont think so if there can be good friendship between a man and a woman. As if you leave them alone in a room the only point you will be attracted to is that (...). So that friendship doesnt mean alot, if it is only for a purpose.

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Postby Elisa » Sun Aug 07, 2011 11:31 am

Yes, I think it can exist and when it happens is better than between people of the same sex.

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Re: Do you think there is pure friendship between men and wo

Postby adle » Mon Oct 31, 2011 3:10 am

that's a hard one, i have really good male friends that i must admit i considered dating more than once. when you find someone who clicks with you so well to be a close friend of the opposite sex its hard not to be attracted. i guess it all depends on how far one will take the attraction and weigh what is more important.

maybe such a platonic relationship does exist but just based on my own experience, its a feat.

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Re: Do you think there is pure friendship between men and wo

Postby allison » Tue Jan 31, 2012 2:54 pm

Xavia wrote:Do you think there is pure friendship between men and women?
Tell us your opinion. Thanks.


I wish I am a man then I could answer this, but I can share my opinion.

Nothing is impossible in this world. I guess the conflict between men and women started from the old teachings of our forefathers. The battle between a man and a woman is very obvious even at present... other people forgot to consider that people who belong to the same gender has it's own battle too and possibly be using the opposite sex as a front to win their own fight. If this is not corrected I guess pure friendship is impossible... but time is changing men and women alike is becoming more literate now. They are learning how to judge by their own and freeing themselves from the cell of the old tips or counsel... I guess, it's not impossible... there are lucky ones whom I believe found themselves in this kind of friendship.
Good luck!

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Re: Do you think there is pure friendship between men and wo

Postby Lucia » Mon Mar 19, 2012 10:18 am

I think it is a feat to have a friendship with a person of the opposite sex. I haven't experienced it...it is too hard. A friend is not a colleage that's why this is a short way to love.

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Re: Do you think there is pure friendship between men and wo

Postby Tofayelbd » Fri Mar 23, 2012 6:14 pm

Naturally men and woman feel attraction each other, but pure friendship are rare. Mostly we are attract each other for our physical requirement.

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Re: Do you think there is pure friendship between men and wo

Postby Krisi » Sun Apr 08, 2012 2:24 am

maybe. Honestly speaking, even if my friend is a female I cannot understand why for some reasons they believe on what they hear and follow their wrong feelings so I guess friendship with the opposite sex is just the same.


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