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Postby fortminor » Mon Aug 14, 2006 3:54 pm

danyet wrote:
fortminor wrote:I don't care what society tells me,too !
right now in my country so many people do whatever they prefer .
Its just my personal Idea .
I don't think that you think!


:lol: I just try to look at your sentence as a tasteless kidding !

tradition ? I dont accept in all of 'em .I just do whatever I prefer .

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Postby Seafarer » Mon Aug 14, 2006 6:05 pm

HUH,the guys in my country want to marry with a virgin girl.If they want it,i want the same.I want to marry with a virgin man :evil:

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Postby fortminor » Mon Aug 14, 2006 6:56 pm

Seafarer wrote:I want to marry with a virgin man


me too

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Postby Hardi » Mon Aug 14, 2006 7:29 pm

I'm a virgin man. But since all virgin men are losers or impotent, u don't wanna to marry with me

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Postby fortminor » Mon Aug 14, 2006 7:32 pm

Hardi wrote:I'm a virgin man. But since all virgin men are losers or impotent, u don't wanna to marry with me


why losers?

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Postby MissLT » Mon Aug 14, 2006 7:38 pm

Hardi wrote:I'm a virgin man. But since all virgin men are losers or impotent, u don't wanna to marry with me

:shock: I can't believe you would say it out loud. I thought it was a secret between me and you. :lol: :lol:

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Postby fortminor » Mon Aug 14, 2006 7:40 pm

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Hardi wrote:I'm a virgin man. But since all virgin men are losers or impotent, u don't wanna to marry with me

:shock: I can't believe you would say it out loud. I thought it was a secret between me and you. :lol: :lol:


:lol: and me !

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Postby Anahita » Mon Aug 14, 2006 8:53 pm

I am virgin but more because it’s a respected tradition in our family but honestly I always liked to have some experiences about sex before getting married (in a safe way I mean). Its good you know how to deal with sex and its problems and know your desires from a new angle before you decide to have a long time relationship. And I don’t care if my man is virgin or not, in fact its better if he isn’t virgin cause he knows how to treat me professionally! :wink: :lol: All I want of my man is to stay faithful to me as long as we are together and I be his only woman in life and I will do the same for him. simple as this 8)

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Postby fortminor » Mon Aug 14, 2006 8:56 pm

Anahita wrote: its better if he isn’t virgin cause he knows how to treat me professionally!


maybe your right :lol:

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Postby Anahita » Mon Aug 14, 2006 9:21 pm

Hardi wrote:I'm a virgin man. But since all virgin men are losers or impotent, u don't wanna to marry with me


You sure? :lol: i think they are just a little shy :wink: and i doubt you are that shy Hardi! :P :wink: :lol:

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Postby Anahita » Mon Aug 14, 2006 10:08 pm

fortminor wrote:
Anahita wrote: its better if he isn’t virgin cause he knows how to treat me professionally!


maybe your right :lol:


*giggles* :lol:

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Postby Seafarer » Tue Aug 15, 2006 10:34 am

UHH..there are still some virgin men on the earth? Come on,they cannot be losers.That makes them more attractive :P
Indeed,i would like to have some experiences before getting married.However i am not sure whether some guys deserve it :twisted:

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Postby Lalee » Tue Aug 15, 2006 2:56 pm

Seafarer wrote:UHH..there are still some virgin men on the earth? Come on,they cannot be losers.That makes them more attractive :P
Indeed,i would like to have some experiences before getting married.However i am not sure whether some guys deserve it :twisted:

I think this thread is funny and I'm very surprised by some answers.
You know, I think you have to be really sure the first time you do it and with whom you do it. As you said, some guys don't deserve it. If you don't want to regret it. Don't rush yourself and wait until the right guy comes?

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Postby vince90 » Tue Aug 15, 2006 3:08 pm

Anahita wrote:I am virgin but more because it’s a respected tradition in our family but honestly I always liked to have some experiences about sex before getting married (in a safe way I mean). Its good you know how to deal with sex and its problems and know your desires from a new angle before you decide to have a long time relationship. And I don’t care if my man is virgin or not, in fact its better if he isn’t virgin cause he knows how to treat me professionally! :wink: :lol: All I want of my man is to stay faithful to me as long as we are together and I be his only woman in life and I will do the same for him. simple as this 8)


You’re absolutely right. People need to understand each other in both personality and sexuality before getting married. You want to have a relationship with your partner for long time , not just a few weeks or a few months then breaking up due to the problems come from between you and your partner. To me the most importance things for a couple are kindness, loving, respectful, forgiveness, accepted and helping each other to cope with the daily life.

Virgin is an old term and not importance to me. In between two women, I would marry a prostitute who understand and respect me rather than a virgin girl who just knows herself :wink: :wink:

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Postby zaman » Tue Aug 15, 2006 3:20 pm

yes , but in my opinion keep virginity for the husband that awarding girl her dignity
and make her precious . and make her respect her body .

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Postby vince90 » Tue Aug 15, 2006 5:06 pm

zaman wrote:yes , but in my opinion keep virginity for the husband that awarding girl her dignity
and make her precious . and make her respect her body .


That is fine. For me I really don’t care about it. As long as she loves me than I am fine.

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Postby Seafarer » Tue Aug 15, 2006 5:38 pm

Then..as the men don't marry as a virgin..so they are not precious? Only woman is precious when she keeps her virginity?

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Postby vince90 » Tue Aug 15, 2006 6:01 pm

vince90 wrote:
zaman wrote:yes , but in my opinion keep virginity for the husband that awarding girl her dignity
and make her precious . and make her respect her body .


That is fine. For me I really don’t care about it. As long as she loves me then I am fine.

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I agree with you.

Postby Shamooh » Fri Aug 18, 2006 4:50 pm

fortminor wrote:for me its important ,too . I just wanna have sex with my husband and i'll remain virgin till marriage .


I'm strongly agree with you fortmimor that we should be virgin until we married. On top of that in my religion it is denies having a sex until you married. Also it bans us from having a sex after marriage with other person except our husbands. I emphasize on the religion instructions. More over, having sex with your husband only will protect you from many diseases such as the AIDS.

Thank you.

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Postby Shamooh » Fri Aug 18, 2006 4:51 pm

I'm strongly agree with you fortmimor that we should be virgin until we married. On top of that in my religion it is denies having a sex until you married. Also it bans us from having a sex after marriage with other person except our husbands. I emphasize on the religion instructions. More over, having sex with your husband only will protect you from many diseases such as the AIDS.

Thank you.

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Postby eman » Sat Aug 19, 2006 5:00 am

i agree with my firend Shamooh
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