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Postby Anahita » Mon Aug 14, 2006 10:08 pm

fortminor wrote:
Anahita wrote: its better if he isn’t virgin cause he knows how to treat me professionally!


maybe your right :lol:


*giggles* :lol:

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Postby Seafarer » Tue Aug 15, 2006 10:34 am

UHH..there are still some virgin men on the earth? Come on,they cannot be losers.That makes them more attractive :P
Indeed,i would like to have some experiences before getting married.However i am not sure whether some guys deserve it :twisted:

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Postby Lalee » Tue Aug 15, 2006 2:56 pm

Seafarer wrote:UHH..there are still some virgin men on the earth? Come on,they cannot be losers.That makes them more attractive :P
Indeed,i would like to have some experiences before getting married.However i am not sure whether some guys deserve it :twisted:

I think this thread is funny and I'm very surprised by some answers.
You know, I think you have to be really sure the first time you do it and with whom you do it. As you said, some guys don't deserve it. If you don't want to regret it. Don't rush yourself and wait until the right guy comes?

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Postby vince90 » Tue Aug 15, 2006 3:08 pm

Anahita wrote:I am virgin but more because it’s a respected tradition in our family but honestly I always liked to have some experiences about sex before getting married (in a safe way I mean). Its good you know how to deal with sex and its problems and know your desires from a new angle before you decide to have a long time relationship. And I don’t care if my man is virgin or not, in fact its better if he isn’t virgin cause he knows how to treat me professionally! :wink: :lol: All I want of my man is to stay faithful to me as long as we are together and I be his only woman in life and I will do the same for him. simple as this 8)


You’re absolutely right. People need to understand each other in both personality and sexuality before getting married. You want to have a relationship with your partner for long time , not just a few weeks or a few months then breaking up due to the problems come from between you and your partner. To me the most importance things for a couple are kindness, loving, respectful, forgiveness, accepted and helping each other to cope with the daily life.

Virgin is an old term and not importance to me. In between two women, I would marry a prostitute who understand and respect me rather than a virgin girl who just knows herself :wink: :wink:

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Postby zaman » Tue Aug 15, 2006 3:20 pm

yes , but in my opinion keep virginity for the husband that awarding girl her dignity
and make her precious . and make her respect her body .

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Postby vince90 » Tue Aug 15, 2006 5:06 pm

zaman wrote:yes , but in my opinion keep virginity for the husband that awarding girl her dignity
and make her precious . and make her respect her body .


That is fine. For me I really don’t care about it. As long as she loves me than I am fine.

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Postby Seafarer » Tue Aug 15, 2006 5:38 pm

Then..as the men don't marry as a virgin..so they are not precious? Only woman is precious when she keeps her virginity?

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Postby vince90 » Tue Aug 15, 2006 6:01 pm

vince90 wrote:
zaman wrote:yes , but in my opinion keep virginity for the husband that awarding girl her dignity
and make her precious . and make her respect her body .


That is fine. For me I really don’t care about it. As long as she loves me then I am fine.

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I agree with you.

Postby Shamooh » Fri Aug 18, 2006 4:50 pm

fortminor wrote:for me its important ,too . I just wanna have sex with my husband and i'll remain virgin till marriage .


I'm strongly agree with you fortmimor that we should be virgin until we married. On top of that in my religion it is denies having a sex until you married. Also it bans us from having a sex after marriage with other person except our husbands. I emphasize on the religion instructions. More over, having sex with your husband only will protect you from many diseases such as the AIDS.

Thank you.

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Postby Shamooh » Fri Aug 18, 2006 4:51 pm

I'm strongly agree with you fortmimor that we should be virgin until we married. On top of that in my religion it is denies having a sex until you married. Also it bans us from having a sex after marriage with other person except our husbands. I emphasize on the religion instructions. More over, having sex with your husband only will protect you from many diseases such as the AIDS.

Thank you.

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Postby eman » Sat Aug 19, 2006 5:00 am

i agree with my firend Shamooh
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Postby Admiral » Sat Aug 19, 2006 1:32 pm

I think it's a prove that you are a sensible human with law and order if you wait a little before doing it.
And however I think it's not worth giving one your precious body before you are sure about the love 100%.

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Postby Danyet » Sat Aug 19, 2006 5:22 pm

This whole thread is a joke! All of you here act as though women are doing the men a favour if they have sex with them. What a disgusting thought!
It is no wonder that the whole world is so messed up when the most rudimentary and basic human intinct has been converted into a "favour" that a woman either "donates" OR buy things with.
This would never have happened if men acted like men instead of whining little girly-men who jump when at a woman's mere whim in the hopes that someday she will have sex with him!

Poor creatures, if only they could be like me!

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Postby MissLT » Sat Aug 19, 2006 8:00 pm

Shamooh wrote:I'm strongly agree with you fortmimor that we should be virgin until we married. On top of that in my religion it is denies having a sex until you married. Also it bans us from having a sex after marriage with other person except our husbands. I emphasize on the religion instructions. More over, having sex with your husband only will protect you from many diseases such as the AIDS.

Thank you.

I find it sad somehow.

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Postby Elba » Sat Aug 19, 2006 11:01 pm

Virginity? What is that?
I know many girls that want to be virgin untill married, but they want to have a sex experience, then they decide to have sex in another ways. I mean oral sex, sodomi, etc. My question is:
ARE THEY REALY VIRGIN?

Why those girls want to be virgin untill married if their brain is as perverted as the evil.

Is better to have sex with the woman/men you like, with out any moral or religion chain, is better to know your future wife/housband. Imagine if you get married and after that you discover your wife/housband like to do sexual things you don´t like? Is better before than after.

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Postby Admiral » Sat Aug 19, 2006 11:59 pm

Elba wrote:Virginity? What is that?
I know many girls that want to be virgin untill married, but they want to have a sex experience, then they decide to have sex in another ways. I mean oral sex, sodomi, etc. My question is:
ARE THEY REALY VIRGIN?


Yeah Elba that's an interesting thought, no doubt that you are a little older than me.

I rather thought of a different reason: If one has sex very early he mostly is very curios, if he is curios he won't wear condom, if he does'nt wear condom the girl gets a child, if she has a child he and she will end education very early, they won't get education, they ruin their life.

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Why those girls want to be virgin untill married if their brain is as perverted as the evil.
You know what makes my fiancee special to others? She doesn't have such a perverted brain.

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Postby Dixie » Sun Aug 20, 2006 9:37 am

Elba wrote:Is better to have sex with the woman/men you like, with out any moral or religion chain, is better to know your future wife/housband. Imagine if you get married and after that you discover your wife/housband like to do sexual things you don´t like? Is better before than after.


Exactly!!! What if you marry someone before having sex with them and once married it turns out you're not compatible in bed? Or that you like different things or whatever. The thought of remaining a virgin until you marry sounds so primitive to me.

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Postby shokin » Sun Aug 20, 2006 11:53 am

Virginity is only one part of a process, the beginning. :lol:

So many people dream of virginity. Too many of them drink Virgin Cola. :shock:

Purity is an utopy, a death without life.

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Postby Admiral » Sun Aug 20, 2006 2:46 pm

I was thinking, maybe that's an excuse for those who don't want to know the other before going to bed.

Why is waiting to have sex with your husband/wife an utopy?

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Postby Seafarer » Sun Aug 20, 2006 6:50 pm

Waiting husband for having sex is not utophic for me The matter is,if my husband will be virgin too,THAT will make me happier Lol

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Postby Rui » Sun Aug 20, 2006 7:22 pm

im just wondering.. and those that dont want to get marriage, are not allowed to do sex :lol: :lol: :lol:


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